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Posted: 13 years ago
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Omg! Thank you for this post! It was beautiful! I totally agree with it all...Also, if Jeevika NEVER aborted her child, Manvi would essentially die and that means no VirMan...so, for one to live, another needs to die. And that's what Jeevika sacrificed. I think life is much bigger than love, you can love again (no matter how much true love is), but you'll never have another life. Take your pick.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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awesum post totally agree wid u.. jeevika was there with maanvi throughout her life.. not in particular moments
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lol..we already played pm pm na... bhalayi karo joote khao😆
SUPERB post... i dnt want to give my speech.. m tired lol
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Posted: 13 years ago
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awesome post
Agree with each and every word.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome post. The bit in the blue is perfect. If it was the other way round and Maanvi aborted her baby there's no doubt all Maanvi fans would be talking about the great sacrifice she made, they wouldn't ridicule motherhood like a few fans are.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: anita-92

Beautiful post.

People are feeling sad because Maanvi cares more about Jeevika than about Virat, but Jeevika also cares about Maanvi more than she cares about Viren.

She decided to abort her baby before she even spoke to Viren about it. She put Maanvi first! So, so what if Maanvi actually appreciates it? So what if Maanvi thinks Jeevika has done more for her than Virat. IT'S TRUE!

If Virika fans don't complain so much that Jeevika loves Maanvi too much and not Viren, then why are VirMan fans complaining that Maanvi loves Jeevika more than Virat?

And the way people talk about it is disgusting, calling JeeMaan lovebirds and saying they should be in a relationship and such! Absolutely disgusting.🤢
I guess thinking about incest comes easily to some people.



@Anita: Its true that the sisters value each other more than their partners.. And we all accept it...
Jeevika has done the biggest sacrifice for her sister and its really bad to belittle her..

Maanvi does not think Jeevika has done more for her than Virat... She just loves her sister more. Both sisters love their partners.

So lets not belittle what Virat has done for Maanvi either... He was the first one ready to give his BM.. but unfortunately his did not match... He would go the same extent as jeevika to save Maanvi, but J was the lucky/unlucky one, she had to abort and donate BM which Virat could not... So the love is all the same.. no diff.. But still blood is thicker so sister love each other more.

And about Virika fans not complaining and Virman fans complaining.. What do i say...

Oh Virika fans used to complain and get frustrated during the intial few months of the show. The Behna Maanvi was cursed so much for interfering in the couples life. But as someone has already mentioned in their posts above Virika fans had come to terms with this with time and have accepted to enjoy with what little much they got of their couple...

Now coming to Virman fans.. When the Virman story started , what happened was the CVs ignored the behnas JEEMAN completely(which is bad again) and built up their love along with the cancer track..Its only now for the past few weeks the Virman fans have come to see their fav couple being ignored. So given time may be they may come to terms and accept like Virika fans.
And Virman fans surely do not have any problem with J being first in Ms life. They just want their maanvi to give importance to their Viraat too.. They just want their maanvi who called out for her partner when she was in pain even in her sleep.. Thats it.. They are just annoyed with too much of Diii overdose (the OTT dialogues i mean, which is not the sisters fault but the CVs who gave them such dialogues).. As a neutral Viewer dont u think the sisters are made to go a bit overboard by the CVs with their OTTness. Again its only my POV..

And yeah its really bad ppl call such bad names to the sisters and i am in no way supporting them. But ur post came out as blaming only Virman fans... See this name calling has come out from all 3 sections of fans in the past... So its not right to generalise them... That particular person has a bad mind.. not all fans... And even abt the person who told it , it may have come out at a moment of frustration, but still it cannot be justified...So better not make it into a fans war.. Cos such posts make ppl outrageous... Better than blaming all fans u cud have gone and told that particular person that she was wrong...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: butterfly15..

Recently I've been seeing so many posts on the forum saying that the only thing Jeevika has done for Maanvi is JUST abort her baby.. And honestly I find it disgusting.

I'm not a mother myself but I have seen people close to me lose a child, and one person almost lost her child. My mum herself had a miscarriage. And it completely broke them, I can't explain to you the amount of tears they cried.

A woman carries her child, and feels such a bond with the child that no-one can explain it, not even the mothers themselves can explain it in words just how amazing and special that bond is.

And here Jeevika aborted the baby. With her grief she is probably also feeling guilt, as she herself gave up her baby for her sister.
If your sister gave up her baby for you, would you think it's a small thing?
If your sister saved your life by sacrificing her child, would you think it's a small thing?
If the only reason you are still breathing is your sister, would you still think she only did a little for you?

If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then to me you simply can't understand how difficult it is to have a child of yours die, regardless of whether that child was born or unborn, and that kind of attitude is simply selfish.

People say Virat has done more for Maanvi because he supported her when his family were against her, and he supported her in hospital when Jeevika was not there..

But Jeevika has supported Maanvi throughout her life! From when they were young till now, she has always been by her side. Doesn't that count for anything? Maanvi herself has said that Jeevika does everything for her, but then why do people think that Virat's couple months of support outweigh Jeevika's years of love and support? Isn't it a bit illogical?


Let's put it the other way.
Lets say Maanvi is pregnant, obviously with Virat's child, but she aborts it to save Jeevika's life, would people still think Maanvi did a small thing, that all she did was abort a her baby, so what?
Or would people think that Maanvi did a lot for Jeevika? I'm sure all fans, even Virika fans and especially VirMan fans would say that Maanvi did so much for Jeevika, and that she saved Jeevika's life and they would acknowledge Viren's support, but at the end of the day her sacrifice is what everyone would think is greater not Viren's support.
Wouldn't VirMan fans feel like Maanvi sacrificed so much, and that Jeevika should be eternally grateful? I doubt any VirMan fan would say 'oh it's hardly anything, all she did was abort her own flesh and blood to say Jeevika, it's nothing compared to Viren's love and support.' So why say that about Jeevika's sacrifice.


People say that Jeevika is like Maanvi's mother and that's why she would do anything for her, and it's expected. So why don't people understand that the child she aborted was her child, and she was the child's mother, so how hard would it have been for her to abort the child?

So why this horrible notion that Jeevika did less than Virat for Maanvi?

This isn't a bashing post.
I personally appreciate all the relationships on the show, but I find it disheartening that people think so little of Jeevika's sacrifice. Before she aborted her baby everyone on the forum seemed to think it was a huge sacrifice, but ever since Maanvi said her di practically is worth more than Virat people started thinking it was a small sacrifice, and some people think it is nothing!
Just because of a few words by Maanvi, doesn't mean Jeevika's sacrifice isn't as honourable.


P.S. I know some people will bash me, but oh well go ahead, I'm prepared for it.😆
P.S.S. I didn't say that all VirMan fans are saying that, I'm not stupid!😆

@TM.. Its a good post.. And i am in acceptance with what ever u have said except for what i have highlighted in red. Its just a difference in opinion.. Its my POV like how u have stated urs.

"People say Virat has done more for Maanvi because he supported her when his family were against her, and he supported her in hospital when Jeevika was not there..

But Jeevika has supported Maanvi throughout her life! From when they were young till now, she has always been by her side. Doesn't that count for anything? Maanvi herself has said that Jeevika does everything for her, but then why do people think that Virat's couple months of support outweigh Jeevika's years of love and support? Isn't it a bit illogical? "

My POV:
Before stating my pov, No one can say that Jeevika JUST aborted her baby... Its the biggest sacrifice one has to make as a mother...

We cannot compare love with the amount of time ppl have spend with each other... Its how much we love, and not how long we are in love...

About JEEVIKA: After her parents demise , though there was BBG, BG,Chachu, Chachi to take care of the girls, JEEVIKA as an elder sister has personally taken extra care of maanvi. More like a mother... Sometimes ppl tend to take their loved ones for granted... So if anyone tells jeevika was maanvi's sister and so what she did was her duty and nothing great, then we are again taking jeevika for granted...Yes she is a sister and every sister would do it for her sibling.. But its not something to be taken lightly or for granted... She sacrificed her being a mother for a sister..Its not something small.

About VIRAT: Virat has not been with her just during her few months of cancer... He has been with her from the time he has come to know her.(Cant blame Virat for not being in maanvi's life from her young age.). He has been the only person who has supported Maanvi at all times, when her own kin have not...Who has always stood by her throughout her happiness, sorrow and pain..Who loved her with all his heart...He was not related to her by blood...He has been her strength even before he fell in love with her... He has sacrificed for maanvi in what little ways he knws.. Being a guy its a difficult thing not to socialise and be at home... but he stays by her all time... she comes first to him before his career and before his family and even before himself..

Well one might tell he just cut his hair...If its just abt cutting hair we may again ask why her sister did not..(again not bringing down Jeevika, we know pblm of hair is diff for men and women and that too a married one)... While Jeevika cud abort and give BM, Virat could not.. Do u think he wud have waited for a second if his BM had matched... No...

So i am not in acceptance with the comparison of the term Virats couple of months love and Jeevikas lifelong love. There is nothing illogical here.. There is no comparison between Virat and jeevikas love for maanvi... They both love maanvi equally in their own ways... They have both sacrificed for Maanvi in their own ways...

But as i have stated in my previous post 'Blood is thicker so Maanvi loves jeevika more"


Edited by sennareni - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Love this post! I was really shocked by posts on I-F and F-B about this I was like 'JUST aborted?'.

It's not as if she gave away her packet of crisps, she ended a little foetus to save her sister.

Put yourself in Maanvi's place, put yourself in Jeevika's place then please let me know if you've changed your decision.

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