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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sakshi-

umdu - agree with you, if husband is older than wife , he pampers her , in this case, suraj doesn't look much older than sandhya & he pampers her too.. they both are perfectly matched & i too wish kissi ki nazar na lage . Anas came in an interview show on star plus (now ABP news) sheela shagun meenakshi, he was asked about his relationship with sandhya , he replied when he got married he felt he was a kid to bhabo for so many yrs, for the love he got from her & now it was the time to give that love to his wife by making her his kid.. we could laugh over whst he said but sandhya isn't a kid for him thogh he loves her uncontionally


bhuddinie - agree with you too... surya is our perfect beautiful life partners... love & understanding are the 2 imp. things in a marriage which they both possess very well. .. suraj's speech was too touchy & real.. thanks for appreciating the post dear, i don't know how it just came to my mind. where do you live & what's your name

You have a brilliant mind dear,that's why such things come to your mind...😊feel free to share with us what's come to your mind...for sure it'll rock...😉
By the way it's my real name that i use in IF ,Buddhinie & i live not so far away from you,I'm in Srilanka...⭐️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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if u ask me about Surya exact age, i m still confused. as per SP Suraj is in thirties and Sandy is 19yrs old. Sandhya age is perfect as per SP as a 14th pass girl is normally 19 yrs

Now as per various episodes Sandy age as per passport is 22yrs (year of birth 1990) and Suraj age is 28yrs (year of birth 1984). As per Bhabo she sometimes say 27yrs & sometimes 28yrs, so Suraj is 27-28 yrs.
As per CV there sometimes say he start cooking at age of 13 & sometimes at the age of 14 .
Anways according to you topic age gap doesn't matter unless both have understanding , respect & love for each other.
thanks for creating this topic..as this was in my mind since couple of months
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Real time age difference is only 5 years... :) but in story it's 12 years.. :( :(
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I loveee..The Age gap..aise I dint knowit till this post that they have such a big age gap..GOSH..I am so busy drooling ..you see..🤬🤣..But I loveee..A gap where Man is elder to hsi beloved..there is more romance & love in it..I have always felt it that way..err emm its more sexy..you seee..😛😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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now Sooraj is 28 and Sandhya 20. So the age diff is 8 years. And I believe maturity has nothing to do with age. They're just perfect with each other
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Posted: 12 years ago
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As a reel life couple...SurYa complement each other in many ways...but yes there is a roughly 8 years age gap between them...and it shows. Even in real life Deepika is much younger than Anas...who is I'm guessing is about 30 or 31. I guess the actors were chosen because among other things they fit the physical description of the roles.
Having said that...I personally do not like such a large age gap. I remember when I was little my mom used to say that a good age gap between husband and wife is crucial...because women age/mature faster than men...I guess for her it boiled down to a marital security issue. But I don't agree. I know someone who is 11 years younger than her husband...for another acquaintence the age difference is a whopping 21 years...both have complaints that they have trouble relating to their spouses...😕...it's not just a matter of liking and disliking the same things...mentally too...they're on a totally different plane...so the understanding is harder to develop.
Perhaps the age difference between SurYa isn't so hard for us to swallow...because the understanding needed between a husband and wife is there. And I give Suraj full credit for that...he's bent over backwards to love and understand his wife...while she has spent her time bending over backwards in an effort to understand Bhabo...😆
On a fun note...there is actually a study out there...I think by science daily or something...that the greater the age difference of the wife from the husband...the shorter the life expectancy for the wife. 😕 😆
Edited by ummesulaiman - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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saibal - i know even if the age difference was 3-4 yrs. , it would have been fine

fizak - good observation about their age.. i didn't notice it in their passports

harathi - thanks for giving their ages

hema - i know you would always drool over a couple like surya & ya if the hubby is older he would be romantic for sure but he should ignore if he feels she is childish.. & i got your next point .. it will be always there for you.. . was Bandhini about that.. i am not sure

june - truely , they are perfect

ummesulaiman - an age gap of 10 yrs. was considered to be very good for a marriage till a few yrs. ago & even when my mom & aunts got marriage ..nowadays , 1-2 yrs. gap is fine , provided both have the understanding .. reel & real life is a lot diff but if thru the shows the relationship bet hubby & wife becomes good despite their huge age gap.. they can benefit from it
the credits you have given to suraj & sandhya for bending backwards is awesome
this life expectancy you have mentioned is interesting.. i didn't know about this.. if you don't mind my asking whta's your name dear ?

budddhinie - there's nothing brilliant about my mind..& i am not good in making posts but your words are sweet.. I live far away from you.. actually in US & i am most of the time late in replying to the posts due to the time gap but the show & the forum keeps us close


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sakshi-

ummesulaiman - an age gap of 10 yrs. was considered to be very good for a marriage till a few yrs. ago & even when my mom & aunts got marriage ..nowadays , 1-2 yrs. gap is fine , provided both have the understanding .. reel & real life is a lot diff but if thru the shows the relationship bet hubby & wife becomes good despite their huge age gap.. they can benefit from it

the credits you have given to suraj & sandhya for bending backwards is awesome
this life expectancy you have mentioned is interesting.. i didn't know about this.. if you don't mind my asking whta's your name dear ?

@ bold: I don't mind your asking at all...i'm Fatima 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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whatever the age gap may be..they are just perfect with each other..!!⭐️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@budddhinie - there's nothing brilliant about my mind..& i am not good in making posts but your words are sweet.. I live far away from you.. actually in US & i am most of the time late in replying to the posts due to the time gap but the show & the forum keeps us close

Oh sry sakshi,i thought you are in India...I totally agree with you in that case..'the show & the forum keeps us close'...That's why we're talking so sweetly even without kowing each other...
Edited by Buddhinie - 12 years ago

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