lots of breakup happening in industry. sara - ali breakup, gurmeet - debina breakup, now gurpreet - kanishka sodhi / gurpreet kaur / kanishkaa kapoor
avoid breakup, few points from my side.
1. 1.
Trust is a big base of relationships. Trust,
communication, acceptance.I am a firm believer that u have to be honest with ur
partner about everything, if you are gonna be together. I am also a firm
believer that trust is one of the most important things in a relationship as
well.
Honesty first --- leads to trust.
2.
2. Get your ego out of the way โ its difficult for
love and ego to co-exist for long. If its always about what can I get out of
this ? you cant ever experience an enriching relationship. In face most
relationships go sore because of ego involvement. Do u always try to have ur
way. Make your opinion right or get your point of view across ? if this is your
attitude, its gonna give you a lot of pain and its not going to keep ur husband
happy.
3. 3. Ask his family over & over.your Husband's
parents mean a lot to him. so ask them over for a Sunday lunch he will be
touched by your loving gesture. Be kind to ur mother in law the same way u
would like ur husband to be kind to ur own mother.
4. 4. Stop trying to change your husband into someone
else, after all you married him for who he is. Give him a good morning kiss or
hug when he wakes up. Don't ever
disrespect him in front of his friends. This
is a definite no no. no matter what the disagreement or situation, wait until
you both get alone to iron out the problem. This cannot be stressed enough. A man's
male ego is a super powerful source of strength. If u knock his ego down in
front of his friends or relatives he may want to forget about the incident but
his friends may remind him or just being around them can be a constant reminder
of how u dissed him in their eyesight.
5.
5. Behave like
a female, ie all the tenderness of a female โa man doesn't want a man for his
wife. Let him chill with his friends without guilt. Encourage him to go out, so
he doesn't feel cooped up.
6. 6. Don't get mad over small things. Stop nagging โ
try to be his girlfriend rather than his mother, always. There is nothing
less attractive to a guy than nagging
woman. For some reason most women turn to nagging after marriage. Stop trying
to improve your husband and just accept him for what he is. When he sees such
an unconditional love on your part he will reciprocate in the same manner. If he
is a little disorganized just live with it and stop criticizing him for it. When
u criticize him or show him down, he will feel resentment towards you and he's
definitely not going to be happy.
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