Thendral Monday Update: 07/05/12 - Page 4

The way laav behaves is definitely disgusting. But Nit also could have handled laav better as you all said. They had thiruttu kalyanam and Nit's parents rejected entry to them just after the marriage. At that time, what really was called for was Nit and Laav needed to support each other. Of course, Laav is a selfish queen. But if Nit had told her, he would find a job, take a rented house etc. to Laav and if in that situation, Laav's selfish colors were to come out, she would have been exposed. We saw Nitish never showing any proactive nature, which no wife could accept and that is what probably T told yesterday. On that day, he left others to do everything on the marriage and the marriage suffered. what self-respect he has when he let even Charu to work on his marriage?

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TnT should start an anti-divorce court!

Originally posted by: maha2us

The way laav behaves is definitely disgusting. But Nit also could have handled laav better as you all said. They had thiruttu kalyanam and Nit's parents rejected entry to them just after the marriage. At that time, what really was called for was Nit and Laav needed to support each other. Of course, Laav is a selfish queen. But if Nit had told her, he would find a job, take a rented house etc. to Laav and if in that situation, Laav's selfish colors were to come out, she would have been exposed. We saw Nitish never showing any proactive nature, which no wife could accept and that is what probably T told yesterday. On that day, he left others to do everything on the marriage and the marriage suffered. what self-respect he has when he let even Charu to work on his marriage?

Even as Laav was nagging at him, he could have tried to understand her. Suppose not only if he agreed for thani kudithanam but also he said he would live with a job as a driver or in a job at sudha's maligaikadai, then he could have brought out the true selfish stuff of her. He made mistake by taking money from his dad on what his wife said. What T said yesterday that wife expects husband to support her means the wife expects husband to be proactive. He lied to his parents, didn't take his parents' words when he started business. In that situation, he could not just expect Laav alone to respect his parents though we can accept him to be angry at Laav, when she spoke bad about his parents. Also she saw, charu not respecting his parents.

A simple question: what independent decision, Nitish took in the marriage? What do you say?

Aptly they showed Kalyani yesterday. Kalyani is really practical and when she is prepared for marriage with Mohan not only it will be after Mohan gets a job but both of them will take proactive stand in making the marriage work,

Nitish was the one who choose to marry Lavanya and was acknowledged by Charu and then GP and it went on well till T/T got married...later she used Nitish as a triumph card for her plans, same way like she used TA himself for her sick plans..It cannot be said C decided Nitish life...It was Nitish who decided it and C used it to her advantage for her plans. So to put it more clearly, alongside TA, Nitish, GP and everyone in his family were cheated by C with GW and later Lav till the truth came out.
But again Nitish has to be blamed atleast 25%, the initial starter for Lavanya's attitude towards people at Nitish house...he was just careless initially and that made a huge gap between Lav and his parents...he gave unnecassary place for Lav to jump to heights and suddenly wanted her to come down...his behaviour/expectation towards Lavanya were right, but he forgot the reason that it was him who encouraged her initially...

Originally posted by: Gisel

TnT should start an anti-divorce court!

ROFL Gisel...they are taking care of everyone's issues but doesnt care about themselves...
From Day1 they entered this house, they seem to run and discuss about other's problem and by any chance they start about their own issue C's issue lets down T...but anyways its better they talk about their own life than to run for other's like a marathon...And now they are going to enter B's house and lets see what role both got in there...

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