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Posted: 10 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: TheRowdiest

Don't think too much guys ...😆 ,CVs won't go in so much detail that if Dev and Sneha were married then amu and jaz are illegitimate daughters ...😆

Sneha was married to both so everything is fine 😆 , none is illegitimate, izzat is also safe


actually u said it right minnie...😆
We shuldnt think so deeply about such things...my head started spinning.....the matter settles in both ways actually...😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sneha and Dev married secretly. Dev left and Sneha got to know that she was expecting Rachita and kept waiting for Dev but he didn't come back. Hence, Sneha got afraid of what her family and the people of Banaras would think about her as she was expecting because no one knew about her marriage with Dev. So Rishi took Sneha with him to Mumbai to save her honour and Dev may have returned after they left. He thought both of them had betrayed him and in the meanwhile, maybe, Sneha filed for divorce and she sent the papers to Dev and after Dev signed those papers, Sneha and Rishi might have married. This is just my guess.
But I still don't get how Sneha misunderstood that Dev had left her. Couldn't she talk to Dev on the phone after he was gone. Even if, suppose, Dev had lost his phone, couldn't he contact Sneha in any way. And did Sneha really believe that Dev could ditch her, I mean, didn't she trust him? I hope we'll get our answers in the coming episodes.

P.S. I know that Dev was behind Rishi's bankruptcy but I think Hari was behind Rishi's death.

P.P.S. I don't want the CV's to show Rishi as a bad person who created misunderstandings between Sneha and Dev in order to marry Sneha. This is a big NO for me. I want to remember Rishi as a nice, loyal and loving person.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ARHIFAIRYTALE

Sneha and Dev married secretly. Dev left and Sneha got to know that she was expecting Rachita and kept waiting for Dev but he didn't come back. Hence, Sneha got afraid of what her family and the people of Banaras would think about her as she was expecting because no one knew about her marriage with Dev. So Rishi took Sneha with him to Mumbai to save her honour and Dev may have returned after they left. He thought both of them had betrayed him and in the meanwhile, maybe, Sneha filed for divorce and she sent the papers to Dev and after Dev signed those papers, Sneha and Rishi might have married. This is just my guess.

But I still don't get how Sneha misunderstood that Dev had left her. Couldn't she talk to Dev on the phone after he was gone. Even if, suppose, Dev had lost his phone, couldn't he contact Sneha in any way. And did Sneha really believe that Dev could ditch her, I mean, didn't she trust him? I hope we'll get our answers in the coming episodes.

P.S. I know that Dev was behind Rishi's bankruptcy but I think Hari was behind Rishi's death.

P.P.S. I don't want the CV's to show Rishi as a bad person who created misunderstandings between Sneha and Dev in order to marry Sneha. This is a big NO for me. I want to remember Rishi as a nice, loyal and loving person.


I don't think rishi's name will get ruin...as the story is abt how his 3 daughters brings back his honour and respect and makes his name proud...

the MU are created by dev's family...rishi doesn't seem to have any hand in it...maybe he loved sneha secretly but the nature of rishi whom is so noble...i don't think he has create the MU...it doesn't suit his personality
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Posted: 10 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: TheRowdiest

Don't think too much guys ...😆 ,CVs won't go in so much detail that if Dev and Sneha were married then amu and jaz are illegitimate daughters ...😆

Sneha was married to both so everything is fine 😆 , none is illegitimate, izzat is also safe


Izzat is not safe. As far as Benaras is concerned Sneha and Chaubeji's izzat will be in Mitti if anyone comes to know Sneha had one kid through Dev and two more through Rishi.

That too when Dev remained unmarried (or so I think) when Sneha had to marry RIshi to save the izzat and then went on to have more kids.

Dev instead of ruining Rishi could have followed them to Mumbai and cleared matters and then there would not be any story TSM so I guess it is the way it is.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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QUOTE=tejaswiniwenham]guys if rachi's legitimacy is the issue of concern here then, legitimacy is a strictly legal status, simply defined as being born to legally (licensed and registered) married parents. Rachi was born to Rishi and Sneha Mathur as Rachita Mathur, she's thus by definition Rishi's legitimate daughter. as far as being legitimate in the eyes of God or religion or whatever, its a matter of belief, i don't think Mahadev cares about unimportant things such as legitimacy, we're all his children. and as for society, then no religious hush hush ceremony between dev and sneha nor any signed piece of paper will stop them from questioning rachis 'legitimacy' when the truth comes out. so its better that we don't try to weigh rachi on any scales of legitimacy.
As far as sneha goes, i personally don't find premarital sex or having more than one partner or more than one marriage to be a perimeter to judge anyone by. but yes that shady temple marriage did seem to me to be a lame attempt by a young and foolish dev and sneha to "legalize" their relationship in some form so that they could have sex. it was an extremely silly story and seemed like the cvs didn't want them to have sex premaritally so just made up this shoudy temple marriage as a coverup. but then by religion sneha and rishi have been living in proverbial sin- adultery and amu and jazz products of such. no matter how you spin the story, sneha had two men in her life, and children from both. the cvs shouldve just kept it at premarital sex rather than knitting these layers of religious vs legal legitimacy knots and crosses.

@ red-----Exactly. 👏 In that case Dev is the biological father of Rachita. But her legal father is Rishi.

@blue--- Again agree. If she is 18+ she is a mature girl and free to take her decision. That doesn't make her characterless or anything. I'm fine with that. But shaadi in temple does make it look like they did on hurry. Specially when they informed none of their family. In that case I don't think there was any love between these two people. She was immature that time , so was Dev-------I think still they are immature. Most probably she learned what love really is from Rishi. As sex has nothing to do with love. Animals do that because of hormonal distress all the time. 😕No feelings, no emotions , respect, trust , love is needed there.


@ bold---------I just hope Sneha divorced Dev before marrying Rishi. Most probably a lawyer brought that letter to Dev without any explanation. Although I'm not sure how it happened. As far as I know they need to go to court to have a divorce. Why didn't Dev ask him all these that time?
And if Sneha was with Rishi without divorcing Dev...then it's not legal. Dev can even put her behind the bar. All together CVs are very much screwed up the character and story of Sneha Mathur. Idhar kua to udhar khai.

Now how they will come out of that puzzle that is the question. At present a woman lived with two men ...is making Sneha characterless.

I think this is why she is so scared. OMG!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay I have an idea! I read somewhere that there is a place in India , most probably a village...where women can marry more than one. In fact in Tibet too. If Rishi and Sneha were married there or Dev and Sneha married there-----------then all safe.

No one is illegitimate. Sneha's character will be safe too. This is not fair...if a man can marry more than one and keep the both----------why woman can't. hmmm...May be this is what they want to tell.

My head is spinning. Better stop this here. Concentrate more on Manya and Rara. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i think rishi loved her and when dev did not come she felt betrayed and decided to commit suicide rishi saved her and they left banaras thats what i can think of
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

QUOTE=tejaswiniwenham]guys if rachi's legitimacy is the issue of concern here then, legitimacy is a strictly legal status, simply defined as being born to legally (licensed and registered) married parents. Rachi was born to Rishi and Sneha Mathur as Rachita Mathur, she's thus by definition Rishi's legitimate daughter. as far as being legitimate in the eyes of God or religion or whatever, its a matter of belief, i don't think Mahadev cares about unimportant things such as legitimacy, we're all his children. and as for society, then no religious hush hush ceremony between dev and sneha nor any signed piece of paper will stop them from questioning rachis 'legitimacy' when the truth comes out. so its better that we don't try to weigh rachi on any scales of legitimacy.

As far as sneha goes, i personally don't find premarital sex or having more than one partner or more than one marriage to be a perimeter to judge anyone by. but yes that shady temple marriage did seem to me to be a lame attempt by a young and foolish dev and sneha to "legalize" their relationship in some form so that they could have sex. it was an extremely silly story and seemed like the cvs didn't want them to have sex premaritally so just made up this shoudy temple marriage as a coverup. but then by religion sneha and rishi have been living in proverbial sin- adultery and amu and jazz products of such. no matter how you spin the story, sneha had two men in her life, and children from both. the cvs shouldve just kept it at premarital sex rather than knitting these layers of religious vs legal legitimacy knots and crosses.


@ red-----Exactly. 👏 In that case Dev is the biological father of Rachita. But her legal father is Rishi.

@blue--- Again agree. If she is 18+ she is a mature girl and free to take her decision. That doesn't make her characterless or anything. I'm fine with that. But shaadi in temple does make it look like they did on hurry. Specially when they informed none of their family. In that case I don't think there was any love between these two people. She was immature that time , so was Dev-------I think still they are immature. Most probably she learned what love really is from Rishi. As sex has nothing to do with love. Animals do that because of hormonal distress all the time. 😕No feelings, no emotions , respect, trust , love is needed there.


@ bold---------I just hope Sneha divorced Dev before marrying Rishi. Most probably a lawyer brought that letter to Dev without any explanation. Although I'm not sure how it happened. As far as I know they need to go to court to have a divorce. Why didn't Dev ask him all these that time?
And if Sneha was with Rishi without divorcing Dev...then it's not legal. Dev can even put her behind the bar. All together CVs are very much screwed up the character and story of Sneha Mathur. Idhar kua to udhar khai.


Now how they will come out of that puzzle that is the question. At present a woman lived with two men ...is making Sneha characterless.

I think this is why she is so scared. OMG!

@bold not necessarily, her marriage with dev may not have been through any legal proceedings and more for the conscience than for court and society. cos if she was legally wed to dev then she had no reason to worry about rachita's legitimacy and run away with rishi. and if it was done with the legal proceedings, then it would've been impossible for rishi and sneha to marry in the first place, they wouldnt be able to register a marriage certificate, dev could've gotten them arrested for trying back then but now he can't. if rishi and sneha haven't registered a marriage. cos he can divorce her on the grounds of adultery but can't really put her in jail. but ya the temple marriage was a cop out and completely unnecessary in the story.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

Okay I have an idea! I read somewhere that there is a place in India , most probably a village...where women can marry more than one. In fact in Tibet too. If Rishi and Sneha were married there or Dev and Sneha married there-----------then all safe.

No one is illegitimate. Sneha's character will be safe too. This is not fair...if a man can marry more than one and keep the both----------why woman can't. hmmm...May be this is what they want to tell.

My head is spinning. Better stop this here. Concentrate more on Manya and Rara. 😆


😆 AGREED! mid aged couple problems ko maro goli, concentrate on the new age ones! ManYa Confession tonight fingers crossed!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages


I don't think rishi's name will get ruin...as the story is abt how his 3 daughters brings back his honour and respect and makes his name proud...

the MU are created by dev's family...rishi doesn't seem to have any hand in it...maybe he loved sneha secretly but the nature of rishi whom is so noble...i don't think he has create the MU...it doesn't suit his personality

@ bold: How could I not think of that! I was wondering that someone must be responsible for Sneha and Dev's misunderstanding and the only one who knew about their marriage was Rishi. I completely forgot that Dev's family could also be behind all the MU.

@ blue: I don't completely agree with you on that. The story is about the journey of three girls, especially Amaya (who was immature in the beginning), who after their father's tragic death have to face difficulties and become mature. This doesn't have to mean that their father was really a good person.

I was just thinking of a possibility. Well, I would be happy if the CV's would never go that far to show Rishi as a bad man or else the show would be ruined, for me at least.

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