Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
@Bahar
I'ld share a true story today. I knew a guy, whose father had sent him to boarding school, but he was probably in class 6 that time. That guy has so much issues and he always used to claim that he was mentally tortured by his father etc etc, same what Viren is claiming. He was extremely handsome, and a hot favourite among girls. His way of speaking was very polite and romantic. He always used to claim that he is totally fit mentally, because his father had sent him to a hostel.
Accidentally I met the person some years after, in USA. U wont believe he has married a rich physician/psychiatrist, makes that poor girl dance on his little finger by emotional blackmailing (girl is too maive to even make out), he does not work, his wife works for him, previously he used to stay in another US city than his wife (completing his education, which never used to get completed😆) and had lot of GFs, whom also he used to emotionally blackmail saying the same story of his hostel and family and that he married his wife, telling his wife that a husband-wife relation is not possible! He can have physical intimacy with her, but she should never try to cut his way. His wife is happy to marry him...it seems she has loved him and thus has married him without any expectation.
strange case! this is a reality...
OMG thats tragic! Poor women she is getting nothing from the relationship.
Class 6...I'm not sure how old he was then. But guessing older then young Viren.
I am sorry you can not blame your action on what your father did to you. Ok I agree emotional childhood can cause alot of problems and different people take it different ways. And it can cause you to lose your head... but what he is doing doesnt seem to be of a hurt human being. But a clever and lazy human being...and he knows how to use people.
And if his father did mentally torture him? Why send him off to boarding school... people who mentally torture someone else...won't let them off so easily.
Looks like he is using one mishap in his childhood to cover all the mistakes he's doing throughout his life!
I myself didn't have a rosey childhood doesnt mean I go around doing these kind of things.
People need to stop and blame themselves for their own mistakes and stop putting the blame else where.
She is a psychiatrist and doesnt see the big problem in her life. But then your always blind to your loved ones.
I guess if she ever finds out about him. She will be both personally and professional broken.
Life is unfair!
Edited by peacefulblossom - 13 years ago
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