Hongay juda na hum Twinj analysis - Page 2

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

"Those calling for divorce should understand that marriage is not a bed of roses heck even roses have thorns."

I have already made a separate post stating my reasoning for the divorce and I still stand by it.

You cannot expect a marriage to last if both individuals are mentally unhealthy. Ever since Kunj has entered Twinkle's life, their lives have been hell, and their relationship worse.

They bonded over lies they promised to tell others but remained honest to each other. However, when it came to protecting one another, they failed to believe the other either due to insecurities, the unfamiliarity with the nature of the other person or obtaining the knowledge of how easy it is for them to lie and manipulate situations to their advantage.

We have had Twinkle be in an abusive relationship with Yuvi, almost successfully commit suicide because of her mother, was sexually assaulted by her ex-boyfriend but confused it with her fiancee. Then, instead of staying far away from him, she got married to him with the knowledge that he tried to rape her a few nights ago.

We have had Kunj constantly being beaten up by Yuvi because of Kunj's tendency to protect Twinkle from harm; his desire to get married to Alisha was ripped away as he came to know of her materialistic nature; he was accused of attempting to rape his fiancee; had to bow his head in shame as his family refused to believe his innocence; his father emotionally blackmailed him into getting married; was constantly reminded by his fiancee of the misdeed that he didn't do just to have it all culminate in him being buried alive on his wedding day.

^^ THIS is the formation of TwiNj's relationship. Now tell me, in what way is this healthy?

It's honestly no surprise that they are having problems now. If they couldn't settle their differences back then, how can they now? These two have not grown up as individuals and neither have they been able to get the chance to cope with all the trauma that they have been through.

Now, I don't even want to get into all the crap that has happened to them post-marriage as it is never ending. However, you cannot look at what is happening right now as ONE INCIDENT because it is not. It is a continuation of the series of events that has been pushing their relationship deeper into a toxic cycle.

Of course the CVs are going to gloss this over and present TwiNj as overcoming this obstacle. It has to happen for the sake of progressing the show and it will happen. But this does not mean that it is a healthy move for the characters.

You simply cannot function as a healthy unit if the parts are heavily damaged.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

I actually agree with what you are saying in the real world Kunj and Twinkle should not have gotten married after the farmhouse incident. They were never given the chance to work on their individual growth. However this is an Indian soap set in the subcontinent where some people give marriage utmost importance. On a sidenote sorry for the confusion. I really hope there are no hard feelings between us😳