20/1 - Quarrels and perspectives

OMG i just finished watching the epi and the precap is sure disturbing
and my guess is Abeer must have heard Leher pacifying Rashmi and must have approached her to appreciate her sweet advice
and Leher must have replied to him and probably said thanks
when daadi comes up to the terrace and spots them two smiling
and since she's already tensed abt Abeer she must have blasted her this way ....

can't wait for Abeer's reaction on this

Originally posted by: soapbubble

After a rocking episode yesterday, today's was a little anti climactic for a few reasons.Tonights episode was a little slow,but i loved the part were abeer stood up for himself and the things he belives in.
One of course, no ABher together 😕
Two the story focuseed a little more on the fights in both households and the dismay felt by all the Majumdars at the Shuklas' behaviour.I am seriously feeling bad for the majumdars ,they seem like people who have their priorities right i.e their daughter unlike the shukla's who are just worried about thir reputation in their community.I guess the majumdars are going to have to listen to more insults from shukla's 🤢now that Mrs.shukla has decided that dadi is her guru

But what upset me most was the 'coming up'! What on earth does Dadi mean by yelling at the girl nex tdoor like that?! 😡 How dare she speak like that to someone else's daughter? And she was saying all sorts of things about snaring a rich guy and everything. Do you guys think that she has mistaken Lehar for Rashmi? Actually she has no right speaking like that to RAshmi either! Seriously this mother and son (Dadi and TN) have some gall. A superiority complex that lets them speak like this to people who have no connection with them - someone, somewhere has to take them down a peg or two 😔Yes someone needs to get TN and dadi of their high horses😡.By the way why 😔was TN acting all sinster and evil after hearing abeer argue with his mom and dadi.
Poor Abeer is standing by trying to butt in and Lehar is looking so shocked at the attack. Jeez, abhi tak love story ka aagaaz bhi nahi hua aur ye haal hai - aage kya hoga? 😲😲Even i was thinking the same thing they have not even fallen in love and they already have to face so much .
Bubble

I hope Abeer says something!!! and doesnt let Dadi insult anyone like that...

I think she might have mistaken leher for madhav's fiance coz the words she was saying, i felt she meant to say that she is marrying a rich guy...so may she feels leher is that girl. Plus dadi has never seen leher so its easy to be mistaken. Leher mite be talking to abeer and dadi must have though that madhav's fiance is now influencing her grandson.

Love post Bubble .. And seriously, was thinking the same. What makes it alright for Dadi to judge someone else's daughter like she went on with Leher. I just hope Abeer stands up for Leher .. and says something to his Dadi. That will gain him some brownie points as well 😉 😳

Originally posted by: Ektaj

Later .. when AbHer actually fall in love .. I can imagine the kind of determination and strength they will have, knowing how their families are .. esp. Abeer's family, coz the Mathur's are seeing their attitude hands on! 😕

Exactly what I was thinking, Eks.
Abeer and Lehar are having a ringside view to what the future holds for them if they even consider falling in love, or see each other in any romantic light.
So, in htis love story that is going to be, it is not as if the two people fall in love in isolation and later find out that this is how ugly society's reaction can be! Abeer and Lehar are seeing in graphic detail the brouhaha that can potentially surround them. But we do know that they fall in love.. and I for one am agog to see how that happens.

How does a sweet amiable young man who's scared of his father become involved with a girl who's Capulet to his Montague? (to explain the literary reference - Juliet is a Capulet and Romeo is a Montague - sworn enemies😊) How does Lehar, who places such importance on her family's happiness and self respect even allow herself to be drawn into such a scenario? Or perhaps one major aspect of the story will be how Abeer and Lehar fall in love and then MANAGE their parents, communities and society?

Anyway, I can't but help be rather impressed with Abeer and Lehar already for the love story they are ABOUT to have. What guts! 👏

On a side note, I must also applaud the creatives 👏. Storytelling is all about world building - you need to create a world that is plausible. Not necessarily true, not necessarily authentic (although this serial seems to be) but one in which you convince the viewer that these are the rules in this world and this is how it works. They have succeeded magnificently with Yeh Pyar na hoga kam. In less than a month, they have given to us small town Lucknow, its complex societal rules, the various personalities, the tug and pull of differing characters. It's a highly absorbing series. 👍🏼
Bubble

very well said bubble
kudos to the creatives for the concept and execution of such an unconventional subject yet makin it plausible like u said
i'm in love with the entire team of this show!
and for once I'm in no hurry to see them fall in love,I wanna enjoy every aspect of their lives .
great post again,very well put
cheers
Hina

Hey Soap Suds

loved the post, i m also waiting for how abheer-leher fall in love because in the beginning they have an example of madhav and rashmi after there marriage is on hold and them facing so many problems how abheer leher love story will take off is worth watching