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khoo wrote:
Sarah13 wrote:
sobia.k wrote:
i got a prob...me and this gut r really gud friendz we tell each other everythin but the prob is tht sum ppl think we like each other but its not tru...at least not 4m my side...these daiz the guy doesnt tak 2 me as much i think one of the ppl hu think we like each other said sumthin 2 him...wat do u think is it tht or is it tht we dnt really hav nethin 2 tak bout these daiz...so tell me wat do u think




First of all , I think one of the big prob is that when a girl is friends with a guys, everyone starts to assume they like each other. Why does everyone have to see this relationship wiv a negative view point?

I don't know but maybe the guy thinks if he talks to u more often, ppl will start talking again or maybe he's just busy with some work, i guess


first of all good going rimpy!! keep up the good job!

hey sobia!! hmm i can definitely understand your problem!!

and i so agree with sarah!! you know when ever a girl is really tight with a boy even if that her best friend... people, especially desi ppl, assume so much about them, and make them look like they are going on!! it happened to me so many times!

But sobia, i think that he might not be ignoring u, as boys dont really care about when people say, unless the guy you are talking about is sensitive!! Girls are more likely to take things to the heart, and not guys!!

Hmm what i'll suggest is you talk to him, and you ask him straight forward!! see i have so many guys best friend, and before anything, i tell them straight up that we are only friends and not any thing else, we even laugh about it... So i suggest you speak to him and tell him how you feel and asks him if something about you friendship is buggin him!!

It'll be much easy then to assume anything at this point!! just my opinion!!

love

khoo




I agree with Khoo, try talking to the guy. Another possibilty is he likes you and after people started talking he is after you'll say that you don't feel the same way. Which sadly you don't but it is still enough to make your relationship a bit akward. Talk to him get ridd of any misunderstandings and continue being the good friends you guys are.

-Rimpy

thanx a lot guyz i think i will tak 2 him and get things cleared up....he is kinda sensitive so mayb thts y hez quiet so ill tak 2 him...but therez another prob...if this guy does like me he wont tell me cuz he noes tht i like sum1 else...but i hav a gut feelin tht my friend and i r just friendz nothin else and tht sumthin else is botherin him...i m gonna tak 2 him 2dai (if my msn workz...its havin probs 😡) so wish me luck and thanz a lot 4 ur help❤️❤️

Good Luck Sobia! Do Tell us what happened 😊

Originally posted by: sobia.k

thanx a lot guyz i think i will tak 2 him and get things cleared up....he is kinda sensitive so mayb thts y hez quiet so ill tak 2 him...but therez another prob...if this guy does like me he wont tell me cuz he noes tht i like sum1 else...but i hav a gut feelin tht my friend and i r just friendz nothin else and tht sumthin else is botherin him...i m gonna tak 2 him 2dai (if my msn workz...its havin probs 😡) so wish me luck and thanz a lot 4 ur help❤️❤️

Good luck Sobia! 😊

Originally posted by: -Ananya-

Good luck Sobia! 😊

good luck missy!! hope things work out just fine!!

cheers

khoo

Good Luck Sobia!!

😊

okay guiz i think ur luck helped or is helpin i m takin 2 him rite now and allz seemz fine im sooooooooooooooooo happi i dnt like losin friendz cuz of other ppl thinking...i didnt hafta ask him any questions and everythin is cool ...ill keep u updated if sumthin else happens and i noe i can ask u guiz 4 advice cuz u guiz r gr8 adive giverz....ne waiz thanx a lot and pray tht humari dosti ko kisi ke nazar na laga 😉

Originally posted by: sobia.k

okay guiz i think ur luck helped or is helpin i m takin 2 him rite now and allz seemz fine im sooooooooooooooooo happi i dnt like losin friendz cuz of other ppl thinking...i didnt hafta ask him any questions and everythin is cool ...ill keep u updated if sumthin else happens and i noe i can ask u guiz 4 advice cuz u guiz r gr8 adive giverz....ne waiz thanx a lot and pray tht humari dosti ko kisi ke nazar na laga 😉

everything well work out in the end, our prayers are with you

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

everything well work out in the end, our prayers are with you

Thats great! 😃 Our prayers are with you

I am really Pissed off at all guys, including the little 3 year olds. 😆

my three year old cousin told me that girls and mommy's don't go to the airport to pick up people (my dads coming from India), and that only guys are allowed to go. That and he threatened me with a toy gun to give him my room because he wanted to move into my house with his parents. 😆 (I am not kiddin)

My 20 year old cousin in India told my girl cousins they can't continue their eduaction because he didn't. Now they are sitting at home learning 'girl work'. One of them was really smart, too. Why do guys think they have to be better than girls at everything?? 😡

My uncles keep asking my mom if I am going to be study to be a doctor, even though I have made it clear that I have no interest in that field. THey keep bugging me about my education, even though my brother (their favorite) choice not continue with his. This people that discouraged me all my life from my education and always gave the better oppertunities to my brother, suddenly want me to be a doctor, and trying to force it on to me. I remeber when my dad was in USA and we were in India, they sent my brother to private school and me to public. Suddenly when my brother made it clear that he doesn't care about their dreams for him, they want me to complete their dreams. Why are girls excepted to forget everything and still treat people with respect, even though they have been treated like dirt? Why do people always think of guys first and only come to girls when guys have let them down?

Sorry for the long post but I am really frustrated today.