What you would do???

So guys as per the last episode Pihu broke up with Raj on e-mail, a very convenient source of messaging now a day. Technology really is became the integral part of our lives.

Pihu was not ready to face him, but Doesn't Raj deserves an explanation. Pihu didn't loved Raj but he did wasn't she suppose to make him understand her situation, her stand on the issue rather can leaving him alone to cope up with his hurt.

Pihu followed her heart and left Raj, which was absolutely right but the way she did it. Can you relate with her. Was running away from situation, breaking up on e-mail was correct? May be yes, may be no.

Share your views, what you have done if you would have been at the place of Pihu.

I for one,wanted her to not-get married to him,bcoz,she obviously didn't love him anymore!IIt wud've been a life of compromises and evrything bout it wud b wrong.

Originally posted by: shibz

i think it was really a convenient way to break up with Raj..She probably wasn't in a state to explain..she was suffocated in the relationship..she wanted to run away..but at least she bothered to inform him through mail..
Feeling bad for Raj though..that was indeed a shocker or may be not like someone said that Raj would've seen it-that Pihu is not happy..something was wrong in the relationship..
he would've feared it when he confronted her with the news that he did not have the film in hand anymore.. He did not want to accept it but the relationship had become more like a burden.. Pihu also loved him but their love was long lost.. It'l be hard for Raj to cope with it though..or something better is waiting for him already..

Originally posted by: disha15

I for one,wanted her to not-get married to him,bcoz,she obviously didn't love him anymore!IIt wud've been a life of compromises and evrything bout it wud b wrong.

But the way she did it,not done.Just not done.

It was CONVENIENT for her,but SHE was leaving HIM,so it was NOT supposed to be convenient!

What about him?7 years she was with him right?He wasted seven years on her,so the least she could do,was give him a proper explanation.She owes him that.

Im just really pissed with this.

Exactly my point yar, for her there was no love left in their relationship but raj he loved her always. I also didn't wanted her to get married to him but the way he ended the relatinship it would have stuck him even badly that she was never serious about their relationship. Seven years they were togther, she said yes for marriage and left him just like that. She would have talked to him. but running away like this, her right about leaving him was overshowded by her chosen way to do it.

Originally posted by: KS_Shreya

Hmm...if I was to break up with someone at least I would speak to him in person and not over email. But then I understand why she did it. She didn't want to face him when breaking up.

Originally posted by: mysticlover

i know the way pihu broke up agitated many... raj was left alone if to say 'in a fine morning'... thinking from raj's POV he has been left alone without any reason... yes, it is true she left him without having the courage to face him! i too wanted to say to pihu that face raj, talk it out, make him understand... but would he have understood? i ideally would want to say everything to the person directly but will i do that in real life? i doubt that! let's accept it only few people are gifted with the ability to face the problems! others simply run away! it's not right but the truth! pihu has already done it once! she was never the strong one! she felt suffocated and when vikrant told her to run she took it literally and ran!! i believe she has been telling about her emotional numbness to pooja, sara and vikrant because she wanted someone to say it to her face that this is not right. but evryone stayed silent except vikrant and what he said metaphorically she took it literally! she was scared, confused and not ready to face the situation! she needed courage and if she was not able to acknowledge the futility of her relationship then how can she face raj? yes, what she did is not morally right but let pihu have the time to gain that courage...

Bang on point. Her guilt stopped her from facing Raj. You are right she was actually searching for a way out, a push which vikrant did for good. I am not saying she did wrong but the way she did it, it made everything look wrong, especially herself.

Its so wrong! How can you break d heart of someone you've lived with years in just a second! She should've spoken to him and made him understand her sitauation!