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Now for the first time, I am going to support TA(Gunz am I provoking u to quote😉🤣...i alw supported T, now TA..😛), why T should forgive TA. But not just immediately though. The reason for it should be told very clearly by her.
For whatever life T got now, rightly said by MM, a rebirth, is bcos of TA. Had it not been him, she would not have get rid of the wedding with VEL, joined college or got rid of the case and come back from the trauma she had all thru the years. Now the same TA, just bcos of his guilty feeling towards C, started to blv C more than anything. He blvg C is completely acceptable.
1)T was also blvg C once and argued with Deepa, Pati until Sudha came and told her, even then when TA convinced her she did not mind it much. Had it not been T who blvd C when TA was at hsp, and patched up TA with his family, things would not have gone worse. T went wrong there. But it proved T's character, forgiving quality inspite of all messup she went thru. So when T who hardly know C blvd her, TA with guilt factor for ditching her would blv her more than her. So acceptable
2) I can count all TA's idiotic harsh words towards T, with a thinking that, what if T was wrong and with a fear what if C life is again a question mark!! It happens always, harsh words pop out in anger, spontaneously...even in real.
It was a mistake where we viewed TA from T's POV and not from outside.
Acc to T, he was a GOD who saved her life from all miseries. Through the current act, he proved he is just a normal person. So seeing TA as a normal person, his idiotic harsh words are counted in that sense and can be forgiven. But deftly not gg to level of divorce!! That was super out of mind act...he need to justify it for sure...These kinds of harsh words are usual btwn husbd and wife out of anger, coming out of force, But an apology and feeling for those words towards T is deftly reqd to cool down.
Now after all these, both T and TA are in same line...for T, TA is no bigger than anyone in her life and for TA, T proved she is worth it to be her wife. Both are equal to each other. Now let them talk where things went wrong and start up all new and prove that they are worth it to be marrying each other...
So, from now on, every mistake T/TA does is counted more as both are same and both are not superior/inferior to each other. Atleast from now on, hope both rightly point out each mistakes and take in right spirits, disclose everything and prove worth it...Lets see...
Just my POV...hope if they procced in this way, things will be going well...lets see..
Now for T, TA is just a husbd, he himself nullified what ever he did ealier to her(saving her life from miseries).
P.S -Sudha being the source of Info was one drawback why TA could not take T's words. But I wonder how he counted his mom's words, but when lav was playing a role along, TA had no other go than to blv them, as it was lav who brought T to his life. TA would not even thought Lav would do this, so it is understandable her. He ignoring Puvi also is bcos of Sudha again.😕 Of all more than blvg his mom/lav, not blvg Puvi, his view on C and her life played a major role for TA's behaviour. 😕. Additionaly whatever T tried to prove, it was a failure again and again till she signed divorce. But the last attempt he accpeting her, giving her again a chance proved that he was behaving in forceful, rushed up manner, but it worked out for T this time.
