Neelu maa and Anurag's relationship - Page 2

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Hey why shouldn't i be asking this? Is this offensive?🤣 LOL kidding 😛

See in a way you supported the point i was trying to make in the post ... that Neelu has not been there for Onu ... reasons may be whatever but the fact remains she was not and she still is not ... even now she is not trying to break that shell of his and just sitting back and expecting he will make everything alright ... my question and purpose of this thread was ... where is Neelu the mom? And that question still remains 😆

And i know Onu still loves her and respects her and even cares for her ... but where is her motherhood is the basic question here my lord 😆 Being a mom you can't just say oh i have no choice but to accept he has changed and walk away can you?

@ Soapy... Bcos she is not seeing that shell side of his.. She is witnessing an soft Onu to a tough Onu and the coldness towards his Father or fly.. which withing herself she think is right in a way... & Onu is setting things right so for her she is still that Onu but a tougher and more understandable guy... & Onu was never a talktive guy even as a child he was to himself most of the time...

& second reason cld be Maybe Onu really never told Her what he was going thru in reality.. Didnt he say If bab wans me to go will go.... will do what Baba want me to do...

See fist she herself admitted he has changed so how could she not have noticed his cold side? And chalo she did not notice it and as per your reply she probably never went and met him there ... but now when he is here is she trying to talk to him? Forget about whether he is cold or not or she noticed that or not but as a mother is she? The only thing we see her do is expect from him to make everything alright ... does she ever wonder who will make him alright ... even if she noticed the coldness towards family only?

I mean your son is back after eight years and all you can think about is how he will make everything alright? Ok she also cooked for him, i forgot that 😆

Originally posted by: Soaps1

See fist she herself admitted he has changed so how could she not have noticed his cold side? And chalo she did not notice it and as per your reply she probably never went and met him there ... but now when he is here is she trying to talk to him? Forget about whether he is cold or not or she noticed that or not but as a mother is she? The only thing we see her do is expect from him to make everything alright ... does she ever wonder who will make him alright ... even if she noticed the coldness towards family only?

I mean your son is back after eight years and all you can think about is how he will make everything alright? Ok she also cooked for him, i forgot that 😆

Try and talk to her about what? With neelu he seems to be still that Onu except towards his Father.. & she knows the reason why Onu is like that towards his Father.. she knows.. it.. baba Ki gadi, baba ki party.... ... & she probably even may knows that Onu was in pain but was helpless to do anything.. but Now he is not that Soft Guy anymore... Get the drift... what will she go and talk to him about.... ??? Onu u shld not be like this towards yr father..? really even she knows what answer she is going to get back from him....

& This is BT... they lack this inside info.. there is mothing much we can do....

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& Oh... it was Onu & Taani discussion that she overheard to get the fly together made her say those things na...She did not even probably expected Onu to do something like that...

,,,,,,,, "she probably even may knows that Onu was in pain but was helpless to do anything" ......... she can talk about his pain now can't she? Not about his father, not about anything else but HIM that is all i am trying to say ... she was helpless agreed ... she is helpless now too or does not realize his pain ... then you are endorsing my point that she is failure as a mother

Originally posted by: Soaps1

,,,,,,,, "she probably even may knows that Onu was in pain but was helpless to do anything" ......... she can talk about his pain now can't she? Not about his father, not about anything else but HIM that is all i am trying to say

why? why shld she talk abt what happened * yrs ago.. Its done and over with Na.... Is Onu showing that Pain on his face... No i dont think so... It was his decision not to come back na... ?

Originally posted by: purvimeh

why? Its done and over with Na.... Is Onu showing that Pain on his face... No i dont think so... It was his decision not to come back na... ?

yaar ajeeb baat karti ho ... she is a mother for heavens sake ... how else would she notice that pain? ... he will come and cry on her lap for her to notice it? Does she not know what he has gone through in past 8 years? If we as viewers can imagine his pain how can a mother not understand or see through it? ... Remember the terrace scene after his return? Pain was written all over his face, for a mother that much in enough

Its not a random person we are talking about, who is unable to see the pain because he is not showing it on his face ... we are talking about a mother here ... his decision not to come back after his father refused to allow him to come back in first 4 years, its not like he never wanted to come back at all before that too!

and what is done and over with? How can it be done and over with, when it has affected him so much? If we as viewers can see and feel how much he has changed, how come a mother can't? It is seriously beyond me

Originally posted by: Soaps1

yaar ajeeb baat karti ho ... she is a mother for heavens sake ... how else would she notice that pain? ... he will come and cry on her lap for her to notice it? Does she not know what he has gone through in past 8 years? If we as viewers can imagine his pain how can a mother not understand or see through it? ... Remember the terrace scene after his return? Pain was written all over his face, for a mother that much in enough

Its not a random person we are talking about, who is unable to see the pain because he is not showing it on his face ... we are talking about a mother here ... his decision not to come back after his father refused to allow him to come back in first 4 years, its not like he never wanted to come back at all before that too!

and what is done and over with? How can it be done and over with, when it has affected him so much? If we as viewers can see and feel how much he has changed, how come a mother can't? It is seriously beyond me

Madam..Even I know she is mother.... dont u think she wld have not known it all.. As a mother she wld have,,,,,, Par Baat karke karegi Kya...... . Kya Onu usse reply dega.... will Onu ever talk to her.... No he wld not,,, & that the chnage she has seen in him...

Isn't that what being a mother is all about? Would a mother ever stop talking to his son or trying to share his pain just because she has assumed he won't reply to her? And as you said thats the change she has seen in him, so she would just accept it without making even a little effort to shake him or to talk to him or to console him? Just because she knows he won't talk, she won't talk? Thats not how moms work in my opinion but thats just my opinion, which is always weird i know 😆

Chalo epi time let me go check if any angel came today to update or not 🤣