A Penny For My Thoughts....The Controversial Almost Slap (1.18.16)

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First of all, I wanted to say thank you to all those who warmly welcomed me to this little forum family. It was very sweet! Now moving on to today's highly energized episode...I'm quite speechless to be honest.

Actually, the first thing I did when I woke up this morning was read the written update. And now, a few minutes ago, I finished watching the episode (I had to mentally prepare myself LOL). Everyone seems to have a lot of differing opinions on Kunj raising his hand on Twinkle. Personally, I think both Twinkle and Kunj have a lot to learn. I think we're forgetting that they are young and have only been married for months. Learning to live with someone else, their imperfections and flaws is not easy. Especially because of all the extra drama in Kunj and Twinkle's life; they have not had time just to themselves to learn about each other, etc.

I understand where both are coming from while I may not agree with them. For example, Twinkle is right, her intentions were nek but her execution was far from being correct. People often say it's the thought that counts but that is not always true. Despite how close Twinkle and her mother are, Kunj is right, Twinkle cannot take such a huge step on her mother's behalf without consulting her mom.

Now about the whole raising hand issue, Kunj is not perfect. I am not justifying but we have to factor in two things- one, he DID stop himself; two, his personality. Kunj treats his parents, his elders with the utmost care and respect. To hear Twinkle speak ill of her father, atleast I think, really bothered him hence the first words when he raised his hand included mentioning but not giving away RT's identity.

Moving on to the accusations Twinkle hurled...I cringed when she began speaking. And to see Kunj's heartbroken face physically hurt. It was clear her accusation took a toll on him but once again I see where both are coming from. For Twinkle, in my opinion, I think she was just trying to get back to him (in a way). I think she was incredibly hurt at Kunj's actions hence she went off on him without thinking. Kunj's speech on the whole trust thing was valid, very valid...but it is like the pot calling the kettle black. Kunj did not display much trust towards Twinkle either.

Anyways, that was my little "analysis' on today's episode. For those who stuck through the end and read through my ranting, thanks! I would love to hear what you all think.

- Meg

P.S- I watched that video on Twinkle pacifying Kunj...I couldn't hear what he was saying...can anyone tell me?
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teddyyy thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Omg I just made a lonnnggg post and I should've checked yours first because you said everything in such a clearer, concise way haha. I'm all over the place with my feels today LOL. I did the same! Read the update as soon as I woke up, and just watched the episode hehe.


"Especially because of all the extra drama in Kunj and Twinkle's life; they have not had time just to themselves to learn about each other, etc."

<font color="#333333" face="Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" size="2">That is soimportant ^ I didn't realize this myself. They are so young and they've had one problem after the other. They've only learned abouteach other in how theydealt with whatever was thrown their way, not in a calm, homey type of way. Andyou're soright about both of thembeing right and wrong in their own ways.</font>

"For Twinkle, in my opinion, I think she was just trying to get back to him (in a way). I think she was incredibly hurt at Kunj's actions hence she went off on him without thinking."

<font size="2">YES, YES YESSS! Okay seriously, we thinkway alike haha.</font>
Edited by teddyyy - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Excellent analysis n I concur word for word so i won't repeat anything


Yes now the crux of it is trust is a 2 way street... The mu has been cleared thereby clearing Twinj's wall against him...

He has to now trust she is mature and can make some decisions n not brush her off as being too childish...

They r not free of past to find joy in the present together...

I feel the raised hand was a move by the cvs to rile us and show drama..

As it was that raised hand that led her to question him honestly n finally hear the truth of the farm house.

He himself said that he wasn't the kind to disrespect women and hated himself for it...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Touche to all of this. Well said. 👏 i think i agree with everything for the most part.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

Omg I just made a lonnnggg post and I should've checked yours first because you said everything in such a clearer, concise way haha. I'm all over the place with my feels today LOL. I did the same! Read the update as soon as I woke up, and just watched the episode hehe.



"Especially because of all the extra drama in Kunj and Twinkle's life; they have not had time just to themselves to learn about each other, etc."

<font color="#333333" face="Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" size="2">That is soimportant ^ I didn't realize this myself. They are so young and they've had one problem after the other. They've only learned abouteach other in how theydealt with whatever was thrown their way, not in a calm, homey type of way. Andyou're soright about both of thembeing right and wrong in their own ways.</font>

"For Twinkle, in my opinion, I think she was just trying to get back to him (in a way). I think she was incredibly hurt at Kunj's actions hence she went off on him without thinking."

<font size="2">YES, YES YESSS! Okay seriously, we thinkway alike haha.</font>


I just wanted to edit spacing idk wth happened lmao awks.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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totally agree after seeing the episode ... I'm still shocked didn't see it coming
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

Omg I just made a lonnnggg post and I should've checked yours first because you said everything in such a clearer, concise way haha. I'm all over the place with my feels today LOL. I did the same! Read the update as soon as I woke up, and just watched the episode hehe.



"Especially because of all the extra drama in Kunj and Twinkle's life; they have not had time just to themselves to learn about each other, etc."

<font color="#333333" face="Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" size="2">That is soimportant ^ I didn't realize this myself. They are so young and they've had one problem after the other. They've only learned abouteach other in how theydealt with whatever was thrown their way, not in a calm, homey type of way. Andyou're soright about both of thembeing right and wrong in their own ways.</font>

"For Twinkle, in my opinion, I think she was just trying to get back to him (in a way). I think she was incredibly hurt at Kunj's actions hence she went off on him without thinking."

<font size="2">YES, YES YESSS! Okay seriously, we thinkway alike haha.</font>



I just went and read your post! You expressed everything so well! Great minds think alike, after all!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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agreed with you. very nice post
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with u i guess comelety...
kunj had not trusted her in that uv matter at all he was asking for a prove soo now twinkle did tid the same...
sooo both have to learn many things
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Excellent analysis..you have summed it up twinj's state of mind very well..I am so relieved as farm house mu is finally cleared

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