At some point people should be allowed to live their own independent life. Moral value is a complicated subject. Drinking is not really a big thing in the metros even for the middle class families. It is now a style statement.Whether right or wrong depends on individual perception and that is what the whole debate is about. Why can't the men decide what they want ?More than that I am terribly exhausted to watch the whole society walk and run in herds like animals.
TMKOC in fact exposes the hypocrisy of Indian mindset. Bhang in Holi is a custom. Gambling during Diwali is a custom. Alcohol during Kali puja is a custom .Yet all of it is against moral values.Either ban each of them or let individuals decide what is right for them.
Same is for the exclusive styled festivals. We all know God rule us yet we tend to pretend to be pure Bhakts by imposing severe restrictions on ourselves which includes impossible mannats and vrats.
Then our Champak Chacha wants his son to obey his words and respect him but why does he allow Tappu to insult his ffather ? How is that thing funny ?
Again the Indian tradition says the teacher's position is above the almighty himself yet Tappu has the audacity of cracking jokes on him.
Our Anjali ji often forgets her husband is a real human being made of flesh and blood. He cannot be told how to live his life. He cannot survive eating raw food all the time. More than that he is an individual with his own identity. Can he not survive one minute without you madam ji ?
Daya is devi alright but how much blind can someone be ? What Jetha loses is some money but what Sundar loses is his self respect if he has one. Her interference and encouragement is the biggest barrier in stabilizing her brother's career. How long will this ' Plaz de dijiye na' go on. The Gada business will be handed over to her son at some point of time. What will her brother do then ? Live on his nephew's alms ? This too much love is anything but ethical.
In the whole series the women has been given an upper hand for almost all tracks. The women are never wrong or they never make a mistake and even when they do they solve it their own way. While I appreciate the celebration of womanhood in the show I am annoyed how all the mistakes of the male members are highlighted even in front of their children. Asking for help from your spouse don't make you a weak soul but it brings you more close to life.Equality means sharing life and not dancing together in functions only.
Edited by dey.bh - 10 years ago
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