Originally posted by: aa123.80
I don't care abt anything else, but I feel like slapping someone when people go around saying that Stefan didn't care abt Elena. That he doesn't love Elena enough, cause he left her alone. 🤣 SERIOUSLY? HE LEFT ELENA? Pray tell me when this happened? Cause I think I just missed a WHOLE track on the show. I've stopped watching now, but I'm sure I would've been aware if this happened on the show. 🤣
If he walked away from Elena, it was cause he wanted to SAVE Damon. He didnt care abt the consequences, he didn't care that he may lose Elena forever, KNOWING that Damon loves Elena. In fact, he knew Damon would protect her, and he trusted Damon to never let anything happen to Elena. THAT'S selfless love. He didn't leave her cause he didn't love her or he found somebody else. Hell, EVERYONE saw WHY Stefan left. Then how the hell does that make Stefan's love weak???
He didn't act like an insecure loser, who wouldn't leave Elena even when his brother was dying, just cause he was scared that he'd lose her forever. AND I'm sure only Stefan could have the heart and the courage to take a step like this. He hasn't cheated on Elena, for god's sake. He left cause he loved his brother MORE than he loved Elena probably, and it's sad to see what he's getting in return now.
If Stefan had refused to save Damon, if he'd refused to become a ripper, he'd be hated more today, cause then he'd be selfish, a coward, blah blah.. He gave himself up, he gave everything up for those two people, and even today he's termed selfish. His problem is that he cares just too much, even when he shouldn't be giving a fuc*.
If it weren't for Stefan, in fact, Elena maiyya wouldn't ever have been in this "confused" state abt her feelings. She'd NEVER have had to make a choice. So there.
I still don't watch the show, FYI.🤣 It's just the enormous amt of Stefan hate that irritates me to no end. I heard that Stefan's decided that he will let Elena make her choice, and he said that nothing matters if she has feelings for someone else (in the last epi? ) EVEN THEN, he's called selfish. HOW THE HELL is this selfish??? HOW? If giving up your love cause he/she has feelings for someone else is selfish, then we'd all love to find selfish people like Stefan.