Update for Thursday-16/02- Husbd Vs Wife(opinions) - Page 6

@shubba, yes lot of people have studied while being married. But T's married life was a roller coaster with Gw and Chaaru determined to disrupt her studies. One can study after marriage provided there is no interference. I myself got a masters in USA at the age of 42. But as desi says it is easier in USA because of the flexibility available to choose the classes at time convenient to you. I don't know if that is possible in India.all the classes are from 9 to 5. I was able to do it because I had so much independence. But in T's case we all saw how disruptive people were. TA made her come to B'lore uttering non sense. Where is the guaranty he won't do it again? T is serious about her studies. Based on what she went thru she decided she wants to finish her studies first. Ifbpeoplevcan do something conveniently why invite trouble and call it challenge?something is a challenge if it is unavoidable or one stands to gain a lot by stretching oneself. I will not call somebody a loser if that person chooses to finish studies first before marriage.

Thanks for the update

I love how people jump into conclusion with out knowing what they are upto. very intresting to read all comment.
jan, no need to worry about future track. from what i heard what you are saying is not possible.
Can we just say this track will make TT a better couple than before? imperfect is what makes couple's bond stronger when both learns, if a person acts worse for a period of time because of situations that doesnt mean they will repeat the same in future. when they learn what went wrong they wont redo it. Thinking positive is good for life.

Next week and following week is quite good and hopefully not many side tracks!

@desi - Honestly speaking the answer to the question is Yes like ruby had told and the true fact is it is easy in india with ennumerous support from people...this being a serial things are just over exaggerated here...it is deftly possible if the girl can manage well...when a woman can manage work and family along with kids...why not education...i do not want to spread wrong message here(marry and study) with lots of unmarried girls around same time...my argument is completely based on the fact that, after marriage if things go out of track and if misunderstanding happens if there is a chance to be correct it should be coreected then and then rather than separation...separation is a wrong idea for a woman pointing out her own reasons when her husbd is around, hope u get my point...things might become big and blown up if they are apart...u know how many couples end up in div for silly reason...we saw it right in the show...taking decsions harsh is totally not agreeable when there is even more better solution... i will tell u the difference between your argument and my argument...people who are arguing T shd complete her education and then go with TA after her studies are looking Thulasi as a student first than a married girl...but I am looking Thulasi as a married girl who is studying...If she was an unmarried girl I would definetely say first be done(complete) with your studies and then get married ,I dont mean u cant study after education here but same time finishing off studies and getting married is the best solution...but now thulasi is already a married girl who is studying...so this is not the time to say i will study and then come and live with you...rather this is not the best solution i mean to say...she alreasy choose what and who her life is and we all know marriage is a long run process and wrt thulasi education is a part of her life after marriage (i dont mean she shd be a wife first then study)...and hence my argument to say that thulasi shd not stay away from her husbd stating education as a reason, but shd accomplish her challeges as a student and as a wife being with him to be successful in life...now since she is married to TA and since this is a long run i m objecting for any separation as that is not an ideal solution for couples and that too stating their own reasons...sometime on their long run this act would look selfish to the spouse and hence i kept saying for thulasi how important her studies are same time her life with her husbd is equally important...

Shubba, It was a good post from you in which you have indicated T and T's positives as well as the negatives. Of course, one area T made mistake was she took the words of Sudha and Deepa in dealing with her problems which backfired badly on her. Also I trust your word on how a typical husband is.

Thank you Shubba akka for the wonderful update and comments with an apt title..!!🤗 🤗

TA being ego is not his character.. at the same time Thulasi being this stubborn is also not her character.. I guess they are showing their true couple..how they both are same in thinking alike.. rofl..

I just want both of them to talk to each other.. the same words/dialogs if they had spoken to each other.. both of them would have ended staying together... Thulasi's other words were true but not when she came to the education matter..

The team portrayed their feeling very nicely, they showed both T&T's views on getting compromised.. they both shared with their friends.. T&T are thinking different.. but the friends of both of them are thinking and advising good..

This new Shruthi is so annoying.. OMG.. she keeps on saying lies..

@Shubba akka: Your detailed view on T&T is awesome ka.. They both need to learn from their mistakes to lead a happy life in future..

Originally posted by: Shamz.

Maybe, but i dont know. If T&T has problems then surely their friends will come, appo they cant realize that, that there is none for them except themselves.

I think something else is gonna happen, what will make them more closer😕 Dunno, but cant wait😍😆

If GW didn't come and humiliate T at her college. She wouldn't have definitely married TA. I don't know if TA would have developed guts to stop his marriage with Charu and confessed to her family that he is love with T. Supposing he didn't marry C won't he have waited for T to finish her studies? So why not now?

No I don't say they should stay separated until she finishes her studies. But if T really opts for it he should not change if he truly loved her.

I'm sure T will unite with him soon.

Thanks shubba for wonderful update 😊

Way ahead for T and T. Both of them are not to judge oneself as right or wrong and not try to prove to the other person that 'I am right and you are wrong.' Just ask oneself at any moment, 'Am I loving to myself and my partner?'