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Posted: 13 years ago
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todays episode had a nice dialogue between Disha and Badi Ma in which BM flat out pointed Disha's hypocrisy regarding Elesh's job.

Disha was happy when Elesh was working as a salesman going door to door and anyone who lives in India knows how hard and how tough that job is because people literally slam the door on your face and what not and from what I gather it doesnt pay much. Here as an agent Elesh is basically doing what he does at home...nothing, he just sits there and annoys the director (as us) and he gets paid big bucks for it (hell I would kill for a job like that)

BM asked what exactly Disha's problem was and Disha made it clear (sort of) that it was not Suhana but the fact that Elesh is Suhana's agent. I seriously fail to understand WHY would she have a problem with this...and what the hell is up with the "dhang ki naukri" crap...he gets to sit around in AC room in front of TV stars and monitors all day so why would he give that up for going around door to door to sell crap😕

I fail to understand Disha's logic here...she said "chub ta hai" but WHY does it chubofy you (yes I made that word up)


PS Riddhima stole the show in todays episode once again...the way she did that taunting tone and then her scene with Supriya ji simply great👏👏👏

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think "dhang ki naukri" is just her excuse. I think she can say what she wants but her problem is not Elesh. I think she is jealous of Suhana. She always says things about Suhana's shooting like today she said that the entire Kashyap family wants to go see Suhana's shooting. I think she is a little green with envy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dunno its very vague the way they're showing it because sometimes it seems that she is really jealous of Suhana because of the way people act around her like the whole Rajni telling her to make coffee thing...other times she's pissed off at Elesh like todays episode. I feel like she herself doesn't know what she wants
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tani91

I dunno its very vague the way they're showing it because sometimes it seems that she is really jealous of Suhana because of the way people act around her like the whole Rajni telling her to make coffee thing...other times she's pissed off at Elesh like todays episode. I feel like she herself doesn't know what she wants


I think so too. She is just grouchy on the whole these days. But I'm sure in usual SGP style they will help her see her fault and move past what she says just like they did with Rano...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As being a WIFE & DIL I can understand What Disha is going through .

Ilesh has in the past worked as salesman, but at that time He was not working as a employee to any of the Kashyaps . It is the Q of Swabhimaan .

I don't agree with BM's approach , Right now Ilesh working for Suhana looks as If Ilesh has no talent or ability to find work & hold on to it on his own . It is more than working for Suhana. There r multiple points Disha is worried abt .

1 ) Ilesh is nothing more than an employee to Suhana .

2 ) Ilesh has a Job cauz Suhana has one .

3) If Suhana wants she can Fire Ilesh in a heartbeat [ Wether she actually does it or not Its different ]

4 ) If tomorrow Suhana buys stuff for entire house hold & gifts them then Would Disha accept it ? Real Q is Who is it gift for Suhana's employee's wife or Jethani ?

5 ) @ somepoint Disha can accept her husband not working at all & Working as a sales man . but not wrokign for someone she lives with & specially when they have a relationship. Money & status plays much more important part & society .

6 ) It is not funny or humorous when Ur husband & running around after ur SIL holding her purse or calling her MADAM . It is humiliating .

7 ) I have seen people rub it in to others pain . Tomorrow some one says stuff like " Acha hain , Abb toh Suhana ki wajah se Ilesh ko bhi Naukari laag gayeee " This is a verbal slap . Or " Bahut badhiya , Ilesh ko Suhana ne kaam dilva diya ... " This is the harsh reality of life .

8 ) Yes , People 'll alwys say something . But U live in a samaj & can't separate our self from Samaj .

9 ) No matter how BM or anyone looks at it but fact remains that Ilesh doesn't have talent to find a job on his own . He needs to rely on Suhana to find one for him or give it to him .

10 ) Ilehs might b good at his job , love It than Y not go find other client . Y He is still working for Suhana when He can work for Other . Disha has clearly told Ilesh what she wants but that BM's Idiot telling her stories for Money or More importantly How to make more money off Suhana . Which I really hat e. That man has stoop so low for that I might slap him 🤢

I m not gonna streach it more but They 'll have one Epi . Solution to this too where Only Disha says sorry . & No real progress in life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I understand that all of that comes into consideration and yes when business and family are mixed up it becomes messy

but some of your points...like Elesh calling her madam...Elesh has never called her madam nor does Suhana expect him to call her that. Suhana doesnt treat him as an employee...he himself projects him that way to the producer and director...again Suhana can't be blamed there. Elesh is the one who keeps on bragging about the "glamorous" world of agents and what not...Suhaha doesnt say a word when it comes to that aspect of her work

But my question is that all that is well and good and yes she is justified in feeling that way but WHY vent it all out on Suhana???😕😕😕 I mean what in the world did she do? she was ready to quit the show without putting Elesh at jeopardy...if Disha has to be mad at someone it should be FULLY on Elesh because he doesn't have the motivation to keep his so called self respect in check...if he himself doesnt care then why the hell should Disha be bitchy about it and vent out her frustration on Suhana🤢 what is she the Kashyap's punching bag ke jab cahe ab usko blame kar te rehte hai😡

I agree that with the coffee thing Disha had full right to be mad at Suhana and Rajni because that was wrong on Rajni's part...but the way she was taunting Suhana was completely uncalled for...same thing Rano did, Rano's outburst though justified was just completely uncalled for

I dunno I feel like if the idiot himself doesnt want to so squat about ihm why make your own blood boil with it...maybe I'm thinking this way since I'm not married and I don't have responsibility for anyone by myself🤔 Also with the salesperson thing...we have seen how people treat slaes people and telemarketers...so isnt that humiliating in itself as well??? so Disha is ok with rest of society abusing her husband??



Again in today's episode she didnt clarify herself with BM ...ok that's fine she doesnt have to share everything with her...but she said "chub ta hai"...WHAT is the thing that is bothering her so much that she is out to ruin relations with her husband and her sister in law???😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Disha is in a bad spot , Where Her hubby is a jerk . Even after telling him NO He doesn't get it . She has spilled it out for him still He is making plans on how to make Suhana earn mor e. Sooner or later either Suhana or Ilesh will do something . They have a relationship . Since Ilesh is not taking a hint & not willing to back down , may b Disha wants Suhana to read between the lines . I don't know . Other than dragging part & I m not sure there is any significance !!!!! Any sane person would read the unspoken words . Since this is suhna a It may last little longer .

I saw how & What BM thinks so for them self respect is nothing , as long as U can make money off ur relations all acceptable .


I have my rules & values which makes me side with Disha . Suhana , all I can say read people - talk to them . Don't run around like It doesn't matter & then cry !!!!! If It matters to U It matters !!!!

I can give one point to Disha , until today no mater what Ilesh did [ Stayed home , jail fiasco ] Disha stood by him , This is the first time she has openly said NO . She never supported this decision . So I say Ilesh owes this much to his wife & person who supported her through so much that listen to her. Do what she wants or work something out with her .. ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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^exactly if Elesh himself doesnt care then just give it up😵...he will learn on his own when he suffers😳

I say this now as an unmarried college student...I couldnt care less what kind of a job my hubby would do...as long as he's making money and he's happy (and of course the job is respectable) which I felt was what BM was trying to say to her that let him be...if he himself doesnt care then why should Disha take on the role where she has to dictate his life for him
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well i think disha has alredi made it clear to ilesh but not to other family members..if disha had said sumthin to BM then i suppose might have tried to understand..cos atm bm might be thinkin that disha is jealous of suhana..and if disha with her tauntin is trin to get the message across to suhana then she shud tri harder cos i even i wudnt get it, until the water level goes to high..but rajini partaility wsnt suhana's fault cos suhanan d sae that she kan do it herslef..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Neha and I are saying the same thing from our experience of our married life ... Believe me girls no body is just out loud evil or angel in real life relationships can not be all either good or bad . It affects the fact what your husband do and for whom . Because Suhana is our beloved and the lead we are finding it stupid of Disha to behave like this ... But I fully agree with Neha ... all her points are valid and I have seen similar stuff . Suhana is not at fault here, nor Disha it's Ilaish and his family ..., if an outsider agent would have arranged the media in there private party ... Suhana would have sacked him , Suhana was even right in saying to Ilaish to think like a family member for a change ... Disha didn't like it obviously as you wouldn't like your husband to be told off by his boss infront of you and to make the matter worst your SIL... No matter how rosey picture TV produces in real life INLAWS and relationship with them are neither all rosey or all evil . But since SGP has a tendency to solve problems in one episode by just kiss and makeup and ignoring the issue then there is no point .
If I was not married I would be calling Disha dumb, unfair, jealous , etc etc . Married life is totally different and that is why I can see and understand what Disha is going through .

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