Originally posted by: asmaanixx
Honestly, it's all about perspective and context. I am watching a few episodes from the beginning, (I first started watching with Kunj's entry) and I honestly don't mind YuvLe as a couple. They were adorable and I could handle their characters being together. But all of a sudden, (and I'm not sure exactly when this happened), but both their characters have changed drastically. Yuvi is become extremely abusive and just when Anita found out about YuvLe and has been instigating him against her is ambiguous.
Due to Yuvi's presentation as being an extremely dark person (I refuse to think of him as anything else as he attempted to get a girl raped twice), Kunj is being represented as being a force of good and pure light. The constant referrals to TwiNj's relationship being graced with God is not something to be taken lightly. If God Himself is blessing this relationship, then it is to be considered to be pure in every from. In other words, Kunj is a rab da banda. He is a sort of messiah, a savior who has been brought along to help not just his fiancee, but every woman who finds herself to be in peril. This has been evidenced by him helping out the elderly lady, a small child (Bubbly) and the everyday woman (any woman of her age), who is being represented by his fiancee.
In short, it is the way these two men are being represented that has a huge influence on who I "ship". But all that is pointless if the counter half isn't as compatible. Kunj, being so pure at heart and mature, deserves a woman who will not only love him wholeheartedly but respect him as a being. Yuvi, on the other hand, needs a woman who will stand up to him when he was wrong, have faith in his capabilities and show him the error of his ways.
I don't generally don't watch shows merely for ships. In some cases, you get your ship but it is based off of a highly toxic relationship that is doing no one any good. Let the characters grow for themselves and let relationships to blossom organically. Anything that is forced is bound to break at one point.