how do we slot an actor as humble, sweet or grounded one?
by seeing the off screen interactions of the actor with media, SNS and fans.
we don't know them personally yet we form certain image of them, allot certain characteristics and personality to them as per our understanding of what we see off screen. (heck even if we know someone personally people behave differently with different people and different circumstances. i am an introvert for someone, exuberant for others, sweet for some, b**ch for others).
so if one group can think of the actor as a nice one another one is allowed to hold contrary views because may be they ended up seeing those interactions in altogether different light.
it all boils down to perception.
what is sweet and humble for one could be fake and pretentious for others.
what is immaturity and arrogance for one could be honesty for others.
what is 'it happens' for some could be 'it shouldn't have' for others.
what i see could be different than what you do.
that doesn't make me wrong or you right. and vice versa.
i hate labeling. i won't label anyone and won't conform to any labels.
if only we discuss the opinions rather than discussing and labelling people for having those opinions...
as i said we are transient.
who knows we might meet again.
in my college we used to say; sometimes in jest sometimes in all seriousness... yaha mile ho. bahar mat milna.
sadly the fandom is now reduced to this state.. simply because we think we know better.
i don't claim i know better.
i might think different than you. that's it.