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Posted: 13 years ago
Sorry about that. Perhaps your dad said things in anger and also wants to wake you up. Everyone makes mistakes and try to sort things out.
But it is most important to be steady.  Everyone is sometimes ruled by an Angel or a Devil. They both reside in us (the good , the bad and the ugly).
 
Your Dad should try to be more tactful. Perhaps you are too independent.
 
Yes workwise sometimes promises remain another hope esp when things do not go smoothly.
Some of our companies too are facing challenges, so we just have to face them squarely.
 
Pray for all and may all things go well.
 
Posted: 13 years ago
I'm still fragile. So my sensitivity is on. I feel like summer will be hell for me. I want to be away from here...
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Posted: 13 years ago
 
Yes a change will be good for you.
 
Time is the greatest healer apart from new places and challenges.
 
Being sensitive does make us vulnerable and we remember clearly, unlike a child who so easily forgives and forgets.
 
Posted: 13 years ago
SO right about your last sentence!!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
 
It is not easy to ask our mind to just "Shut Up !"
When angry it wants blood and revenge.
 
Our reasoning facultly is slow very often. That is why wars last for centuries and never end.
 
But people are not as bad as they seem and often we see and understand things wrongly, perhaps because it is hard to be impartial when we ourselves are involved.
 
Even if we are right we need not be nasty. Hurt can last a long time, but to forgive is truly divine.
 
I have a policy of not wanting to argue with ladies. It normally works well, but still there must be a limit ( except that it is pretty hidden)😆
 
But basically people do not want to be horrible but many just cannot help it, because each person is born with a certain character and nature.
 
 
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Posted: 13 years ago
Pretty late and you are still not in bed.
Trust your Angel and God to look after all matters and have a good snooze. Good Night
Posted: 13 years ago
It's getting early...Was reading the former Dandies thread --- I was so alive and vivid. I sounded really happy & cool.
I know i'll be back to that mood again. It's like a diary ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
Yes indeed.
 
We need to be in our elements.
 
Passion, have a passion for life and live it fully.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Short story



I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I walked to the door and knocked. 'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor. After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.
By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets. There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, and then returned to assist the woman.
She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb...She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother treated'.
'Oh, you're such a good boy', she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive through downtown?'
'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly.
'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice'.
I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening 'I don't have any family left,' she continued in soft voice. 'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.
'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.
We drove through the neighbourhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.
Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'.
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.
Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her.
I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.
'How much do I owe you?' She asked, reaching into her purse.
'Nothing,' I said. 'You have to make a living,' she answered. 'There are other passengers,' I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly. 'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.' I squeezed her hand, and they walked into the dim morning light. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life.

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.
We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments. But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.

PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT YOU DID OR WHAT YOU SAID ~BUT~THEY ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Famous words of inspiration


I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it for I shall not pass this way again.Edited by Summer3 - 13 years ago