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Posted: 15 years ago
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^^ Zains .. being opinionated has nothing to do with sides, actually. Bottomline is, our own beliefs and how we tend to perceive things.
Ofcourse .. living in today's world .. most women will look at all that Prithvi said as chauvinism. Hell, in many cases .. even I do. But then, we also need to see the other side .. put ourselves in the other person's shoes and try seeing where they are coming from. For me .. I really can't see Prithvi as being very chauvinistic .. simply coz he's not from what we call 'the real world'! He lives in his own world .. and there is no harm in that. Point is .. just let him be .. and love him for who & what he is! Someday .. even Damini will love him .. despite all this, right?
If girls see Prithvi as chavinistic .. guys would most definitely see Damini as hot-blooded and arrogant .. and probably run in the opposite direction! 😆 Whereas, we girls love that .. and call it, being 'feminist'. Again .. matter of one's perception .. nothing more, nothing less!
Me too .. I looooooooved how he held her hand and stressed on 'Zaroorat Hai'!! 😍 😍
This was today ... tmrw, he will tell her "Mujhe tumhari 'zaroorat hai'" 😉 😍 We need to start celebrating now ... coz the day is not too far! 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ektaj

^^ Zains .. being opinionated has nothing to do with sides, actually. Bottomline is, our own beliefs and how we tend to perceive things.

Ofcourse .. living in today's world .. most women will look at all that Prithvi said as chauvinism. Hell, in many cases .. even I do. But then, we also need to see the other side .. put ourselves in the other person's shoes and try seeing where they are coming from. For me .. I really can't see Prithvi as being very chauvinistic .. simply coz he's not from what we call 'the real world'! He lives in his own world .. and there is no harm in that. Point is .. just let him be .. and love him for who & what he is! Someday .. even Damini will love him .. despite all this, right?
If girls see Prithvi as chavinistic .. guys would most definitely see Damini as hot-blooded and arrogant .. and probably run in the opposite direction! 😆 Whereas, we girls love that .. and call it, being 'feminist'. Again .. matter of one's perception .. nothing more, nothing less!
Me too .. I looooooooved how he held her hand and stressed on 'Zaroorat Hai'!! 😍 😍
This was today ... tmrw, he will tell her "Mujhe tumhari 'zaroorat hai'" 😉 😍 We need to start celebrating now ... coz the day is not too far! 😳

Yep...I think the PriDa scene rocked today..it was too short..
esp Pri sarcasm..and I am a sucker for satire
and I love the way ..you put perception..and I couldn't agree more..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Wow! Zain and Eksy..You guys nailed it..👏 *standing ovation*..Couldn't have said it better..


BTW, I loved that 'nahi karna chahta' of Prithvi..That was awesome..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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zain ...this is awesome..
however, to write my view about today's incident...i will have to watch the eppy first...so lemme see it and then i'll drop by again...😉


Edit: ok here i am again after finally watching today's episode....
ok as you said zain it all depends on perception and it surely does! the precap and the promo had made it seem that prithvi retorted at damini but actually prithvi was just so taken aback by what he had just heard from sameer and his decision to get married. i think it was still hard for him to digest this ...and plus his earlier confrontation with himself about forgetting the revenge was still fresh in his mind..and then when he saw that guy with damini..his frustration reached top of the world and he reacted impulsively. it clearly seemed like at that moment when he sees that guy with damini there was no revenge bhoot in him but indeed that was due to his emergent feelings of care (and possibly love) for damini and not damini gujral. it wasn't till damini pointed out that he was just a BG that his revenge mood shot back in. yeah i agree that he should not have taken out his rage on damini but at times it seems as of what else can he do?! he is the eldest of 3 brothers and now the head of the family and he is seeing how is family is suffering instead of living a normal life...what man won't be frustrated and angry at seeing this happening to his younger siblings?! yeah certainly not PB...he is a very straighforward and simple at heart man with loads of responsibilities ...some which could have been a father's responsibilities but since the dad's no more...he has to fulfill these duties as a father would ..as in sameer and varun's weddings. the tears in his eyes and his cry for help was so genuine and sad.
however, the interesting thing to look forward will be that is damini going to realize that she too went a lil overboard by showing him his place in this confrontation( she said something like "tum jahan se aate ho...")
wow this went over the limit...woooh..i can write whole pages and pages on prida ....lol ...totally love them!!!
btw GK and CS were amazing today too but most applause goes to GK for that converstation with sameer ...both GK and KT really do seem like older brother-younger brother duo...their chemistry is just too genuine and amazing!!!
and now it will be really interesting to see how prithvi confronts sameer tomorrow !! he looked raging mad at him!!
Edited by krupur1103 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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great post Zainab but here is my 2cents....basically this is what I saw today.........two people who are hurt and confused and they both reacted with an outburst saying stuff that they will regret later..

Here is Prithvi's mind: He just got the news that his brother is gonna be forced to marry and it is all Ila's fault so obviously he is already pissed off at the Gujral family.
Then he sees someone misbehaving with Damini and he gets pissed off at that guy..........how dare he flirt with his girl
Then the girl he is fallin for but should not, treats him like crap.........continues to stay stuff..........I mean I could actually see the nerve twitiching in his cheek.........but he doesn't snap, he doesn't say anything until SHE says she doesn't need him and he flips out..............and stops her to remind her that she DOES need him, that she does WANT him.
Then there is Damini........I see u blame her here, and the earlier personality that she portryaed in the beginning of the show, I thought she was arrogant and crazy
BUT in the last few weeks, she has been nothing but nice to Prithvi and it has been HIM that keeps playinh hot and cold with her........u gotta admit it is bound to make her frustrated.........he wants to horse ride with her.then abruptly gets off,...............then she goes on a date with him.........he doesn't wanna dance..........she dances with someone else and he gets pissed off..............then he dances with her...........then leaves her on the dance floor.........she comes to ask about him.........he flips out at her..........I mean comeon she was going to snap too after all.
Also I think Damini has already been humilated at a pary once bec of Inder, and here now Prithvi left her in the midle of the dance.........then beat up that guy and she is obviously embarassed infront of people she knows
So when she lashes out and says stuff about BG and what not, she is going behind her shield, she is distancing herself........and using her status as shield to save her bruised ego.................she is Damini Gujral afterall and she will NOT beg someone to be with her when he is clearly not interested.......(even if we know...he is very very interested despite of himself)
Anyway I really hope there is a dynamite scene tomorrow or I will be suffering from some serious Prida withdrawal.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Zainab 🤗

Wow an MCP...... give me one anyday. 😆

For me, the entire scene of Friday and today just meant one thing. Both of them are fighting off their feelings for each other. And they are fighting each other. How else can you explain that stupid war of words? I was thinking oh great - first date and first dance and first fight.... all in a matter of minutes...... thats PriDa for us.

When you cannot control things and when things dont go according to plan and when life seems so unfair, you tend to make mountains out of molehills. Thats what these two are doing. And you dont play nice and fair when you are not in ur right frame of mind............... Pri has revenge on his mind and Da has rejection on her mind (not exactly rejection - but it was not nice of Pri to just walk off from her after the dance)

I am waiting for them to cool down and realise what they said to each other. That will be an awesome scene to watch. I hope I made some sense here.

Love,
Ash

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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Krups...Yep I totally second you on where PB is coming from..he is a father figure..he feels responsible..and then he switches dangerously between revenge and love...and there is bound to be a lot of frustration..and a lot of uncalled stuff..but hey that is what PriDa is for us..and yes I entirely respect your opinion...as you said..everyone looks through a different pair of eyes and that is what makes us human...
@Leaves..my baby..PriDa has you all in a tizzy don't they...You know why I posted this yesterday...for a healthy discussion...everyone on the forum saw Damini's POV and I wanted to look through Prithvi..ok so I am biased😆😆 but that is the beauty of PriDa...I for one have enjoyed everything from when they first exploded on the screen and till yesterday..and ofcourse like Prithvi who is blowing hot and cold at the moment....I keep rooting for Damini and Prithvi at different points in time....To tell you the truth..I have nothing against Damini except the fact she went really low yesterday and I do understand where she is coming from....and that means pull out all your defences whether fair or square to fight....and Damini is a fighting spirt and I love her as well...
And yes we need PriDA today.because Mondays and Fridays are usually Blah..
@ ASH🤗my love..so you would have the MCP would you???😆😆..anyways I think what you wrote what absolutely brilliant and absolutely endorse the fact ..they are both pig headed to boot...they are obstinate stubborn individuals...and to give Prithvi the due...did we ever think that a man like Prithvi ....who of course is chauvanistic..would hit off with Damnin Gujral...the woman who lives the world on her own terms...
and when they are nice they will kill you with their warmth and tenderness and compassion for each other..
and you know the best thing is they have started rubbing off on each other..
Prithvi actually admired her guts when she blasted Inder in the news conference..someone who probably has
never has thought about the strength of women...but D made him think..
and Dam ...I loved the way she humored his total view on the dance thingy..it was soo damn cute the way Damini
gujral played along like a pussy cat..
End of the day..I love them both and that is what makes them worthy of such long posts..
Baby you made everything crystal clear...
Edited by current - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: current

@ ASH🤗my love..so you would have the MCP would you???😆😆..anyways I think what you wrote what absolutely brilliant and absolutely endorse the fact ..they are both pig headed to boot...they are obstinate stubborn individuals...and to give Prithvi the due...did we ever think that a man like Prithvi ....who of course is chauvanistic..would hit off with Damnin Gujral...the woman who lives the world on her own terms... and when they are nice they will kill you with their warmth and tenderness and compassion for each other.. and you know the best thing is they have started rubbing off on each other..
Prithvi actually admired her guts when she blasted Inder in the news conference..someone who probably has never has thought about the strength of women...but D made him think.. and Dam ...I loved the way she humored his total view on the dance thingy..it was soo damn cute the way Damini gujral played along like a pussy cat..
End of the day..I love them both and that is what makes them worthy of such long posts..
Baby you made everything crystal clear...



@ bold yep, anyday. I am like da but sometimes I like my husband being a knight in shining armour for me....... just that he wonders if i am alright if I ask him to do anything like that. 🤣 for me being an MCP means being romantic. 😍

these two are making us go mad........ maybe we shud write a thesis on PriDa and get a doctorate. any takers?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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zainab: I actually thought she meant that the women he might have met till now were the damsel in distress types and she was different...

It never occured to me silly me, she cud have implied that social thing,

Ouch that is bad and kinda rude of her..
Edited by Shwetha! - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Zainab, Gud post.
Honestly, I thought the PriDa fight was completely forced by creatives.
Well, Pri was angry coz sameer was getting married and being an elder brother he cudnt do anything to help his bro. Dam was angry coz she cudnt understand what all of a sudden happend to Prithvi. She thought he was a self composed guy but he suddenly lost it. So both completely overtaken by sudden change of circumstances did what they did.

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