Utterly Upset!

Hello Saathians, should i even call you all saathians after this bashing and unfriendliness? What i am seeing on this forum has dissappointed me greatly. I remember joining this forum because of the lovely people, the friendly atmosphere the unity and the goodness, but what i see today is not what i joined for! Now dont think i am going to say things and you reaction is 'here we go again' because its not that! Just read to what i have to say. We the forum members are together and have always stuck together in order to bring the CM rank up, discuss the episode everyday, make sure the TRP's are good, we litterally made SNS FORUM and i will repeat SNS FORUM a home. The FORUM is to discuss the episode and talk about positive and negative points, so feel free to do so. BUT why today do i see you all seperating, making different teams? Calling each other bad things, using abusive language? Is this what you want to happen on this FORUM? Do you come here to make members feel upset? I dont think so and so do i not intend to hurt other feeling. So here is a little advice from me. Please keep peace on this FORUM and we dont mind if some of you are really keen on bringing Gia back, at the end of the day we dont know the true and real story. This may be publicity stunt, this may be real, this may be temporary, how do you know? For this are we going to sacrifice the friendships we have made in the past few months/years? I hope you dont want to. So please guys, we dont want member bashing, we should not make teams and call people TRAITORS, if you want to watch the epi them freely watch it, if you dont then dont, no one will stop you. But for your own feelings dont hurt others. So lets remain as good friends and stop the nonsense and i want to see the same atmosphere on this FORUM as it used to be! I really do not like to see members being rude, bashing each other, calling names e.t.c. So lets unite and feel free to post your opinions. We will not bash you nor should you bash anyone! Thank You for reading the post. I hope i got the message accross.

Awesome post famzii! Can i please add a note here instead of creating a seperate thread. This is for yuks! Our resident mod and fire-fighter atm. Yuks i don't envy you your task right now. And i know i am to blame for quite a bit of your headaches. I promise to try and be nice. I really do. So please if you feel i need a kick in the arse please pm me and tell me where to get off. I need that sometimes. Well ok i need that a lot. Maybe. Lol.

Here s a hug for you fahima 🤗. How was your exam???

nice overall post famzii. . . I have been trying to get same point across this morning. . . and also indicated my stand. . . . . but I still respect everyone's take. . .and i also made it clear what i dont like on both sides. . .

Common sense is needed. . what I saw in the morning from both sides was worse was disheartening for the standards of IF SNS forum .. . coz at end of day we all love / once loved LOL. . SNS and have different ways to show that. . . but in most cases considerate posts were not made. . and that led to kiddy arguments and sarcasm that flowed like the Niagra Falls

🤗 It is so sad seeing the divisions and the breakdown of relations. We need to heal and we may need time but I hope for the best.

I can only agree with you and say that I might not have called anyone names apart from darling, dear and lovely 😆 but that I have left snipe comments in posts I felt attacked and that I might think about the 'they started it' excuse, before I answer in snipe again. However I refuse to lose my sarcasm, which defines me but luckily that isn't what you asked.

I would love for all to stop making provoking posts. I wish the people actively working for Giaa's return the best of luck and I wish all who want to just enjoy SNS and the fact that Ahem the Idiot has finally seen the light and find out that his wife is just the best. I just want to have light hearted fun again, talking about tools, grandpa chuddies or asking 007Paragh to find the missing brains of charas or cvs 😆

Originally posted by: Vinder90

nice overall post famzii. . . I have been trying to get same point across this morning. . . and also indicated my stand. . . . . but I still respect everyone's take. . .and i also made it clear what i dont like on both sides. . .

Common sense is needed. . what I saw in the morning from both sides was worse was disheartening for the standards of IF SNS forum .. . coz at end of day we all love / once loved LOL. . SNS and have different ways to show that. . . but in most cases considerate posts were not made. . and that led to kiddy arguments and sarcasm that flowed like the Niagra Falls

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Awesome post famzii! Can i please add a note here instead of creating a seperate thread. This is for yuks! Our resident mod and fire-fighter atm. Yuks i don't envy you your task right now. And i know i am to blame for quite a bit of your headaches. I promise to try and be nice. I really do. So please if you feel i need a kick in the arse please pm me and tell me where to get off. I need that sometimes. Well ok i need that a lot. Maybe. Lol.

Thanks! 😃 Yes Mr Shaun! 😆 you and your comments.. always provoking others to start. nice that you have made a resolution to 'try' and stop! 😆 Good luck with that!

Originally posted by: Ichangedit

I can only agree with you and say that I might not have called anyone names apart from darling, dear and lovely 😆 but that I have left snipe comments in posts I felt attacked and that I might think about the 'they started it' excuse, before I answer in snipe again. However I refuse to lose my sarcasm, which defines me but luckily that isn't what you asked.

I would love for all to stop making provoking posts. I wish the people actively working for Giaa's return the best of luck and I wish all who want to just enjoy SNS and the fact that Ahem the Idiot has finally seen the light and find out that his wife is just the best. I just want to have light hearted fun again, talking about tools, grandpa chuddies or asking 007Paragh to find the missing brains of charas or cvs 😆

Originally posted by: pip23

😲 Niagara falls! Are you from Canada?

Great post btw. My anger isn't towards the Giaa campaigners, just towards those that think only their way is the right one.

No UK . . but been to see the Niagra about twice. . . too awesome. . .

My anger is to no side. .. I am clear on the Bring back Giaa side.. and have nothing against the side that jsut wants to move on and the show must go on side. . .

But I will hapilly take out my anger on anyone who goes over teh top in bashing each other and degrading standars of this forum . .I made my stand heard in my post earlier today . . Big issue is I was largely inactive over this week coz of heavy travelling. . .been away from home for over 5 days now. . . and today in the morning what i saw on the forum was very disheartening. . and I felt had to make some serious post from my side. . . . and i stand by it. . .