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Irony of life is we never care nor value those who love us
selflessly. Teji and Geet are exactly mirror image of these words in this fictional
character. They are though quite
different in basic attitude, behavior and nature but sadly both share same
opinion about their spouse and hold same position in their married life. According to
both of them their spouse owes all love, care, and respect to them and has no
right to dream or ask anything in return. If they do, their love is selfish,
possessive or insecure. Irony of life is both not respect nor understand their
own spouse. Their arrogance, their attitude and their ego never allow them to
see beyond their own self. Both love being a meek spectator to all disgrace and
slur thrown at their respective partners or better they themselves do the
honors and insult them. One is suffering for her own future and other is
suffering for his own selfless love.
As for geet she has no respect for
selfless love, which was god blessing to her who stood by her through all her
lows and thick and thin. Both love to destroy their self respect everyday with
their golden words and arrogant attitude. Basically in short these two have no
respect for marriage nor do they understand its mutual relationship not
individual.
A relationship where only one partner is caring and loving other at
receiving end will ultimately go through slow death. Valuing the importance of
your other half and respecting is basic essential of any relationship. Still
both choose to not value them intentionally or unintentionally.
Sadly Teji actions can be credited to his chauvinistic upbringing but we have no logic for such pathetic stubborn behavior from Geet. When that happened, a strong sensible mature geet suddenly had some 360 rotation in her characterization without any strong logical support. As viewers few supporters tried to justify her actions with overused yet very much flawed tool of Assumption assumptions and more assumptions. But did any of these assumptions come true, even touch reality through creative's attempt, none. Why, because creative themselves stopped caring for characterization of their most prominent lead character. May be I can credit these blind supporters of Geet who just to support her for any reason, that creative stopped caring for characters. When a child does his first mistake like stealing and parents choose ignore it for love they make pave for future criminal and his dark future. So this dark characterization of Geet is credited to blind love and adulation she has received till now for her mistakes so now all she does is blunders not mistakes.
Price is what you pay. Value is what you get. Same hold for Maan singh Khurana nowdays.
Price is what he is paying for his selfless love and geet gets all value in
this selfless love. For his true selfless love he deserved someone who would
have loved him unconditionally above all abstract nouns of this world. He got
conciliation prize in form of unlimited insults and humiliations at hands of
her own love and her relatives. But for what he is praying this price? Price for saving her life, or its price for
saving her from social disgrace, or its price for fighting for her self respect
or its just for loving her unconditionally above his self respect. Or is it
just for following her everywhere to help her or save her or to keep her out of
trouble.
Geet journey from quiet sacred girl to independent women was not all simple,
but a fellow companion like Maan at every corner of road not let made that difficult
too. A support system like him allowed her to grow out of her dark past with no
reminiscence of past allowed to intrude in present or future. But does she
herself allowed that from her inner self. She still loves to live in self pity for
her past destroying her present with no hopes for future. Geet whom he groomed
and molded himself from a weak girl to strong woman and taught her to fight for
self respect and principles has now
raised big question to his own self respect and his own principles.His
self respect is butchered everyday, his ethics principles are questioned, he is
being treated like paid slave. But he takes all that to win back her love. But
why he lost his love just because he questioned her on self respect.
Forgiveness is divine so why it's divine only when it's granted to a rapist or
sinner why it loose its essence when you give to your own husband. A question on self respect can't be a sin nor
crime anywhere equivalent to raping it. Nor the detrimental and harmful aftereffects
of two are comparable. From being a
young girl of school to pregnant lone unwed mother with family out to kill for
pseudo self respect with noone on her side along with mental trauma. Other one had
some mental trauma or shock , there were none in recent case. So why
forgiveness granted on basis of repentance in one case whereas punishing
husband is not enough in other case. Is
there any logical sense that can defy that?
Pammi on other hand suffering at hand of
family for her future but she knows how to keep family intact. Her priorities
are straight and simple to live for her family as compare to geet which are
difficult to understand without help of lot of assumptions. Like if she wanted to start
afresh life with husband with clear past and for Maan happiness if she forgave
Dev why not she try to forgave Maan for same reason. When Maan stood for your and your family
respect and fought for you Why not you fight for his self respect. Why his pain
was not visible to you but to yet to paami and biji? Paami can see and feel
your love for him, does she know what your Maaan is doing for you but yet she
feel for both of you. She feels for your love. But you blinded by your own ego, anger and arrogance, you chose not to see his
love, his broken self respect and now his physical pain too. Is that the price
of love and is that value of someone so precious in your life. Someone said it right we don't care for our
most precious possession until we loss it. Truth is inside you around you but
you chose to go blind to it.
Love Respect Care all Pammi carved never received and
you received so much that you altogether stop caring for it. You yourself closed
all door to happiness and beautiful futurein your anger. Anger Arrogance Ego of one can kill any
relationship even if love and care of other try to flourish. A relationship is was and always mutual bond much
above me, I and myself.
Learn to value love or this time you will pay price for not valuing it.
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Thank you.
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