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Posted: 15 years ago
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I have been wondering of late what exactly is wrong with Varsha. What I gather from the updates is that she is behaving in a very strange manner. It always looks as if she is spoiling for a fight.

So what if Bhavna asks her what her plans are about starting a family? I am sure she asked her in a polished way. Why did she hav to complain to Satish about it .There was a certain anger in that complaint.Would she have minded at all if Sulo aai had asked her the same thing? 😡 😡


CVs please please we would like to see at least one happy family in PR.Dont create situations to break up Satish and Varshu or bring in confusion into the family.Now that Varshu's life is running smoothly, let it be that way. Show us that she has a baby , that she has started working somewhere again and is happy and contented with her life. Or show us that Satish and family migrate to the US or Canada.

Stop this track. Dont constantly meddle with it.. 😳

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well.... As far as Varsha n Her Saas Bhavna Taai is concerned Varsha actually tried to adjust a lottttttttttttttttttttttt right after she got married but Bhavna Tai was the one who tested Varsha's patience..... did not trust Varsha n even accused Varsha of Cheating Satish....Now that Varsha has handled the issues brilliantly & the 2 generations are together,I think NOwadays Saas don't ask about kids like that bcos nowadays Women's lives or their 'Pehchaan{recognition} are not only if She had kids or If she has been able to give an heir to the Family or a Potha/Pothi to the Dada-Dadi otherwise she's of 'No Use'..... & So on So obviously Varsha,bewing a modern girl married to a man with very traditional tey modern outlook can expect His aai to have little more modern outlook towards their Bahu more than Her being a Sati savitri or just an Aai to their next generation?! If Bhavna Taai reeeeeeeeeeeeeally thought of Varsha,Has Her Saas ever asked Varsha if Varsha wants to join a Course or Maybe a Job??😲 After all what has Shravni 'gained' in the Desmukh household after having a child ..haan?? She has given a male heir to their family and being the Only Child of a rich dad she has adjusted herself sooooooooooooooooo well with their middle-class-household....She works day n night but at the end what's She got...not even a recognition in their family as a Bahu which all women would want.....Savita only wants Shravni to take care of her grandson Sacchuu..that's it..... has Savita EVER brought up the point that it's been long Since Kaka's died and Shravni should get her right after getting married to her Son..??????????????? So,to a Saas perhaps the 'only' value a bahu carries is whether she's fertile or not ..better to say if she can produce a Son or not should not be the only recognition in a Married Woman's life.... I really Support Varsha in this matter it's high time that In-laws change their Outlook towards Women !!
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Originally posted by: bindi2010

<font color="#0000cc">Well.... As far as Varsha n Her Saas Bhavna Taai is concerned Varsha actually tried to adjust a lottttttttttttttttttttttt right after she got married but Bhavna Tai was the one who tested Varsha's patience..... did not trust Varsha n even accused Varsha of Cheating Satish....Now that Varsha has handled the issues brilliantly & the 2 generations are together,I think NOwadays Saas don't ask about kids like that bcos nowadays Women's lives or their 'Pehchaan{recognition} are not only if She had kids or If she has been able to give an heir to the Family or a Potha/Pothi to the Dada-Dadi otherwise she's of'No Use'..... &So on So obviously Varsha,bewing a modern girl married to a man with very traditional tey modern outlook can expect His aai to have little more modern outlook towards their Bahu more than Her being a Sati savitri or just an Aai to their next generation?! If Bhavna Taai reeeeeeeeeeeeeally thought of Varsha,Has Her Saas ever asked Varsha if Varsha wants to join a Course or Maybe a Job??😲</font>

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After all what has Shravni 'gained' in the Desmukh household..haan?? She has given a male heir to their family and being the Only Child of a rich dad she has adjusted herself sooooooooooooooooo well with their middle-class-household....She works day n night but at the end what's She got...not even a recognition in their family as a Bahu which all women would want.....Savita only wants Shravni to take care of her grandson Sacchuu..that's it..... has Savita EVER brought up the point that it's been long Since Kaka's died and Shravni should get her right after getting married to her Son..???????????????So,to a Saas perhaps the 'only' value a bahu carries is whether she's fertile or not ..better to say if she can produce a Son or not should not be the only recognition in a Married Woman's life.... I really Support Varsha in this matter it's high time that In-laws change their Outlook towards Women !!


i completely agree to you
these old generation people are like as soon as marriage happens they expect a baby from their bahu which is totally silly
varsha didnt complain to satish at all but she convinced him that she is not ready for it so early

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