Wednesday Nov 16th Update - Page 4

Welcome Descipn to Thendral Section!!

To Gunz, I feel exactly the same way as you do. To desicpn, isn't T trying hard to clear this mis understanding which is really a mis understanding of TA about T that she does not trust him. Is T's life normal like other married girls? How many people are scheming against her.? Every body knows how GW hates a her and tries to get rid of her. How Chaaru deliberately provokes her. How Gw heartlessly starved her. When TA very well knows all this and still tortures T, he deserves all these and more bashings.

I think even if Thulz decides to fall at pei's feet (left with no other choice to pacify TA ) , Pei is not going to let that happen as that might smoothen things out between TT . Pei wud try to create more fights between TT and will not miss a single chance for that ..

I think D is going to make his people kidnap Thuls as he will find out that she is B's daughter... and GW will create the impression that she has run away...and tell TA to forget her and marry C...it is at this stage everything will come out...it is due to this that Thuls was made to say the line no matter what i wont leave this house. MM will tell TA this...

Wow...Yaaru intha Gunz...one week absence ku compensation a...😆...essays and essays...that too TA ku against...intha ponna once defended TA when i was bashing him...that too against T when TA overheard half and left to hide with D...😛...

But I agree with u Gunz but i cant deny what desi told too...😃
Desi U are right about couples talking things like this so often and i agree almost everyday some disagreement might happen but it all just gets solved with immediate effect...atleast they might not be ignoring each other.
Few things where i disagree with TA
1) He has big heart to forgive ppl like his mom, Lav, Nitish, VR etc but not even listening to T...she asked sorry and even agreed to him many times but he is not listening to her. Instead if he had told, she can come with him to meet psycho and try to apologize it would have been fair from his part...But he wants to solve it by herself that too falling at psycho's feet. If he does a mistake(Ditching Psycho after engagement) he wants to solve it, feels for it...that was a bigger issue than what T did now, as even invitations were printed , ppl knew about it and etc. He might think KP/C wedding might get spoiled but still he shd have asked T to go apologize and shd have told we shd try cooling down psycho but not this way.

2) I agree with hema that psycho will not accept the apology even if T falls at C's feet and TA will not even get convinced a bit if C is not pacified...so there is no need to show T fall at C's feet. I bet its TA who will even try to kill himself for making T fall at C's feet when he knows about the GW/C plans...so why??

3)@ Desi - talkign about Anniversary, she was calm but sad when TA said he cannot make it to wedding anniv and was okie a little when he said he might come in the evening..
But two things - he even forgot the day of his anniversary, but T took it lightly and told he remembered the day they met but was wondering why he forgot...Any wife would not take this issue so lightly I bet but T took it lightly...
Secondly, she was only sad till Sudha confused her brining C into picture, even after seeign the anon letter. As both the things confused her at her sad time she showed her irritation at C without thinking its opposite reaction forgetting herself, which is totally wrong I agree. But for sure TA was a reason for this too. Psycho made TA come to Chennai by making him skip mumbai meeting and also told not to inform T. But any husbd would have called his wife immediately to inform about his arrival if he knew his wife wd be sad. Okie even we can say it would be a surprise for T (as per TA's view), it was not at all fair on his part that he did not tell her by listening to C's words.

4) If TA gets job back by making T fall at C's feet will he stop his cribbo after that...I dont think so..any normal person wll never do that..he will keep tauting her for sure. He called her selfish...I dont understand where he found selfishness in T...for making Lav life together with Nitish by convincing Gp and family twice??...By uniting him with his family even after the insults she underwent??...By saying no to him after knowing about C's engagement??..wasnt he who was behind T and chasing her??...

If he says T should think before what she does or talks...I say TA should think and speak to T before whhat he talks to her. I can never forgive him for calling T as selfish even after he witnessed how this girl was even ready to ruin her life by getting married to vel for her family sake...😕

Thanks Hema for the update.

T'n'TA...The Apology saga and all the jazz:

Providence and destines are defined by who you are and what you do. The current round of sparring and schism between T'n'TA has its root in their marriage. T & more so TA, is haunted and agitated by the 'guilt factor' to no ends as result of their hastily arranged marriage and its import on psycho.

The current misunderstanding is a clash of view-point: the perception, insight & comprehension of the situation from T'n'TA perspective and how they have reacted...each correct or incorrect in their own way, depending on how one view's their current predicament.

TA: TA is a consistent character, just being TA: for all his good heart is flawed, hence Thulz has to take and put up the good with the bad. TA is consistent: unwavering loyalty, commitment and support to Thulz no matter what the situation is: their marriage, court action, followed T's diktat about moving with GW & working in PA/S retail shoppe even-though he was not enthused.

On the other hand: TA is poor judge of dubious character from: GW, Psycho, SQ, S,J,A, Vel, Valparai thugs...the list is endless and Thulz is suffering the brunt of the machinations of the shady & untrustworthy people as result of unilateral decisions that he takes without consulting Thulz. TA never understands T's perspective and as a result she is suffering.

T has suffered ignominy, humiliation silently in the hands of GW, Psycho, SQ...all for TA's sake as she promised him in the hospital when TA was recovering. Thulz took in her stride when TA pawned her in loan issue, overlooked the stabber to the extent of lying in the court so SQ can live with Nit, TA has not even provided any financial stability leading her to take the step of living together with GW clan and putting up with the berating from GW on a daily basis without cribbing once as it is part of the game.

Thulz committed hara-kiri, undoubtedly a huge miss-step, a costly one.. as it revolves around TA relationship w.r.t to psycho...core part of TA's guilt factor ticking of his raw nerve. What TA asked to Thulz is correct- Why should she be bothered about psycho, GW? She knows deep down TA is hers and he has proved it many times over.

T, lost her patience in her urge to counterattack egged on by S. T should have remained patient taking on all the garbage thrown at her just like countless times before. T's fear of losing TA got over her patience and now taking Ta's wrath.

Should Thulz fall in the feet of psycho...hell no, even if it means temporary separation until TA is aware and suffers for his folly of trusting the scums more than is beloved wifey. But one thing she should surely do is to loan TA just as similar to the way she saved Vel, as TA will be needed to treat psycho's psychotic and obsessive behavior and make her Charu.

Originally posted by: acornn

Thulz committed hara-kiri, undoubtedly a huge miss-step, a costly one.. as it revolves around TA relationship w.r.t to psycho...core part of TA's guilt factor ticking of his raw nerve. What TA asked to Thulz is correct- Why should she be bothered about psycho, GW? She knows deep down TA is hers and he has proved it many times over.

T, lost her patience in her urge to counterattack egged on by S. T should have remained patient taking on all the garbage thrown at her just like countless times before. T's fear of losing TA got over her patience and now taking Ta's wrath.

This one of the sole reasons I can't seem to simply put all the blame on TA for their situation right now. As much it irritates me that TA doesn't seem to be able to put together the pieces of psycho and gw's plan when for us it seems like it's right their in front of his face, I don't understand why Thuls let Charu's vindictive ways get into her skin so much.

She was able to ignore Padma and MM's words and actions as she grew up and nearly married Vel but when it comes to TA, I guess her possessiveness of her hubby seems to make her less patient with Charu.

So TA is correct in that sense that Thulasi is being immature and if she wants to prove Charu to be wrong, she needs to let Charu think she won. Be it, if she has to go to MM's house and separate from TA so that Charu's proposal comes out, then Thulasi should do it...

@ Gunz, I too want a separation now, but for different reasons... LOL... I want Thuls to wantedly leave TA not because she's mad at him but because she wants Charu exposed... send a fake divorce letter to TA also to make it seem like their over😉 And don't forget one thing, both times, TA didn't suggest for Thuls to go fall at Charu's feet. Thulasi asked him sarcastically and TA agreed... ROFL... he's arguing with her like a baby

Thanks for good update Thendralfan!

@Accorn/Ranu - absolutely right about T's super fast haste decision to call psycho - she was carried away by Sudha's words thinking sudha would be right as she was her saviour twice. But Sudha was a super planner and used T to make TA loser his job so that she can hire him for her shop. I totally hate sudha for this. Like accorn said when T said issues and misunderstanding are common in a family we saw a matured T there but in this issue her behaviour was totally a haste though it was bcos of possessiveness. T has been shown impulsive wrt TA/C earlier too. She missed writing her exam when she saw TA/C in same two wheeler bcos of her sensitiveness towards TA. ROFL ranu, u r right T asked if she had to fall at TA's feet and he said yeah u go fall at her feet may be a word but i somehow think he meant it. I wonder if he wants to save his work or save KP/C wedding. If he is so particular about second one he shd talk the issue to GP family and sort out. I somehow feel T is at mistake talking to C listening to Sudha.