What does Pratigya want?

SHE DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING! SHE IS JUST BREATHING FOR HER MAIKA PPL! SHE THINKS DAT SHE WILL BE HAPPY WID HER MAIKA'S HAPPINESS N SAD WID THEIR SADNESS! HER SASURAL {IF WE LEAVE KESAR BHABHI} IS NOTHING FOR HER! SHE THINKS DEM AS A BURDEN N SHE HAV TO DRAG DIS BURDEN COZ OF HER PARENTS! HER PARENTS DON'T WANT TO SEE HER AS A DIVORCEE ! DATS WHY SHE HAV TO LIVE IN SS HOUSE! BUT ACTUALLY SHE IS TOTALLY FEELINGLESS N HEARTLESS TOWARDS KRISHNA! SHE CAN;T EVEN THINK DAT HOW RUDE SHE IS FOR HER LOVING N CARING HUSBAND! HE SUPPORT HER EVERY TIME!BUT SHE DOESN'T LEAVE A SINGLE CHANCE TO INSUT HIM IN PUBLIC,OR INFRONT OF FAMILY OR PRIVATELY!SHE IS HOPELESS!

She wants ZERO . She has NOT understood the meaning of marraige at all . She full day is involved in her maayka , uses Krishna to get bike lift till there then tells him to go , plots with her family while her stupid Dad does fresh tamashas like insisting more and more that he wants to live in jail , making life hell for all outside .Then this girl , with her dumb bro , runs around trying to get him out .

Any jamaai wud be FED UP of this nautanki sasural and wud put his foot down and say even GOD cant help ur foolish dad , Im out of this but poor Krishna just tags along like her lap dog .

Originally posted by: Binny1247

Do you really think her wanting to leave this marriage is enough for Krishna to let her go, I highly doubt it this guy is still not willing to accept the fact that she does not love him even though she has stated this truth repeatedly. And she is making an effort to make her marraige work, this in itself is a big deal because even though he did not kidnap her there are still many things he is responsible for which are difficult to forgive. I don't see anything wrong with prats wanting to understand the man she married before she moves forward in their relationship. It's extremely important they get to know one another and friendship is the best way since before misunderstandings forced her to keep her distance from him. I don't think she has a problem with falling in love with him, if she had made the decision to hate him forever she would have never changed her behavior towards him and tried to understand him despite many of his previous actions. She is not using Krishna she is worried about her family as any daughter would be and truthfully after today's episode I would say SS is an expert in taking advantage of his sons emotions for his selfish purposes.

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Binny

I agree there is nothing wrong with her wanting to understand and be friendly.

if she even did 10% of this I would understand .

any friendly overtures have only been to keep him in good mood so that he will assist her in getting out of the singh house over and over again. she gives him the bare minimum that she can so that he is always starving and then gets upset when he asks for more.

I don't blame her for helping her dad, i don't blame her for wanting to get out of the singh house. I blame her for not realizing her husband's needs as a human being.

her actions are mostly detached, ingrate, self absorbed and manipulative.

you cannot see it and neither can any other of her supporters because she is a beautiful woman and she seems like a fragile flower so she always gets sympathethic support for that reason.

I am a progressive woman, a career woman and a homemaker. Yet I am unmoved by her pratigyas and her attempts at independence. because she has not understood the basic lesson of life. progessive couples act like teams when it matters the most and they EMPOWER each other with combined strength, understanding and trust. its the partnership that makes their relationship effective and strong.

Krishna has always empowered her even though he has no formal education and this female empowerment is alien in the society and environment he belongs in. he does it because it feels like the right thing to do.

her father empowered her. but has she trusted krishna enough to empower HIM as a husband?

the hatred episode was fine.

now there are no misunderstandings. so what else is left?

she is not trying to understand him at all. she is tolerating his presence and that is what bothers me.

the way she talks to him you would not talk to a kid brother, forget your own husband.

respecting ones spouse for their support and their genuine emotions (wheter you have the capacity to reciprocate their feelings or not) is a courtesy you extend to your partner if you genuinely want a marriage intact. does not make you a doormat but a considerate human being.

that has always turned me off about his wife.

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Binny

I agree there is nothing wrong with her wanting to understand and be friendly.

if she even did 10% of this I would understand .

any friendly overtures have only been to keep him in good mood so that he will assist her in getting out of the singh house over and over again. she gives him the bare minimum that she can so that he is always starving and then gets upset when he asks for more.

I don't blame her for helping her dad, i don't blame her for wanting to get out of the singh house. I blame her for not realizing her husband's needs as a human being.

her actions are mostly detached, ingrate, self absorbed and manipulative.

you cannot see it and neither can any other of her supporters because she is a beautiful woman and she seems like a fragile flower so she always gets sympathethic support for that reason.

I am a progressive woman, a career woman and a homemaker. Yet I am unmoved by her pratigyas and her attempts at independence. because she has not understood the basic lesson of life. progessive couples act like teams when it matters the most and they EMPOWER each other with combined strength, understanding and trust. its the partnership that makes their relationship effective and strong.

Krishna has always empowered her even though he has no formal education and this female empowerment is alien in the society and environment he belongs in. he does it because it feels like the right thing to do.

her father empowered her. but has she trusted krishna enough to empower HIM as a husband?

the hatred episode was fine.

now there are no misunderstandings. so what else is left?

she is not trying to understand him at all. she is tolerating his presence and that is what bothers me.

the way she talks to him you would not talk to a kid brother, forget your own husband.

respecting ones spouse for their support and their genuine emotions (wheter you have the capacity to reciprocate their feelings or not) is a courtesy you extend to your partner if you genuinely want a marriage intact. does not make you a doormat but a considerate human being.

that has always turned me off about his wife.