Actually, the first thing I did when I woke up this morning was read the written update. And now, a few minutes ago, I finished watching the episode (I had to mentally prepare myself LOL). Everyone seems to have a lot of differing opinions on Kunj raising his hand on Twinkle. Personally, I think both Twinkle and Kunj have a lot to learn. I think we're forgetting that they are young and have only been married for months. Learning to live with someone else, their imperfections and flaws is not easy. Especially because of all the extra drama in Kunj and Twinkle's life; they have not had time just to themselves to learn about each other, etc.
I understand where both are coming from while I may not agree with them. For example, Twinkle is right, her intentions were nek but her execution was far from being correct. People often say it's the thought that counts but that is not always true. Despite how close Twinkle and her mother are, Kunj is right, Twinkle cannot take such a huge step on her mother's behalf without consulting her mom.
Now about the whole raising hand issue, Kunj is not perfect. I am not justifying but we have to factor in two things- one, he DID stop himself; two, his personality. Kunj treats his parents, his elders with the utmost care and respect. To hear Twinkle speak ill of her father, atleast I think, really bothered him hence the first words when he raised his hand included mentioning but not giving away RT's identity.
Moving on to the accusations Twinkle hurled...I cringed when she began speaking. And to see Kunj's heartbroken face physically hurt. It was clear her accusation took a toll on him but once again I see where both are coming from. For Twinkle, in my opinion, I think she was just trying to get back to him (in a way). I think she was incredibly hurt at Kunj's actions hence she went off on him without thinking. Kunj's speech on the whole trust thing was valid, very valid...but it is like the pot calling the kettle black. Kunj did not display much trust towards Twinkle either.
Anyways, that was my little "analysis' on today's episode. For those who stuck through the end and read through my ranting, thanks! I would love to hear what you all think.
- Meg
P.S- I watched that video on Twinkle pacifying Kunj...I couldn't hear what he was saying...can anyone tell me?