Why love changes when the one u love becomes bad

liril

@liril

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Posted: 16 years ago

I dont understand why u stop loving someone when they turn bad ..

does love always accompany the gud one ?

was it true love ?

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Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well, you don't love a person's face or physical characteristics.

You love him/her for the person he/she is. You love him for various reasons that are related to him and his personality.

If he changes or if he's not the person he was before, then it's explanatory why you wouldn't recognize him as the person you loved.

I don't think love is associated with the person's physical characteristics. It's indeed all about loving a person for who they are knowing their good or bad habits. If you love a person like that, and he changes (becomes 'bad' as you asked) then you wouldn't recognize him as the person you so loved.

I wouldn't say you would 'stop' loving the person. Your love would try to always protect him and show him the 'right path.'

-Mahi

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liril

@liril

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Posted: 16 years ago

^ bad not in the sense physicall appearance .
bad in the sense nothing major ..but in ur own definitions

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Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago

I understood that bad wasn't in the physical sense.

I thought you mean bad in terms of some habits or actions.

But if it's nothing major and it's all in your head, then I guess it wasn't true love in the first place.

-Mahi

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Believe

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: liril
I dont understand why u stop loving someone when they turn bad ..

does love always accompany the gud one ?

was it true love ?

Love is blind...When someone fall in love with a person they looks only his/her good qualities only...but some situations people act or behave badly its not means that he /she bad...I think a true lover can make understand or convince their partner about good and bad. If not posible Set them free, if its true love it will return.....and you cant search a true love in a person...its happen automaticly..its take time. If you want start a bussiness or love investing Time is imp😉😃

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Kushal

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Posted: 16 years ago

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