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Recently I've been seeing so many posts on the forum saying that the only thing Jeevika has done for Maanvi is JUST abort her baby.. And honestly I find it disgusting.
I'm not a mother myself but I have seen people close to me lose a child, and one person almost lost her child. My mum herself had a miscarriage. And it completely broke them, I can't explain to you the amount of tears they cried.
A woman carries her child, and feels such a bond with the child that no-one can explain it, not even the mothers themselves can explain it in words just how amazing and special that bond is.
And here Jeevika aborted the baby. With her grief she is probably also feeling guilt, as she herself gave up her baby for her sister.
If your sister gave up her baby for you, would you think it's a small thing?
If your sister saved your life by sacrificing her child, would you think it's a small thing?
If the only reason you are still breathing is your sister, would you still think she only did a little for you?
If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then to me you simply can't understand how difficult it is to have a child of yours die, regardless of whether that child was born or unborn, and that kind of attitude is simply selfish.
People say Virat has done more for Maanvi because he supported her when his family were against her, and he supported her in hospital when Jeevika was not there..
But Jeevika has supported Maanvi throughout her life! From when they were young till now, she has always been by her side. Doesn't that count for anything? Maanvi herself has said that Jeevika does everything for her, but then why do people think that Virat's couple months of support outweigh Jeevika's years of love and support? Isn't it a bit illogical?
Let's put it the other way.
Lets say Maanvi is pregnant, obviously with Virat's child, but she aborts it to save Jeevika's life, would people still think Maanvi did a small thing, that all she did was abort a her baby, so what?
Or would people think that Maanvi did a lot for Jeevika? I'm sure all fans, even Virika fans and especially VirMan fans would say that Maanvi did so much for Jeevika, and that she saved Jeevika's life and they would acknowledge Viren's support, but at the end of the day her sacrifice is what everyone would think is greater not Viren's support.
Wouldn't VirMan fans feel like Maanvi sacrificed so much, and that Jeevika should be eternally grateful? I doubt any VirMan fan would say 'oh it's hardly anything, all she did was abort her own flesh and blood to say Jeevika, it's nothing compared to Viren's love and support.' So why say that about Jeevika's sacrifice.
People say that Jeevika is like Maanvi's mother and that's why she would do anything for her, and it's expected. So why don't people understand that the child she aborted was her child, and she was the child's mother, so how hard would it have been for her to abort the child?
So why this horrible notion that Jeevika did less than Virat for Maanvi?
This isn't a bashing post.
I personally appreciate all the relationships on the show, but I find it disheartening that people think so little of Jeevika's sacrifice. Before she aborted her baby everyone on the forum seemed to think it was a huge sacrifice, but ever since Maanvi said her di practically is worth more than Virat people started thinking it was a small sacrifice, and some people think it is nothing!
Just because of a few words by Maanvi, doesn't mean Jeevika's sacrifice isn't as honourable.
P.S. I know some people will bash me, but oh well go ahead, I'm prepared for it.😆
P.S.S. I didn't say that all VirMan fans are saying that, I'm not stupid!😆
I'm not a mother myself but I have seen people close to me lose a child, and one person almost lost her child. My mum herself had a miscarriage. And it completely broke them, I can't explain to you the amount of tears they cried.
A woman carries her child, and feels such a bond with the child that no-one can explain it, not even the mothers themselves can explain it in words just how amazing and special that bond is.
And here Jeevika aborted the baby. With her grief she is probably also feeling guilt, as she herself gave up her baby for her sister.
If your sister gave up her baby for you, would you think it's a small thing?
If your sister saved your life by sacrificing her child, would you think it's a small thing?
If the only reason you are still breathing is your sister, would you still think she only did a little for you?
If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then to me you simply can't understand how difficult it is to have a child of yours die, regardless of whether that child was born or unborn, and that kind of attitude is simply selfish.
People say Virat has done more for Maanvi because he supported her when his family were against her, and he supported her in hospital when Jeevika was not there..
But Jeevika has supported Maanvi throughout her life! From when they were young till now, she has always been by her side. Doesn't that count for anything? Maanvi herself has said that Jeevika does everything for her, but then why do people think that Virat's couple months of support outweigh Jeevika's years of love and support? Isn't it a bit illogical?
Let's put it the other way.
Lets say Maanvi is pregnant, obviously with Virat's child, but she aborts it to save Jeevika's life, would people still think Maanvi did a small thing, that all she did was abort a her baby, so what?
Or would people think that Maanvi did a lot for Jeevika? I'm sure all fans, even Virika fans and especially VirMan fans would say that Maanvi did so much for Jeevika, and that she saved Jeevika's life and they would acknowledge Viren's support, but at the end of the day her sacrifice is what everyone would think is greater not Viren's support.
Wouldn't VirMan fans feel like Maanvi sacrificed so much, and that Jeevika should be eternally grateful? I doubt any VirMan fan would say 'oh it's hardly anything, all she did was abort her own flesh and blood to say Jeevika, it's nothing compared to Viren's love and support.' So why say that about Jeevika's sacrifice.
People say that Jeevika is like Maanvi's mother and that's why she would do anything for her, and it's expected. So why don't people understand that the child she aborted was her child, and she was the child's mother, so how hard would it have been for her to abort the child?
So why this horrible notion that Jeevika did less than Virat for Maanvi?
This isn't a bashing post.
I personally appreciate all the relationships on the show, but I find it disheartening that people think so little of Jeevika's sacrifice. Before she aborted her baby everyone on the forum seemed to think it was a huge sacrifice, but ever since Maanvi said her di practically is worth more than Virat people started thinking it was a small sacrifice, and some people think it is nothing!
Just because of a few words by Maanvi, doesn't mean Jeevika's sacrifice isn't as honourable.
P.S. I know some people will bash me, but oh well go ahead, I'm prepared for it.😆
P.S.S. I didn't say that all VirMan fans are saying that, I'm not stupid!😆
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