Monday Update 23/01/12 - Page 4

C cried maybe because this is the first time someone who has been supporting her telling directly to her what she is doing is wrong. Maybe till now she was longing for something but she has do many wrong things to achieve this and now when she is closer to getting it maybe she is feeling guilty.All the people Lav, GW, Joseph and others who did wrong things with her never said anything to her about the mistakes she is doing.Now the person who confronted her was GP and now K.Maybe slowly reality is hitting her.She crying for this amount of money is unbeleivable when VR is ready to present 3crores land to K.So maybe there is a chance she is changing.Other than Ta matter she is generally very nice person hope she comes out of this soon.

She is like part of terrorist group who don't understand what they are doing but keep doing wrong things to achieve some unrealistic things.And T is like cop who instead of using her time to study chasing C and Ta is like common people who needs to be saved.If C backs off everyone can go back th their work.Now Ta has job T can focus on her studies.

Originally posted by: shubba

@gunz - she did not say she is denying for marrying TA di loose...she just said she shd not have fell in love and got married while studying...there is a difference...dont worry unnoda favourite TA va marry senchathu thappu nu innum she did not telll...rofl...she is still longin for TA and hence those words out of disappointment...she s just pesimisstic and thinking what could be the mistake from her side and loose thulz thinks marriage might have been a base for all this...dont worry TA will soon prove it wrong...😛...

@desicpn, you are spot on regarding T and Deepa. It is high Tim T put a closure to her Ta longing. When Kalyani is breaking her back to provide fee, she has no business to keep thinking about herself like this. I hope she does not miss her exams like last time. That would be irresponsible. T needs to be a bit more responsible and not take these favors of friends for granted. Deepa is the one who keeps on reminding of Ta and her love even when T is making the right statement. I find Ka

Very interesting discussion on the Trio today...

T - She indicated that she did mistake by rushing in Love and Marriage while she was studying. It is true. What did she know until she joined college? All she can do is cry when people talk bad about her. She had very little exposure to the world. She fell in love nothing wrong in it as the guy was the right one. The knight who saved her from monster's den. (How ever he is today is no matter at that moment he was the only person who stood for her and took out), But she rushed into marriage in a weak emotional moment. She called for it and she says she should not have. It had been a distraction for her education. With her zero maturity she did not know how to handle people. All she did was listen to other and followed what they said. When Sudha asked her to call Charu she did not stop and question herself what would be the cause and effect. Age and experience in life gives that education. Did she have that? NO. She realizes that and says she shouldn't have done that. Which is correct.

Also she will not be able to completly forget TA and concetrate on her studies. She can say that she will only do that. But in her heart she has the deep love for him. She had wonderful moments with him. How can she wipe it off? No body can. So we cannot expect her to just concentrate in studies and not think about TA. At this point from Tulasi's POV life after college is a big question mark for her. OK she gets job and earns a lot. But still the companionship...

Her behavior is perfectly normal because she is a very normal girl.

D - She is a very good friend of T. She wouldn't have talked about TA if T hasn't been upset lost in her thoughts about TA. And what she said is true. She cares for her friend and she wants her to live happily with her husband. So she advises her and tries to tell some positive thing to be hopeful. She wasn't giving any wrong advice to T. She asked T to be friendly with C. But it was T who rushed and overacted. She should have slowly moved. Even when T was at K's house, D asked the same thing. Why did she rush? When C and clan were at T and TAs house and torturing her D took her to Sudha and paved a way to get her a relief. She is a matured friend for T who always helps to handle the situation better. Her advice may have slipped here and there. But she is a little girl too. If T is going to ignore her friends who else is there.

And D is not in any position to help T financially. Though she is a financially better than K, with K she is the major financial decision maker at home as she brings food to the table. She is sole bread winner. She has independence to take financial decision and D hasn't.

Few facets of T's down and out glum conversation K & D and the rekindled spirit @ the end are fascinating. T's commentary and reflection about the difficulty facing people like her in trying to balance professional [education, work] endeavors when personal life is in turmoil is incisive. T's journey in compartmentalizing herself in such a way that her school life doesn't get affected by the pulls and pressures of the personal grind and the "role" that TA will play in supporting her professional aim should interesting from hereon.

The repeated assertion and calling into question the marriage shows her naivet, fragile unsettled frame of mind. Before her marriage, T was @ cross-roads with odds stacked against her, MM enraged @ her very sight and education a distant dream, but, all that changed after TA arrived as Thendral breezed giving new lease of life. Yet today, she is complaining her marriage has become a roadblock as though everything was hunky dory prior. The main reason, T is behaving like a kid – she initially had nothing, then everything, now back to square one.

Finally, the most telling aspect – T is mad that she lost out to psycho in the battle for TA, even after repeated attempts. T is not able to put this aspect past her, even when she is prepared to wait for to TA to change anew and come to her fold. Once again T is on the move, wanting to claim back TA, who is rightfully hers. The fighting spirit in her, not waiting with folded hands for someone to help is a *positive*, even if the attempt is going to be futile one…..at-least she is trying 👍🏼.

Originally posted by: acornn

The repeated assertion and calling into question the marriage shows her naivet, fragile unsettled frame of mind. Before her marriage, T was @ cross-roads with odds stacked against her, MM enraged @ her very sight and education a distant dream, but, all that changed after TA arrived as Thendral breezed giving new lease of life. Yet today, she is complaining her marriage has become a roadblock as though everything was hunky dory prior. The main reason, T is behaving like a kid ' she initially had nothing, then everything, now back to square one.

Finally, the most telling aspect ' T is mad that she lost out to psycho in the battle for TA, even after repeated attempts. T is not able to put this aspect past her, even when she is prepared to wait for to TA to change anew and come to her fold. Once again T is on the move, wanting to claim back TA, who is rightfully hers. The fighting spirit in her, not waiting with folded hands for someone to help is a *positive*, even if the attempt is going to be futile one'..at-least she is trying 👍🏼.

Thanks for the Good update and comments TTfan 😊

Thanks for the super update TTfan

Thanks TT fan for the update...

Thanks TT fan for the update.