Why is Twinkle being submissive?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I know everyone's been bashing Kunj's character, so I am going to say only a couple of lines about him before moving to Twinkle. He is being the typical male chauvinistic Indian guy - quite typical of the men being portrayed on Indian television. These guys make heavy promises of love and at the next moment turn their backs when something happens to their family. I found a couple of characters freshly different and I really admire them for it - Akbar from Jodha Akbar (strange that a historical drama showed such a progressive male), Sid from Jamai Raja, and Ravi from Kalash.

Having said that, let me move to Twinkle. Why the hell is that woman being so submissive and apologetic? I mean, has she committed that big a crime that she has to keep apologizing in an unending manner? Has she lost all self-respect in her love for Kunj? When she was in a relationship with Yuvi also, she used to tolerate his nonsense in the name of love. I think in the first episode, she said that love is her weakness, and this is so evident. First Yuvi, now Kunj. It's fine that she apologized once. It's also fine that she left Sarna house. But I don't like seeing her desperation in wanting forgiveness from Kunj. This girl really needs to become stronger. She's done what she could. Now, she should allow time to heal the wounds, and not expect things to be fixed so soon. There's no reason for her to try any longer. The more she tries, the worse it'll become, and she'll only get pain (strange that she herself had once described love as pain; it's almost like she wants it). Kunj is right. She is very immature. Before learning to love Kunj, she needs to love herself. Weird thing that she says "Main apni favorite hoon".
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Posted: 9 years ago
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if anyone can send some feedback to the CV's please do send the feedback..we want separation track but not this type..kunj is angry i understand but what about twink'e self respect n dignity..i know she hid a big thing but kunj should be angry in a different way..he is simply ignoring her..this is not what we want i guess..we know both r in pain but where is the longing in kunj's eyes..rather he asked for break..and this twinkle is so big hearted that she will forgive kunj later on easily..and kunj will not undetstand her value..please someone send a feedback to the TEI team that twinkle's self respect n dignity should not be ruined again n again and kunj should realise what wrong he is doing and he should realise her worth at the end of this track..someone please send some feedback to esselvission team..
having said that i liked what leela adviced twinkle coz no good mother will ignite fire in her daughter's mind reg her husband n in laws..and yes twinkle did bad by hiding such a big thing..that i agree..but still what kunj is doing also wrong..they should show that kunj is regretting all his behavious n harsh words...

the way this track is progressing i feel something will be very wrong with twinkle..twinkle might get into some serious danger for e.g. life threatening something should happen to her while saving anything related to sarna's again after that only kunj will value her worth..thats when kunj will remember all his harsh words he said to twinkle..i think to gain forgiveness and to overcome the guilt of hiding things from kunj will led twinkle take some drastic step suddenly after that only everyone will realise her worth..

CV's pls show something like this...and let kunj win her back with full dedication and conviction..and make twinkle strong enough..

guys if possible please send some feedback to CV's
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree. Thing is that during UV tym it was fine but now as the show's concept is twinkle finding true love n happiness so shouldn't cvs show some progress in her character as now that she has finally fallen in love with the person she's meant to be? If she still continues to be that old submissive immature twinkle, whats the meaning of the show? They should show some progress atleast, rather they are degrading her character by making her even more weak n unrealistic. Atleast she used to get angry on UV n fought him but now she has become completely submissive forgetting all her self respect , her real actual original self everything.
And as its said that sometimes holding on hurts much more than letting go.Sometimes u HAVE to let loose rather than holding it tight ,like sand.And then there's no use of only one sided efforts in any relationship. Both have to understand each other's value.
For kunj twinkle is a part of his life, that too i guess a small part of his life but twinkle has made kunj her whole life, completely forgetting herself, thats the difference between the two.
Edited by couchyC - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I know kunj is wrong upto certain extent he is feeling betrayed but twinkle is asking for forgiveness because she is at fault she hide a very big thing and twinkle knows it's her mistake.they both are at fault but kunj should not use harsh words, that's really wrong
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think it's b/c so much went wrong in span of such short time she has not given anything a thought just like kunj -- and tbh I'm not surprised by her behaviour b/c it really shows who she is or has been --she gives it her all when she loves you--plus i think she just feels guilty at the moment

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