First, I want to make it known that I absolutely adore Sahiba🥰. I think she’s regal👑. She is my favorite character so it hurts me to find fault with her 😕. However, it’s true and needs to be said… Sahiba is the reason why SahAn remains stagnant.
While a lot of viewers are still upset with Angad and his progression, as a SahAn fan, I am upset with Sahiba’s growth because she is not progressing which also means she is not pushing the relationship forward. Considering that Angad is changing and viewers are seeing him from a new angle, it would be nice to see Sahiba embrace his change and make a shift as well, but she is not.
One of the greatest blessings for a husband is having a woman who will be there to encourage and motivate him. This gives them a sense of honor and respect which the man craves in the relationship.
Sahiba can easily demonstrate this by doing small things like appreciating Angad’s thoughtfulness with her actions as well as her words. But I have yet to hear her admonish him or see her do anything special for him after his transformation.
Did she appreciate him for all the gifts he has given her lately? The purse? The art supplies? The note? The cake? The necklace? To me, it sounded like she gave him a basic ‘thank you’ when he deserved so much more appreciation than that. It was disappointing and quite childish of her not to wear his birthday dress for her. It was really a slap in his face. Even if she did not like the dress, her husband thought she would look beautiful in it. So why not respect his wishes and wear it? I get it. She was upset over the conversation about Seerat but when has Sahiba ever allowed emotions to come in between her duties as a wife🤔? She cared for Angad after knowing he was responsible for the shop burning. Why is she suddenly now allowing emotions to get in the way? Is it because she has grown more fond of him? If so, then she should act on those feelings which could clearly bring her and Angad together and drive Seerat mad.
One reason why I think Seerat is so adamant on pursuing Angad is because she knows that the two do not love each other. And Sahiba misses most opportunities to show her sister that they are falling in love or that she likes Angad. For example, Seerat gave a compliment about Angad to Sahiba after the birthday party and how Sahiba was lucky. That was Sahiba’s moment to agree and it would have been nice for her to rub it in her face😏. But when Sahiba does not embrace these moments it only leaves space for Seerat to act. However, when Sahiba does embrace opportunities like this, we see what happens, Seerat backs away. For example, the chaat date with the 4 - once Sahiba came along and Simran + SahAn were all holding hands, Seerat did not want to go. Another example, when Seerat saw lipstick on Angad’s shirt, her headache suddenly went away and she threw the medicine on the floor. 😂😂😂
Sahiba needs to be vulnerable with Angad. She has watched him do little things that touched her heart but she hasn’t said anything about it. For example, she recorded him purposely losing the eating contest to Simran and saw him trying to make her smile with the video filters. Why not applaud him for those actions? I know those are little things but men love being appreciated. It encourages them to be better husbands.
Sahiba really needs to take advantage of the moments she has to push the relationship forward and it this has nothing to do with physical intimacy but intimate words. Sahiba has more personal influence and power in the relationship than she realizes and she is not using it to her advantage.
BTW, I would love to see SahAn have a texting scene where they are texting each other one day. It would be nice to see how Sahiba’s flirtatious text messages distract Angad at work and how her smile is noticed from the students in her class while reading his reply. 💬😍
Jhanak
