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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why the creatives want to show Bebe in such a bad light? Why cant they show some positives of her as well?

Did Sweety make a mistake by marrying an undereducated person with such a mother who enjoys creating trouble for all?

Sweety is pretty, educated and from a cultured family. The result of marrying a person from such a culturally different family is showing its results. Lucky will expect Sweety to manage the impossible and be cheerful too.

The only person who can make Bebe understand will be Rocky.

Bebe is annoying. Sweety is rude. Lucky is sandwiched between the two. And the children also suffer. Unfortunately Lucky is Bebe's only son.

Life's journey is a bumpy ride on a a potholed road.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Do they want us to hate mother in laws and love only daughter in laws?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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bebe is not bad. she wants to prove that only she and her son are intelligent infront of sweety's father's family members.
bebe is not modern world woman. she is from very old generation. she still thinks that only boys has to work and girls has to look after her family.
I think in this serial they may come up the track of bebe's realisation of her thinkings.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bebe is extremely manipulative and cunning old lady! She realized the kids are angry at her for the fracas she caused at Nanu's house so she gifted them with gold jewelry next morning to appease them ...with bribes! Shes bribing her own grandkids with gold! 😲

She knew Lucky was mad at her so she called him at work and pretended she was leaving Delhi, going back to her village...and she said it in the most melodramatic way...Lucky melted at once and begged her not to leave...and she agreed at once.
When Rocky chides her why she did chugli abt Pinky's work, Bebe acts all innocent, pretending to be a confused old lady...what an act she put up! Kya karoon, buddhi ho gayi hoon, kuchh samajh nahin aata...buddhi my foot! She knew exactly what she was doing, bribing Sunny to ferret out the full story abt Pinky's business and then exposing it badly in front of everyone in the worst way.
She just wants to put down Sweety and her maaykawaley and establish her own son, her grandson and herself as the most superior beings!

Bebe is a master manipulator! Shes an expert at "emosional" blackmail...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well Bebe is not bad.. There is no good and bad criteria everyone is grey..
Yesterday Bebe admitted her mistakes and was not rude when they told her she is wrong.. If she had ego, she would definitely try to justify herself.. But she didnt cuz she knew she was wrong ..
I liked her yesterday.. But I didnt like Sweety ji's 24x7 ranting on Bebe in fronta Lucky ji.. How is HE supposed to feel ? He was already upset with the whole thing.. Sweety ji should be more understanding towards Lucky ji..
And it's not that they want to show only the DILs are right.. Just that there will always be a generation gap btwn MIL and DIL which will cause rifts.. And as society is changing and specially heading towards Westernization and all, it's more sensible to change yourself to fit into the category rather than going back to the age-old tradition and beliefs.. ( not going into the details whether western culture is good or bad, it has both the sides, but we cant deny that we ARE adopting Western culture a LOT ) .. MILs should undergo some changes regarding their attitude and mentality.. Not the other way around.. When the DILs become MILs, they also have to change their thoughts to cope up with Gen Y.. It's normal.. Changing your outlook is not a big deal..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have not been able to watch the show since bebe's entry...but have constantly reading the updates...from the updates i get bebe as a very negative person(though i am sure she is not)

Bebe is an old fashioned person who gives more importance to boys than girls. She is tooo much caring towards her son and grandson. She interferes a lot may be. She could be rude towards DIL's family. But i dont see that as a negative thing.

What i dont understand is, Bebe is new to us(as in character) but she is not new to the family. Everyone knows abt her. Sweety knows how Lucky and children will behave when Bebe comes. Lucky will know how Sweety will react to bebe. why have not they arrived at a solution even after so many years. even if bebe is not adjustable, why not Sweety take an initiative and do something to adjust the situation.

and i dont know, but slowly i feel the story is drifting more into the family issues and others instead of children. The story has been good but there has been too much on Jeet-Pinky and now Bebe and not about the children.

P.S: I may be wrong because i have not been watching the show. These are just my views
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What I find amusing is that each time her children's school work or tuition or school schedule is about to be disrupted, Sweety behaves as though some nyclear bomb is about to explode and that day is the last day of their lives. Take it easy baby.

Find a way out of this tricky situation. You cant please all. Tell sasuma with a sweet smiling face, " mujhe maaf kijiye. Aap sundays uske saat jee bharke baat kijiye.Lekin is waqt use project complete karne dijiye." If Luckyji purchased tickets for the movie for all of them, then try to sit up with rocky till late hours to complete the project. That is how I manage the situation when the children's deadlines are to be met and unforeseen circumstances try to wreak havoc.

Suppose Rocky develops high fever or meets with some accident. At such times schoolwork will suffer.Sweety can compare this situation to such a unfortunate situation and be ready with a workable plan.Firefighting in such situations.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rightnow

What I find amusing is that each time her children's school work or tuition or school schedule is about to be disrupted, Sweety behaves as though some nyclear bomb is about to explode and that day is the last day of their lives. Take it easy baby.

Find a way out of this tricky situation. You cant please all. Tell sasuma with a sweet smiling face, " mujhe maaf kijiye. Aap sundays uske saat jee bharke baat kijiye.Lekin is waqt use project complete karne dijiye." If Luckyji purchased tickets for the movie for all of them, then try to sit up with rocky till late hours to complete the project. That is how I manage the situation when the children's deadlines are to be met and unforeseen circumstances try to wreak havoc.

Suppose Rocky develops high fever or meets with some accident. At such times schoolwork will suffer.Sweety can compare this situation to such a unfortunate situation and be ready with a workable plan.Firefighting in such situations.

Well I dunno abt ur place, but here in my surroundings, all my aunties FREAK out if guests come during the study hours 😆 They simply tell us to go and study and they say 'we will chat u dont have to'.. When I was a student I used to HATE that 😡 But now I realize how important it is to maintain a discipline during your school days.. 😊
My point is, if Bebe thinks she is a guest, she should not expect anything from Lucky-Sweety.. Like how she is taking control over the kitchen and all.. 😊 She should behave like a guest and not cross the line.. But if she thinks she is not a guest ( what I really believe 😊, mom can never be GUEST of her own son ), she should take care of their discipline first and foremost..
I liked how Bebe told yesterday that if we go for a movie, their studies will be hampered.. 👏 I really liked that.. And I think it was Rocky's fault only.. 😊 After coming to know abt the project, I would have been happier if Bebe again insisted on staying back, but I dont really blame her for that.. It was Rocky's responsibility.. He is in 10th standard ! Itna toh badaa ho hi gaya hai
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Bebe is extremely manipulative and cunning old lady! She realized the kids are angry at her for the fracas she caused at Nanu's house so she gifted them with gold jewelry next morning to appease them ...with bribes! Shes bribing her own grandkids with gold! 😲


She knew Lucky was mad at her so she called him at work and pretended she was leaving Delhi, going back to her village...and she said it in the most melodramatic way...Lucky melted at once and begged her not to leave...and she agreed at once.
When Rocky chides her why she did chugli abt Pinky's work, Bebe acts all innocent, pretending to be a confused old lady...what an act she put up! Kya karoon, buddhi ho gayi hoon, kuchh samajh nahin aata...buddhi my foot! She knew exactly what she was doing, bribing Sunny to ferret out the full story abt Pinky's business and then exposing it badly in front of everyone in the worst way.
She just wants to put down Sweety and her maaykawaley and establish her own son, her grandson and herself as the most superior beings!

Bebe is a master manipulator! Shes an expert at "emosional" blackmail...




Agree with every word...And yes...there are plenty of women out there..that is why saas bahu soaps are so widely watched..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think they are trying to that not every relationship is sweet.. it is called Parvarish Kuch KHATTI kuch MEETHI.

I think they wanted to show a not like able saas, without the craziness of other serials you know, without being super destructive or ridiculous

May be they will show Pianky's Saas in the future who is adorable. And how great of a relationship they have?? to contrast the manipulative saas!

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