Manveer or Sahiba -matter of perspective

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Manveer indirectly causing a kidnapping is wrong but she let out all the hurt pain in her life and her anger at Sahiba interference in her personal life her perspective cannot be ignored.hate Manveer, justify EMA , but still Manveer said many home truths


If sahiba was true to herself she will agree that there was a bettter way of handling the simran issue sensitively when she knew the truth.she saw it only from simran perspective but failed to see what it would do to a family as a whole.throughout the track Sahiba saw only Simran’s point of view never manveer’s or angad’s .it did cause a rift between Angad and Inder and sad part is even today Manveer said that Inder who never cared for Angad even when he was a child was now going overboard and it pained her. Manveer as much said she was frustrated with her life but had accepted her jooti life and never knew there was a child. Her belief that Inder will never have brought Simran home and done all this if it had not been for Sahiba is right as Inder himself said that to Sahiba.manveers perspective cannot be faulted anyone in her situation would have suffered. If Sahiba were true to herself she will also agree that the marriage situation should have been handled differently And brars told face on that seerat ran way. what Manveer said for marriage and Simran is true it should have been differently handled. Even education it caused a rift between darji and Angad ..the issue needed consideration and education was her right but sahiba handled it wrongly.we may hate manveer and even say she deserves EMA , call her names but there is a truth in what she said.

Sahiba says she is unfairly blamed which is again another perspective.

So Manveer or Sahiba. Angad has moved past the marriage fraud he does not keep any grudges unlike Manveer against anyone.he may believe things at face value initially and react but with time he understands and does right.marriage issue for him is closed and he even apologised to the mongas so are other things even Simran issue he does not blame anyone except that he is angry with his father ,education issue also is closed for him. So let’s see what Angad does.he is rightfully torn between the two and once again thrown into a turmoil..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhika_r

Manveer indirectly causing a kidnapping is wrong but she let out all the hurt pain in her life and her anger at Sahiba interference in her personal life her perspective cannot be ignored.hate Manveer, justify EMA , but still Manveer said many home truths


If sahiba was true to herself she will agree that there was a bettter way of handling the simran issue sensitively when she knew the truth.she saw it only from simran perspective but failed to see what it would do to a family as a whole.throughout the track Sahiba saw only Simran’s point of view never manveer’s or angad’s .it did cause a rift between Angad and Inder and sad part is even today Manveer said that Inder who never cared for Angad even when he was a child was now going overboard and it pained her. Manveer as much said she was frustrated with her life but had accepted her jooti life and never knew there was a child. Her belief that Inder will never have brought Simran home and done all this if it had not been for Sahiba is right as Inder himself said that to Sahiba.manveers perspective cannot be faulted anyone in her situation would have suffered. If Sahiba were true to herself she will also agree that the marriage situation should have been handled differently And brars told face on that seerat ran way. what Manveer said for marriage and Simran is true it should have been differently handled. Even education it caused a rift between darji and Angad ..the issue needed consideration and education was her right but sahiba handled it wrongly.we may hate manveer and even say she deserves EMA , call her names but there is a truth in what she said.

Sahiba says she is unfairly blamed which is again another perspective.

So Manveer or Sahiba. Angad has moved past the marriage fraud he does not keep any grudges unlike Manveer against anyone.he may believe things at face value initially and react but with time he understands and does right.marriage issue for him is closed and he even apologised to the mongas so are other things even Simran issue he does not blame anyone except that he is angry with his father ,education issue also is closed for him. So let’s see what Angad does.he is rightfully torn between the two and once again thrown into a turmoil..

I really don’t think it’s Manveer or Sahiba. Neither of them had any intention to do what they did. Sahiba didn’t know that Simran was Inders daughter when she brought her home. And Manveer didn’t know that the people she sent Simran with was going to kidnap her

But here for me, what is wrong is the way Manveer is behaving. She’s acting like a spoilt brat. Sahiba never asked Angad to choose between her and his mom. She never blamed Manveer for what happened to Simran. All she said was for Manveer to accept her mistake and make peace with it. But Manveer on the other hand through her rant is only blaming sahiba for every thing that has happened in her life. She hold Sahiba responsible for everything and tried to instill that hatred towards sahiba in Angad’s mind. And that for me is wrong. That shows the kind of vile woman she is. It’s the approach she’s taking to gain sympathy in Angad’s eyes. She’s his mom but she is taking advantage of him. Her and Seerat are no different.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: apuni88

I really don’t think it’s Manveer or Sahiba. Neither of them had any intention to do what they did. Sahiba didn’t know that Simran was Inders daughter when she brought her home. And Manveer didn’t know that the people she sent Simran with was going to kidnap her

But here for me, what is wrong is the way Manveer is behaving. She’s acting like a spoilt brat. Sahiba never asked Angad to choose between her and his mom. She never blamed Manveer for what happened to Simran. All she said was for Manveer to accept her mistake and make peace with it. But Manveer on the other hand through her rant is only blaming sahiba for every thing that has happened in her life. She hold Sahiba responsible for everything and tried to instill that hatred towards sahiba in Angad’s mind. And that for me is wrong. That shows the kind of vile woman she is. It’s the approach she’s taking to gain sympathy in Angad’s eyes. She’s his mom but she is taking advantage of him. Her and Seerat are no different.

Even Manveer does not think her perspective is right. Else the moment Angad heard the truth in beginning of episode, Manveer would have accepted and defended her decision the way she did later.

But she accepted only when Angad found evidence and she could not lie her way out. Then she started drama of how she has always been wronged. Give me a break, she blackmailed Inder to stay in marriage, he did not volunteer to put her over his love. She could have divorced and taken alimony and given Angad a decent childhood because his father was anyways never present in their lives.

All Sahiba demanded was Angad should listen to her once.

But Manveer demands that Angad defend her decision that led to a child getting hospitalised.

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Originally posted by: apuni88

I really don’t think it’s Manveer or Sahiba. Neither of them had any intention to do what they did. Sahiba didn’t know that Simran was Inders daughter when she brought her home. And Manveer didn’t know that the people she sent Simran with was going to kidnap her

But here for me, what is wrong is the way Manveer is behaving. She’s acting like a spoilt brat. Sahiba never asked Angad to choose between her and his mom. She never blamed Manveer for what happened to Simran. All she said was for Manveer to accept her mistake and make peace with it. But Manveer on the other hand through her rant is only blaming sahiba for every thing that has happened in her life. She hold Sahiba responsible for everything and tried to instill that hatred towards sahiba in Angad’s mind. And that for me is wrong. That shows the kind of vile woman she is. It’s the approach she’s taking to gain sympathy in Angad’s eyes. She’s his mom but she is taking advantage of him. Her and Seerat are no different.

manveer knows she did wrong and the insecurity of losing her son because of her actions made her point out that Sahiba has faults too and Inder has made mistakes too To Angad. As for anyone this is a mode of defence as I said she is wrong in what she did but she said some truths. Was she instigating Angad against Sahiba don’t think she was trying to say if she had done a wrong so have others and he has accepted it. she was convincing him to accept her wrong as a reaction to a wrongs that happened to her.That how is see it she can’t gain much by instigating Angad against Sahiba in no divorce house except unhappiness for her son which I am sure she don’t want. She was justifying her action using the fact that the others have done wrong and as I said if we accept others we have to accept her too
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: hellodona

Even Manveer does not think her perspective is right. Else the moment Angad heard the truth in beginning of episode, Manveer would have accepted and defended her decision the way she did later.

But she accepted only when Angad found evidence and she could not lie her way out. Then she started drama of how she has always been wronged. Give me a break, she blackmailed Inder to stay in marriage, he did not volunteer to put her over his love. She could have divorced and taken alimony and given Angad a decent childhood because his father was anyways never present in their lives.

All Sahiba demanded was Angad should listen to her once.

But Manveer demands that Angad defend her decision that led to a child getting hospitalised.

yes agreed. She didn’t have any intention to accept her mistake in the first place. Only when Angad knew the truth she accepted. She is the kind of woman that finds someone else to blame always but never accepts that she could have something to do with it too. The kind that plays the victim card always. Exactly like the Seerat kind. The same question she also asked na.. “Isme meri Kya galati thi Angad?”
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Originally posted by: Radhika_r

manveer knows she did wrong and the insecurity of losing her son because of her actions made her point out that Sahiba has faults too and Inder has made mistakes too To Angad. As for anyone this is a mode of defence as I said she is wrong in what she did but she said some truths. Was she instigating Angad against Sahiba don’t think she was trying to say if she had done a wrong so have others and he has accepted it. she was convincing him to accept her wrong as a reaction to a wrongs that happened to her.That how is see it she can’t gain much by instigating Angad against Sahiba in no divorce house except unhappiness for her son which I am sure she don’t want. She was justifying her action using the fact that the others have done wrong and as I said if we accept others we have to accept her too

I don’t agree with view on this at all. She was instilling hatred against sahiba in Angad’s mind and she was defending her act. She was playing a victim card and trying to gain sympathy, whitewashing her own mistake by pointing out others mistakes.

I agree sahiba has done a lot of wrongs too and so have Angad and Inder. But when it was time to accept or apologize they never whitewashed their mistake by pointing out others mistake. The way Manveer acted was wrong for me. That’s my point of view.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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This show always like this na everyone justify their action but keep expectaions on Angad.

Whatever situation manbeer did wrong she should accept her instead guiltripping Angad but she said the truth too sahiba & inder action forced her to do

I find similarities between manbeer & sahiba never ever accept they can be wrong always justify their actions

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: apuni88

I don’t agree with view on this at all. She was instilling hatred against sahiba in Angad’s mind and she was defending her act. She was playing a victim card and trying to gain sympathy, whitewashing her own mistake by pointing out others mistakes.

I agree sahiba has done a lot of wrongs too and so have Angad and Inder. But when it was time to accept or apologize they never whitewashed their mistake by pointing out others mistake. The way Manveer acted was wrong for me. That’s my point of view.

hmm matter of perspective.you see it as instilling hatred in Angad for Sahiba but I feel it is to justify her actions as a reaction to inders and sahiba’s actions in this issue. Inder and Sahiba did not handle the issue as sensitively as it should have been specially Inder when he knew how Manveer would react. Even in case of fraud Sahiba never accepted that her family did fraud it was shifted to jasleen and Garry in fact she challenged Angad she will make him respect her mother who as we all know is the kingpin . But here in manveers case her actions leading to kidnap was wrong there was a truth in what she said
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: A.Theepa

This show always like this na everyone justify their action but keep expectaions on Angad.

Whatever situation manbeer did wrong she should accept her instead guiltripping Angad but she said the truth too sahiba & inder action forced her to do

I find similarities between manbeer & sahiba never ever accept they can be wrong always justify their actions

wahi all Manveer said about Sahiba and Inder in relation to Simran issue is right. Sahiba and Inder handled the issue wrongly. Marraige also she said right. Exactly She was justifying her actions like sahiba did .sahiba also was equally aggressive when she was defending fraud
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhika_r

wahi all Manveer said about Sahiba and Inder in relation to Simran issue is right. Sahiba and Inder handled the issue wrongly. Marraige also she said right. Exactly She was justifying her actions like sahiba did .sahiba also was equally aggressive when she was defending fraud

dont remind thst episode that is the worst episode ever sahiba said jaane anjaane se my family did wrong with you what a great way she accepted her family wrong doing😏🙄the way she revealed her sister eloped🙄🙄

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