Twinkle wasn't in the right, but she wasn't in the wrong

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Yusra (or you can call me Hope as a nickname)

@LightingHope

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

It is true that Kunj would never do something like that, but we know that because we are the viewers. We know things about Kunj that Twinkle doesn't, because the reality is they've known each other for a few weeks, and they're exchanges weren't of the pleasant kind- to Twinkle Kunj is an obstacle in her happiness, yes Twinkle has learnt a little about Kunj's character in the previous weeks but no where near as much as she thinks about the man she's been in love with for the past three years, and how can you blame her of not trusting Kunj in front of what could have happened to her sister? We should reconsider before we judge her too harshly. All the proof pointed to Kunj- and haven't we seen situations like these countless times? A girl tries to plead what happened to her but is silenced because of the faith in the man?

What did we want Twinkle to do? Believe a virtual stranger that she can barely get alongwith because of the good we know about him, not she, because she barely knows him. All winkle could see was her little sister in distress and that was more important than anything else for her, because she's her family. And no matter how much we want it, Kunj isn't, not yet. There was proof against Kunj, and it would not make sense if Twinkle didn't doubt him, even if it was for a second, because he is someone she doesn't really know yet.

When Twinkle will be give the proof against Yuvraj, she will be torn, because the evidence will be on oneside, and her love on the other. We can;t expect her to be that torn for Kunj, because she doesn't love him yet.

(sorry for this lengthy post, i'll try to condense it more next time😆 Also I love Kunj incase that didn't seem clear and I also ship Twinj so please don't take my words the wrong way😊)

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@YD.AH

Trailblazer

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

even bubbly was telling her to hear him out

she could have heard his side for once i think

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-Abhiya-

@-Abhiya-

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

I agree that Twinkle doesn't really understands him or trusts him now aur vaise bhi filhaal use Yuvi ke aage kuchh aur dikh nahi raha so she doesn't really think about Kunj or what kind of person he is. So she doesn't really believes him. But atleast she shold have given him a chance to explain

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Anupama

@prem_diwani

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

Lol. I have that problem if I take off on a topic. It can run a page long 😛

But it is true - she barely knows him and their first meeting went wrong with his sleazy act to scare her.. She is recognizing his decency but it's a wall of cards right now.
Not strong not sure and a slight wind of doubt can blow it away..

Abhi she has to use a little of that brain to look for the truth.

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Yusra (or you can call me Hope as a nickname)

@LightingHope

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: .chandni.
even bubbly was telling her to hear him out
she could have heard his side for once i think

I agree, I think she needs to become a bit more patient.

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Yusra (or you can call me Hope as a nickname)

@LightingHope

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Abhiya-
I agree that Twinkle doesn't really understands him or trusts him now aur vaise bhi filhaal use Yuvi ke aage kuchh aur dikh nahi raha so she doesn't really think about Kunj or what kind of person he is. So she doesn't really believes him. But atleast she shold have given him a chance to explain

agree:) hope she starts to see beyond Yuvraj

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Yusra (or you can call me Hope as a nickname)

@LightingHope

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: prem_diwani
Lol. I have that problem if I take off on a topic. It can run a page long 😛

But it is true - she barely knows him and their first meeting went wrong with his sleazy act to scare her.. She is recognizing his decency but it's a wall of cards right now.
Not strong not sure and a slight wind of doubt can blow it away..

Abhi she has to use a little of that brain to look for the truth.

High five friend😆

I hope Kunj can build up the little trust she has of him so far.

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buddingFlower

@buddingFlower

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

If I were Twinkle, I wouldn't blindly trust him, but I will hear Kunj's side of story and be suspicious of him. If I am Miss Amritsar, I can hire someone to find about his back story/nature/daily schedule and find out what's cooking in his head. I will also go over all the past events and be suspicious of the word "baby" and think about Yuvi. My sister would be more important to me than my bf so I will be a little suspicious of him too.

I don't think blasting someone solves the issue. This has escalated badly and she should start using her brains instead of being dumb and holding Kunj responsible for everything. Nobody should be this gullible. For once, it would be amazing to have intelligent leads. Kunj is intelligent and I hope Twinkle too starts using her brains.

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

Achiever

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

I don't disagree with you here. The situation that Bubbly had gotten herself in was very scary. As a grown woman, I will be afraid of having caught myself in one and here Bubbly is just a kid. Seeing her little sister in a situation like that will obviously make Twinkle act out.

As for her equation with Kunj, again you are right. She doesn't really know him. He is a hindrance to her and he's just some guy that she is being forced to get married to. But as viewers, we also know that Yuvi is not a great guy and she has been with him for three years now. In these three years she hasn't been able to recognize her own boyfriend, so how can we expect her to know Kunj?

Let's put the boys aside and let's talk about her own mom. She knows that Leela doesn't like Yuvi or the Luthras as a whole because of the evil they are capable of. But she still refuses to understand why that is and simply continues loving away. Now, I am not against her love. She can love whomever she wants, but it's necessary for her to understand them first. Why didn't she take the time out to learn why her mom doesn't like the Luthras? All she sees is the mothers' animosity and her love for Yuvi on the one side.

She doesn't take the time out to learn or figure out why people are behaving/doing things the way they are. She remains oblivious to everything around her and doesn't make an effort to engage in things around her unless they cater to her needs in a particular manner.

Personally, I feel like she needs to start playing a more active role in her life rather than being passive and let others beat their heads around trying to make her see sense.

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Krishna

@kubare

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#10

I dont disagree with your post at all dear...

Yes..her young sister comes first and how can she really really trust a virtual stranger really...

But then this same stranger she has trusted with The Deal...the same stranger she has trusted with helping her to get the engagement ring...the same stranger she forces to befriend her boyfriend just because her BF wants to befriends all of the sudden ...

Has this stranger ever even talked about taking her out with friends before or ever called or even referred to her as baby???

For once it would have been great or nice to see Twinkle use her brains ...just like her young sister who went through the Trauma was using hers...

She instead of instantly blaming him as always should have given him a chance to explain before just out right slapping him...or accusing him of the wrong doing..

Its about time that she starts using her brains and open up her eyes to see and notice things around her ...the people around her...