Everyone is to be blamed but are justified

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Posted: 15 years ago
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ugh so did anyone else gag after watching today's episode🤢....I hated it to the core...(even though HC's expressions melted my heart) anyways I feel that most of them are to be blamed...BUT are justified for their actions

Anurag- I get why everyone is blaming him (the characters I mean) its because obviously they care more for Tani than him at the moment
, and even I'm mad at him yaar BUT He is justified in acting the way he did to Tani, I mean he never told her that he loved her right? so how is he at fault?.....all he did is "fall in love" with Nupur (I still dont buy that crap....he isnt in love with her at all....who would love that psychopath?). Anyways I always knew it....Anurag LOVES Tani....he always has and he always will......but he is not in love with her....I've bee saying this from the beginning.....I just hope Onu realized that he is wrong soon(but obviously that aint happening)

Tani-oh my sweetie Tani😭....its partly her fault that she got her heartbroken, she misinterpreted Onu's feelings for her and again I felt she was justified in acting the way she did, she cried her heart out and became lifeless😭 (I literally am going to like rip my hair out in tomorrow's epi...yaar I saw the SBS segment.....😭😭😭😭😭). I am glad however that she didnt sit and mope around the whole time...I mean yeah she's been traumatzied BUT I feel that Tani will be strong in front of Anurag and will convince him that she doesnt love him

Laboni-I felt Laboni didnt do anything wrong in calling out Anurag today....he deserved it...and Neelu deserved it more, Laboni is right(I felt that there's no explaintaion to how she felt....how else would a mother react) I'm just really disappointed that now Laboni is going to never accept or love Anurag the way she did

Neelu-oh God...😔😔😔😔 jee karta hai main iske chehre pe ek bada sa thapad mar du......I love Neelu....I really do but I HATE her for doing this......I think if any one person is to be blamed than its Neelu....Onu is right....HOW THE HELL could she not even inform Anurag about her decision...but I also felt that she was justified...because she was always under the assumption that Anurag will come back for Tani only but alas thanks to her and her foolish husband he had to become distant from her and "fell in love" with Nupur🤢.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yaar i felt both moms were at fault ... though some what justified but still ... i mean i don't know why but i felt that ... though the intentions were not wrong but the way they behaved

I feel for both onu and taani ... infact in first part i felt more bad for Anurag .... why people feel Taani's pain more is because the story is being told by her POV ... everything about her character is out in the open ... but as far as Anurag is concerned it is left to guessing game, we have to make our own conclusions and theories regarding why he did what he did, they have hardly shown anything from his POV since the leap and i doubt if they would. So naturally people relate to Taani's pain and heart break but are unable to feel same intensity as far as Anurag is concerned simply because we have not been shown why he is doing what he is doing and i doubt if we would ever be shown that. I mean one look at Anurag yesterday and anyone could see he was totally shattered not because he lost a mother, his friends but also because that one person whose happiness means the most to him was heart broken because of him.

And i don't know but i feel there is more to Anurag-Nupur story than what meets the eye but i guess thats just me not willing to accept he can actually love that psycho 🤣

And i said this before and i am saying it again Neelu as a mother leaves me 😲 and i know people won't agree to me but even Lobini as a mother leaves me 😲 I mean she is a good mother as far as Taani is concerned but does she really justify herself as mother to Anurag? I highly doubt it but then thats me šŸ˜†


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Posted: 15 years ago
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^ I agree with you....he may have lost the very thing he was against his family for in the first place.....he loves Tani right.....he can do anything for her (I'm talking that he loves her as a friend) even in today's episode he was like "Main teri aakhon me aasu nahi dekh sakta".....he loves her and he cant bear to see her in pain.....but he has caused her the most pain..

I feel bad for TaAnu equally now because Tani is obviously heartbroken....and by looks of SBS segment I'm going to be cursing Nupur front right left and center😔 poor Tani
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Posted: 15 years ago
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you know i am waiting to see the SBS scene ... i just don't get it why did Anurag had to scream he loves her? Who is he trying to convince? Her or himself? Yea i will never give up 🤣

Yea and Anurag not only told her that he can't see tears in her eyes he also said he can do anything for her happiness and he wants to fulfill her every wish ... and that made me feel really bad for him ... every time his good intentions land him in trouble ... as a kid when he tried to support Taani through everything he was sent off and blamed for being emotional ... and now this ... both times no one understood how he must be feeling
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Posted: 15 years ago
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acc t me no is to be blamed but neelu...but maybe not even her..well i uessthen eevryone was wrong at one point nd no one person is suppose to be held responsible..i feel that the person who suffered the most was taani..she was the one whose heart was broken..i really really felt bad for her when she was crying in the room alone..but onu suffered too..he might feel as tho if he lost his best friend but the cvs rnt showing his side of emotions as much as theyr showing taani..so majority of teh audience r gonna be feeling bad for taani rite now....but seriously why is nupur such a psyco??..i mean she took sleepiing pills for a guy..without even confronting him??!..thats wayyy too kiddish..m glad taani didnt try such stupid thing like trying to kill herself....nd agree wid soaps who was onu try to convince while yelling i luv u nupur lol..i hop0e nupur doesnt become neg..she seemed like a very emotional person so if in future she realizes onu's feelings for taani..she wont become a bi*ch nd try to kick taani's ass..if she truly luves onu she would leave him alone in the future..i really hope nupur is positive..=D


i kno this isnt related to the topic but also ive been having many thots how prem is wayyyy different then onu..atleast rite now...if prem was ever hurt he would cry but onu never cries...nd if prem was here..just to be nice he wouldve eventually not made a dramatic scene but onu isnt that mahan..anyways m glad prem isnt the same as onu coz i really wanted to see HC in a different shade....hes doin such a gud job as onu..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Interesting šŸ¤“ there's bits in your take I don't agree with. Neelu should've asked Anurag for sure, but he shouldn't have gone ballistic in front of so many people. There are other ways of dealing with the situation.

Tani is completely at fault (I'm blaming the character NOT the actor, so this is not aimed at Anupriya 😳) a girl knows when a guy is or isn't interested in her, everything about Anurag's behavior CLEARLY conveys he's not even remotely interested in her in a romantic way, but she keeps falling all over him instead of picking the tab or at least sensing something's wrong šŸ˜•

Laboni is Taani's mother and she proved it today- all that talk about loving Anurag more than Taani was just TALK! She should've slapped him a couple of times, cursed him, done whatever but stripping him off the right to call her ma, dissevering her relationship with him makes the relationship a bit shallow, case in point here is his own mother, Neelu- she isn't happy either, but he's flesh and blood so she can't/ won't tell him to go away, she tried to make him see sense even after he'd been a complete idiot and ruined (almost) everything 😳

Ticks
AYE- Brilliant acting by the actresses who play Laboni (5 stars) Neelu (4 stars) and HC (4.5 stars)
NAY- haste makes waste! Balaji went out and got themselves a retard after Neha J opted out of the show! Extremely poor acting by the girl! She was shaking her shoulders and upper body violently (when she wasn't supposed to) is this the girl Anurag fell for? šŸ˜• poor guy was away from home & hearth so he lost his senses and got himself an idiot from Agra mental hospital who will chase him to the mental facility in Kolkata- 'khub bhalo legche?' says Neelu, 'aar tomar matha' (tera sarr/ head, as a Bong friend taught me 😳) is the reply! 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: natz

everything about Anurag's behavior CLEARLY conveys he's not even remotely interested in her in a romantic way,



i actually dont agree wid this coz i think at many points Anurag behaved as if he liked her...the rain scene nd all the other romantic scene..i dont think a best guy friend ever behaves like that wid his girl best friend..at sum points i agree taani shouldve noticed sumthng was wrong but she didnt realize that her onu has changed emotionally too..nd even we all got confused by onu's behavior nd had many discussions on onu like taani he likes her notšŸ˜†
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1

you know i am waiting to see the SBS scene ... i just don't get it why did Anurag had to scream he loves her? Who is he trying to convince? Her or himself? Yea i will never give up 🤣

Yea and Anurag not only told her that he can't see tears in her eyes he also said he can do anything for her happiness and he wants to fulfill her every wish ... and that made me feel really bad for him ... every time his good intentions land him in trouble ... as a kid when he tried to support Taani through everything he was sent off and blamed for being emotional ... and now this ... both times no one understood how he must be feeling



@BOLD- oooohhh me likeyā˜ŗļø haaye we will never give up on our theory that Onu-loves-Tani-and-also-is-in-love-with-her😳

I know...I feel bad for Onu now....(all my anger just went away....aww mera sweetie Anurag😭 why must you be so nice)


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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't see anyone at fault BUT Neelu maa. that lady is starting to pull on my last nerve. Just because Onu loved Taani 8 years ago doesn't mean he still does(we know he does but he doesn't =P) The mother doesn't even know her son..their relationship is so 'formal' now. I hated how she just assumed Onu still loved Taani, and that he would love to marry her! Laboni on the other hand knows how Taani feels so she is definitely not to blame here!

Onu is not to blame either, it's not his fault he 'loves' Nupur. Taani's tears are breaking my heart! 😭 She's not to blame..but I really feel that she should've listened to her brother when he told her to stay away from Onu and his house! all of this would've never happened if she hadn't step foot in that house. (but then again..the story wouldn't have moved on if she hadn't).
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: CAqueen



i actually dont agree wid this coz i think at many points Anurag behaved as if he liked her...the rain scene nd all the other romantic scene..i dont think a best guy friend ever behaves like that wid his girl best friend..at sum points i agree taani shouldve noticed sumthng was wrong but she didnt realize that her onu has changed emotionally too..nd even we all got confused by onu's behavior nd had many discussions on onu like taani he likes her notšŸ˜†



I kinda disagree, I didn't think Onu's behavior in any of the sequences suggested romance šŸ˜• sure the whole setting was romantic, but if you look at his expressions ever so closely šŸ¤“ you'll know he's not courting her or harboring feelings that suggest the same 😳

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