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Banjaaran25 thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
#71
Final thought:

how do we slot an actor as humble, sweet or grounded one?
by seeing the off screen interactions of the actor with media, SNS and fans.

we don't know them personally yet we form certain image of them, allot certain characteristics and personality to them as per our understanding of what we see off screen. (heck even if we know someone personally people behave differently with different people and different circumstances. i am an introvert for someone, exuberant for others, sweet for some, b**ch for others).

so if one group can think of the actor as a nice one another one is allowed to hold contrary views because may be they ended up seeing those interactions in altogether different light.

it all boils down to perception.

what is sweet and humble for one could be fake and pretentious for others.
what is immaturity and arrogance for one could be honesty for others.
what is 'it happens' for some could be 'it shouldn't have' for others.

what i see could be different than what you do.
that doesn't make me wrong or you right. and vice versa.

i hate labeling. i won't label anyone and won't conform to any labels.
if only we discuss the opinions rather than discussing and labelling people for having those opinions...

as i said we are transient.
who knows we might meet again.

in my college we used to say; sometimes in jest sometimes in all seriousness... yaha mile ho. bahar mat milna.

sadly the fandom is now reduced to this state.. simply because we think we know better.

i don't claim i know better.
i might think different than you. that's it.


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Posted: 8 years ago
#72
Nimmi just wanted to say loved ur thoughts regarding show n I get ur point .totally respect ur POV where it is different too than mine
As for Varun some frnds of ours met him some frnds talked to him some got msges from him n some following him since he started his career so trust him on that misunderstanding may happen may not happen
Each one is free to blv what he or she want to regarding an actor but going on to blame someone for show closure when he honestly did his work n one of the reason which took show to heights it hurts n hence the reaction second this solo fans wala judgement I can easily term all these Bashers as helly fans too but I won't but they won't take a second to judge others who defend him when they know helly was bashed we defended her too.ppl may get hurt n express it but it when cross limit I will say then.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Final thought:

how do we slot an actor as humble, sweet or grounded one?
by seeing the off screen interactions of the actor with media, SNS and fans.

we don't know them personally yet we form certain image of them, allot certain characteristics and personality to them as per our understanding of what we see off screen. (heck even if we know someone personally people behave differently with different people and different circumstances. i am an introvert for someone, exuberant for others, sweet for some, b**ch for others).

so if one group can think of the actor as a nice one another one is allowed to hold contrary views because may be they ended up seeing those interactions in altogether different light.

it all boils down to perception.

what is sweet and humble for one could be fake and pretentious for others.
what is immaturity and arrogance for one could be honesty for others.
what is 'it happens' for some could be 'it shouldn't have' for others.

what i see could be different than what you do.
that doesn't make me wrong or you right. and vice versa.

i hate labeling. i won't label anyone and won't conform to any labels.
if only we discuss the opinions rather than discussing and labelling people for having those opinions...

as i said we are transient.
who knows we might meet again.

in my college we used to say; sometimes in jest sometimes in all seriousness... yaha mile ho. bahar mat milna.

sadly the fandom is now reduced to this state.. simply because we think we know better.

i don't claim i know better.
i might think different than you. that's it.
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nim
that's the problem naa two persons can have different views. and there is nothing wrong in that...even before I was saying that we as a fans can question him and he will answer them if he wants to ...its Bwn him and. the fan questioning him ...why other fans always acts as his spokesperson?
here the situation has become like if u don't like something about ur fav and discuss it on public forums then people are ready to kill u forgetting the frnship and the bond we all shared for two years!
fighting real for reel
pathetic and really sad
but now I think it is the right time show shud go off air at least this daily fighting and blaming will stop
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Posted: 8 years ago
#74
hmmm
hope vahe gets gud shows n one day if any chance work together

Tada my last cmmnt in this post or probably last comment of this forum
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Posted: 8 years ago
#75
Guys stop this nonsense pls...
at the end we all r swasan fans
be it solo duet band orchestra Symphony bt we all r fans Enjoy the last days of swasan🥱😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: mix_of_emotions

Yeh solo fans Kya hai those who defend vk are solo fans those who bash him are duo fans?
N yes way of handeling n problems were a issue no one is denying that offscreen Iva are important too but TRPs are not related with it but if some want to blame vk for show closure just like how some said sanskar cud be played by anyone n vk needs to change career n all n how he doesn't deserve awards well well well done then

Go on call ppl who defend him solo fans Its still better than cursing n abuse n death wishes 😊


Absolutely bro!!
Anybody who defends Varun Kapoor is a SOLO FAN, irrespective of what actually are his or her feelings for SwaSan and VaHe, but they are LABELLED as SOLO FANS!!
And the irony is, we fans love both VaHe and SwaSan and are being FALSELY being called SOLO fans, and the TAGGERS themselves send hate wishes to an actor and say they are fans of just ONE actor, but...they AREN'T solo fans!!
Trust me Rish! I can't HELP laughing at this..!! Hilarious na? Anyways don't bother hun, even I don't! If not here, on Twitter, there are people who know me, and I love them, even if they hate me, cause they know me that I love VaHe equally and accept it. They don't TAG me all the effing time!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: soumi93

Guys stop this nonsense pls...

at the end we all r swasan fans
be it solo duet band orchestra Symphony bt we all r fans Enjoy the last days of swasan🥱😆

Yaah ...Plz guys...let's enjoy SWASAN...last days of Swasan... What ever mess it was...leave it and let's all move forward from that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#78
Agree with a lot of ur views on trps & all...
But I m confused when he looked disinterested while giving ivs. Leave all that...A lot of people wanted clarification on why he didn't allow Helly to attend his birthday celebration because if i remember a reporter (God knows which channel) reported that he didn't want to gv any with her & the result was him getting bashed left, right & centre in each & every sns site including IF too along with horrible hate messages on the same day he was born. A lot of heavy imaginations also circulated after that & after a few months a msg from him came that all those imaginations were baseless...he said that Helly was busy shooting while the iv happened...but from what i see still a lot r unhappy...

Is it really that hard for u all to believe him once when u can almost bindly believe a reporter?

I know i shall be tagged "solo" after this...& trust me i did take offense when someone branded a fan solo who was defending him. If truth is called glorification then let it be...& like i won't take any shits for helly, wouldn't take any for Varun either... go ahead... call me solo, jabra, anything that pleases u...
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aamias thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
#79
hi nimmi,so good to see you after such a long time🤗 I always remember you
loved ur thoughts or should I say i always get brain washed by your words🤣. This is
why I hate good writers, orators and flirts🤣.

could i read angel again but how? i always want to read it again and again
take care best of luck for your endeavours
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Posted: 8 years ago
#80

Asmi..
sorry for hogging your thread dear😳.

Veena..
i hear you dear girl. though i still don't think actors are to be blamed i respect your views.
i personally will go back to my 'characters over actors' mode. strictly keeping myself off from all sorts of offscreen equations. tele life is good that way.
good to see you again🤗

Ishita..
word dear friend.

Rish..
heya.🤗.
thank you for your kind words dear. and hey no! my post was not meant for you per se.
that was a general statement. of what i have seen happening in this fandom for a long time.

me and my friends who complained about ML track and Swara's attitude were termed solo fans and were called pretty colourful names.
heck i was personally bashed in a CC.

even in the beginning of the current track when i expressed my disappointment for Swara i was termed as a solo fan who can 'see' pain of only sanskaar.

when i criticize VK during the birthday fiasco again the labeling. this time from other end.

well i am a Sanskaar'ian first and love Helly the best. i honestly dunno which category of 'fan' i fall into. frankly speaking i don't care.
i prefer being called nimmi who can trash anyone😆.

jokes apart.. on serious note..
i have seen the labelling, mocking, taunting, trashing of people for simply having opinions.
in my brief sojourn in twitter land i have seen people i thought who are friends of each other degrading, back biting, trashing, ridiculing each other all for a fictional character, a tele serial and a celebrity.

i am a girl. i get gossiping and bitching.. but i really don't get THIS.

i get the hurt and need to defend the actors/characters one likes, the criticism and even bashing, the differences and debates but i don't get THIS.

hence my general musing.

regarding VK he must be a sweet guy and all the issues were simply misunderstanding or over-reaction by fans.
i didn't like certain issues and conduct then. i am beyond caring now. got my fairytale of swasan, beautiful memories, met some wonderful girls... had a beautiful journey.
the reason i still hover here and comment because hey this is my home and love the girls who reside here. that is it.

my bestest wishes for the actors for bringing alive the magic that Sanskaar and Swara and SwaSan were.

those who are enjoying the serial may you get lot many more wonderful memories to cherish. may the swan song be beautiful.

cheers!


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