Is it true for Indian marriages ?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Is the theory that MLS gives that a man earns money and "GIVES" it to his wife and in turn she cooks and take care of the house and kids .. So that means she is a "baai" (servent) whom he gives the money for the work. If she does not work in the house then she should NOT be getting the money. How sick is that. So if the woman of the house gets sick or can not do housework for some reason she will be tortured to death by not getting food or medicines because she can not earn that money by working ?????????????????? Thats so ridiculous .....

Has anyone seen such thing in a marriage ?? Or met people who think this way ??

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Posted: 18 years ago
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never heard of it...thats why ithinkt hat this show is now going over the top-
u nkow like way too much...MLS has nw turned into athis cheating, lying dog
- but he is truly supposed to be an orthodox, reputed, respected, jain father
- u know? but there is nothing jain aout him or his family - since they all act
in sucha w ay...its weird...but do you know waht i mean?
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Posted: 18 years ago
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ive never heard of it or experinced it however there r ppl hu think this wai
things lik this do not happen out in the open so we feel tht they dnt exsits however no1 noes wat happenz behind closed doors

Sobia
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i have never heard or met someone like that..nor do i want to cuz its just pure evil...i think they are showing this cuz they want ppl who mite do this to stop..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sobia.k

ive never heard of it or experinced it however there r ppl hu think this wai
things lik this do not happen out in the open so we feel tht they dnt exsits however no1 noes wat happenz behind closed doors

Sobia

yea i agree...justcuz you don't see it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. But it probably doesn't happen to this extent like MLS is doing...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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there r some people like that
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: IBserenity

yea i agree...justcuz you don't see it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. But it probably doesn't happen to this extent like MLS is doing...

ye tru...this is a show so the directorz had 2 spice it up so they showed it 2 such and extent

Sobia

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Posted: 18 years ago
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guys...guys...guys....sorry to say but you havent begun to see the world yet. there is such utter evil out there that you wouldnt believe it if it happened in front of your eyes. 😊
The statement MLS made about money, is typical for every single housewife. its the biggest power men use against women who are at home and especially if they have no means to make anything for themselves. MLS thinks that by not giving the women money, they will breakdown faster and just give into the men, which is what men always think. But, in this serial they showed what power women's education has over men. Men know the weakness of women because we dummies tell them. so they use that as their weapon and bring the women down so that women dont think that they are capable of success without them. 🤢
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Posted: 18 years ago
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agree wit u...
we women r very emotional and the men use this 2 their advantage...and yeah the serial does show how edu can help women...as 4 money...men hu feel tht a women belongs in the house and not the outside world do feel tht they r the onez tht earn the money so therefore they run the house...however wat gud is the money if ur wife doesnt wanna cook 4 u...and yes sum men feel tht if they tak money awai 4m women they will break down and some women do so however in this serial it shows tht these women dnt...
another thing tht shud go into consideration here is the unity b/w the women...if they were not one any of their plans wud not b possiable...

guiz i have written an essay about male domination as respect to marriages it is called MARRAIGES – ABUSIVE AND RESPECTFUL if interested i will post it

Sobia
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Posted: 18 years ago
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it is not about what part of world or country u live in. it is about who u grow up with. my husband grow up or lived with people after he grew up who think like that .they told my husband we will tell u how to keep your wife like not to let her work other wise she will run away with somebody else. he realy respected this person and did same for some time . but with time i made him realize that it does not work like that i started working and showed him how to trust and respect a woman while she worked and not run away.now we both work and are very happy in our life and my husband got to know the true face of this perrson. it does happen in real life.

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