Originally posted by: bindi2010
<font color="#0000cc">Well.... As far as Varsha n Her Saas Bhavna Taai is concerned Varsha actually tried to adjust a lottttttttttttttttttttttt right after she got married but Bhavna Tai was the one who tested Varsha's patience..... did not trust Varsha n even accused Varsha of Cheating Satish....Now that Varsha has handled the issues brilliantly & the 2 generations are together,I think NOwadays Saas don't ask about kids like that bcos nowadays Women's lives or their 'Pehchaan{recognition} are not only if She had kids or If she has been able to give an heir to the Family or a Potha/Pothi to the Dada-Dadi otherwise she's of'No Use'..... &So on So obviously Varsha,bewing a modern girl married to a man with very traditional tey modern outlook can expect His aai to have little more modern outlook towards their Bahu more than Her being a Sati savitri or just an Aai to their next generation?! If Bhavna Taai reeeeeeeeeeeeeally thought of Varsha,Has Her Saas ever asked Varsha if Varsha wants to join a Course or Maybe a Job??😲</font>
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After all what has Shravni 'gained' in the Desmukh household..haan?? She has given a male heir to their family and being the Only Child of a rich dad she has adjusted herself sooooooooooooooooo well with their middle-class-household....She works day n night but at the end what's She got...not even a recognition in their family as a Bahu which all women would want.....Savita only wants Shravni to take care of her grandson Sacchuu..that's it..... has Savita EVER brought up the point that it's been long Since Kaka's died and Shravni should get her right after getting married to her Son..???????????????So,to a Saas perhaps the 'only' value a bahu carries is whether she's fertile or not ..better to say if she can produce a Son or not should not be the only recognition in a Married Woman's life.... I really Support Varsha in this matter it's high time that In-laws change their Outlook towards Women !!