Done with the kunj hating. *NOTEpg3

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Posted: 10 years ago
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He doest trust her.. he treats her like crap he doesnt undersand her value... im over it. Sorry but twinkle and kuj are equally to blame for their situation. Twinkle should have told kunj .. its called openness and honesty. Keeping secrets was a bad idea. Its a bad idea in general but worse in marriage. Especially if the secret was about the latters own father. Kunj is wrong for blaming twinkle for his dads conditon. He trusted she wasnt behind the mms thing but his trust should have extended and he shouldnt have blamed her for something as ridiculous as that.
Thats where it ends. Rest.. kunj being harsh on twinkle.. he still CARES ABOUT HER. He still loves her else he wouldnt have sent that car.. he is frustrated at her for keeping something like that from him.probablt because in his mind he thinks things may not have blown out of proportion. His dads in a coma, his dads reputation is messed up that he feels obligated to restore and on top of all if twinkle the one person who was solid, broke his trust for a second by keeping the secret a secret. The guys going through hell and he cant be frustrated and act out in anger without blame game and divorce call outs running amok? F if marriages broke up over misunderstandings .. no one would get married ever.

YES kunj broke twinkles trust also. He should have unconditionally supported her, but he didnt and thats HIS flaw which he needs to learn from and fix.

YES they did get married under wrong circumstances but they were married by fate. Fate brought them together its Gods match and we all know that. So even if they divorced.. theyd still get married again.. what the hecks the point in divorce then?

These problems and how couples face them and work through them.. the building of trust and characterization can still happen under their marriage. I dont get the whole divorce thing.

Cvs need to use their heads and simply show twinkel.working to manage home and a career .. thats still good to me. She can still be married and do that.

Sorry going off topic.

Anyways i think the situations crap but i dont think breaking a marriage that is filled with love over a freaking misunderstanding and "lack of trust'. Especially knowing this entire situation is a manipulation and neither of twinjs fault ITS ALL YUVI. Twinkle and kunj are going to work through this.. learn from it and stregnthen their marriage. Thats the point.

I dont have anything else to say. Sorry if this post was harsh. Im still watching the show and enjoying it. But i dont think im coming back to this forum until the negativity dies down. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.. unfortunately im not in agreememt with some of them. šŸ˜†


PS the whole self respect thing, YES I AGREE TWINKLE SHOULD stay away for her own self respect. I fully agree. She was only trying to help and i want kunj to realize his mistake and apologize and twinj as a team i want them to work together to expose yuvis plan which i think mahi will assist them in.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Brilliantly said!šŸ‘

Your thoughts literally mirror mine...I honestly don't get the Kunj hatešŸ˜•
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Lmfao sumaiya whats mind boggling to me was no one said kunj you should leave twinkle and self respect yourself because twinkle doesnt trust you after that whole fake rape misunderstanding and twinkle over reacting and accusing kunj. Same freaking thing. A yuvi created misunderstanding blown out of proportion making one partner in the marriage act out irrationally. Same freaking thing. This ones just worse but the bones are the same.
Lets also not forget kunj did not kick twinkle out yes he didnt stop her but wth was he gona do in that situation. Please mom cut you wrist while you are already vulnerable while i support my wife? When his fathers already in a flippin coma and he is bombarded from 50 diff angles.

Yeh he had a moment of weakness and his anger spoke out. He doesnt want to see her face.. etc etc.. thats ANGER. How many times in a relationship with your significant other have we all said the same .. and then go back to them? Shit lilr this happens in relationships. He cant have a moment of weakness by himself?

Mark my words hell be the same guy going to her apologizing and bringing her back and helping to clear her name. Then everyones going to love him again. Bah.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm feeling more for Twinkle right now as I feel she has been abandoned by all and yes I'm a little miffed at Kunj but I don't hate him. At the end of the day I hurt for both of them. Tge only individuals i hate are Yuvi, Anita and Usha. The entire situation is just so messed up, nothing is black and white which is why there are differing opinions.

Divorce is jumping the gun for sure lol šŸ˜† But a physical separation is a good idea at this point. I know eventually they'll find their way back to each other.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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^ EXACTLY. im miffed at both of them. they both screwed up in my opinion but i cant see where kunj is coming from.. i hardly think divorcing is an answer.
IM all for the separation. Heck I say stay seperated for longer and date and act like your not married.. and build your identities that way..and build your relationship that way.. why not.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Apparently it's one rule for Twinkle and another for Kunj😳

That outburst was in his own room, to HIMSELF! So what? can't the guy even vent out his frustrations? Haven't we all done so at some point in our lives? I honestly don't get why people are getting bent out of shape over that scene and citing divorce as a solution

Kunj will definitely go and bring Twinkle back...He will also apologise to her and help to clear her name and like you said the same people cursing him right now will be like, kunj is seriously #hubbygoals😳
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^ The guy still LOVES her. He may not trust her but thats the POINT of the track to build trust.. value the presence of eachother in their lives.. to grow stronger.. shit happens at the end of the day.. we all have outbursts. We all over react. .we all mistrust.. but we learn from our mistakes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sorry but twinkle and kuj are equally to blame for their situation. Twinkle should have told kunj .. its called openness and honesty. Keeping secrets was a bad idea. Its a bad idea in general but worse in marriage. Especially if the secret was about the latters own father.

When you say this I think you should remember that even Kunj hid the truth about Twinkle's father. I agree with you completely but I can't bypass this fact. They need to get a divorce ASAP. Only then will they be able to fully understand themselves and each other. Family issues still need to ve irined out because unless this happens, Twinkle will never trulybe acceptedby the family especially Usha. After this is fulfilled then they can work on their love story
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SiyapaaQueen

^ EXACTLY. im miffed at both of them. they both screwed up in my opinion but i cant see where kunj is coming from.. i hardly think divorcing is an answer.

IM all for the separation. Heck I say stay seperated for longer and date and act like your not married.. and build your identities that way..and build your relationship that way.. why not.



Both screwed up, for sure. Divorcing is not the answer at all, we have to remember amidst these times that they are still in love with each other. There's anger and hurt and betrayal from all sides and they both have a lot to learn but I'd like to believe they can do that as a team - not after legal separation :| So I'm hoping to see them realize how much they actually need each other during this separation (if it happens) especially Kunj. It hurt when he didn't even consider her family

Take a break and come back stronger is what I'm praying for. And then confess their love so I can finally die in peace.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I've spent WAY too much time on the forum today so I'm not going to add to all your points because you've said it all and I'm gonna be a broken record and legit you said it all and I really agree. My post today centered around Twinkle because I felt the focus of the episode was on her feelings as yesterday's was on Kunj's but I'm staying neutral. They both have flaws, they both are right and wrong. I've said this about 10 times but here goes another LOL, actually lemme copy and paste it from somewhere else I wrote:

The ONLY part of the episode that actually upset me on Kunj's behalf was when before the suicide drama, Usha was shoving Twinkle out and she looked towards Kunj for help and he didn't say a word. He SHOULD have spoken up then. Not only is that is love, but his wife being kicked out and so he should've stopped his mom.

^ Other than this, I completely understand Kunj's position and his feelings because he is human and he is so vulnerable right now. I'm gonna start sounding repetitive but yeah I'm being neutral and I completely agree. Separation is much needed and I'm excited for this track!

Just one thing Rosh, don't be absent from the forum because of negativity or opposite opinions. I know people will be back to loving Kunj once he redeems himself, and that sounds annoying that they are bashing him now but this is gonna happen whenever an intense track is going on lol people choose sides. So just be Switzerland with me šŸ˜† and stayyy active <3

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