Originally posted by: caprigurl
i loved how you put your words and I assume i am allowed to put my views here too
I can remove it if its your wish :-)
Dear Topic Maker
Put yourself in a position when you are trying hard NOT to think about somebody you loved more than your life only to give your marriage a chance and then one fine day your husband says- Ok my mother seems upset please pretend to be your supposed EX-Lovers wife
Please let your love-story be announced in the cafeteria to the whole wide world who knows you are married to me
Please allow that guy to hold you hand and take vows for my mom;s sake
Because I cannot speak up???
Put yourself in RIddhima shoes- HOW would you feel?
This, in my very honest position was not at all indicative of Sid being NOT insecure
He did this because he HIMSELF said- Ab tak naatak kar rhe hain thodi der aur
He DID not care for how his Wife would undergo the torment of being broken publicly
SHE spoke up when it went to far
He didnt
Riddhima's dialogue to him says it all- WHAT kind of a husband does that ?
these are Not my words- these are his Wife's .
So there
Secondly, when Armaan RIddhima had that mistaken hug in the room
Riddhima was almost in tears seeing through Armaan's sadness
When Sid came he, yes he was sweet not to jump to any wrong conclusions but did he sense ANY sort of feelings at all?
Why couldnt he see they were in the midst of a convo that had nothing to do with Armaan giving her company?
Yeah he might have been trying to lighten the atmosphere
But as RIddhima's walkout showed- He could have been less full of beans and bubbly when Riddhima was clearly still looking for an answer in Armaan's eyes
So there
As for today
He wants His wife back?
My Back?
But where's she gone?
Does he feel he is loosing her to Armaan?
Why pray?
Has RIddhima done anything to give an indication that she is getting closer to Armaan?
Didnt she tell SID first of all why she wanted to be near to Armaan to support him?
and he very well knows SHE is the only person who provokes a genuine reaction- whether good or bad -from Armaan
THEN where does the question of getting his wife back only for himself arise from?
She wants to stay with him
She did not say she will do 24 hour surveillance of Armaan and sacrifice her time with her husband for that
so its not even a question of Saving Riddhima from spending time on Armaan so that Sid- RIddhima can be together
It was, in my POV, a human reaction of Insecurity
You cannot wish it away by saying NOOooo SId was not insecure bilkul nahin
i am an AR fan- and Armaan was himself the most possesive guy ever and was a bundle of nerves whenever he saw guys even hinting to being near RIddhima LOL all guys are like that
But he was Upfront about it- Maana main tumhaare baare mein thoda Possessive hoon :P
Insecurity for one;s partner is Human .
But here One second Sid prays to God very sincerely, bless Sid, saying he knows he has nothing to worry about
and then next moment he equates helping his Elder Brother Armaan with being a way to get back the girl for himself?
I dont really understand it any other way
PHEW
sorry ! i just had to reply :-)
I can delete my post here - if this was unwelcome; but its just my reading of the situation c
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