What is Love?

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nimmi

@Banjaaran25

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

So we are having disagreements and opinions as to who love whom most and who deserves whom?
Ragini and Laksh; Kavita; Sanskaar the most or Swara.
who deserves whom?
who loves more?
do they love at all?

not trying to compare or instigate.. simply stating my views on the characters of this serial.

Ragini:

drugging your sibling, defaming, attempting murder twice, defaming again hitting her character, humiliating and trashing him and his family, and when you thought you got you love instead of being happy gloating over your sibling's agony, and then when you saw error of your ways trying to move on with dignity and yet again going on self mode after getting your love back.. pushing him away and fighting him, selling off his professional secrets and above all feeding him unknown substance which could be poison for all you know to save your own skin.

i call it obsession for your favourite toy. you can mutilate it and treat it the way you want but no one else is allowed to.

Laksh:

Fickle.
his concept of love is too messed up and juvenile for me to write any further.

but together they some how makes sense. of being together.
may be that of love.. i guess they 'love' and 'belong' in some weird inexplicable way.

Kavita:

the girl who gave up on her love, handed home truth about love to the two beautiful souls who love each other and yet were on self sacrificing mode, brought them together, wished then well with genuine heart and walked out with a big smile on her face..
only to curl up on the ground and sob her broken heart out.

THAT was the girl who truly loved.
and then Kavita part 2 happened. That was sick obsession and nothing else.

Swara:

She LOVES her Sanskaar.
with her heart, soul and entire being.

NO two ways about it. no questions.

Sanskaar:

He loves his Swara the way a man could possibly love a woman.. in one life time and millions.
truly, absolutely, totally... with finality.

i can write an entire essay for the love that these to share.. the way these two love..
the way these two are...
but i probably will fall short of words even after writing a whole novel.

but...
and this is strictly my opinion which doesn't constitutes bashing or judging..

Sanskaar begins and ends with Swara.
Swara ends with Sanskaar but doesn't begin with him.

no two people can love alike. that doesn't mean they don't belong.

Swara and Sanskaar BELONG to each other.
THAT.IS.IT.

SwaSan is not merely a word.
It is one heart, one soul, one life and one love.. that happens only once.
with EACHOTHER.
Swara and Sanskaar... SwaSan.

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nimmi

@Banjaaran25

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+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

people i am terribly sorry.. i need to reply to your beautiful precious comments on my 'Stand tall' thread.
will do so soon.
and will come back to this one too. soon.

life is little caught up here.

beautiful week ahead.
love.

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akanksha

@luvakanksha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

The problem with this suicide sequence of swara is that it's so disgusting, disappointing n disheartening that it's making swasan fans question swara's love for sanskar. Which is really very sinking feeling to have for a fan because I am too experiencing it.

I want to say that atleast for ragini her priority is fixed n reasonable. Her first priority has been lakshay, she gives a damn about swara n swaragini bond when it comes to her first love.

Kavita too her priority was sanskar.

Sanskar's priority has always been swara, so why can't swara give him the honour of being her first priority? Why is she so desperately behind a sister who does not give a shit about her?

I mean what swara did was nothing for sanskar, if she wanted to do something for sanskar then face the problem with him stick with him in this situation, live his hurt n humiliation along with him don't give up n escape by pulling the trigger. If swara doesn't know that for sanskar she matters the most then may be she knows nothing about him at all. I mean u can't see ur husband in pain so bring him out of it or live his pain along with him, don't give him reason to be guilty about ur suicide efforts.

Love is something in which u r ready to die for one another but that does not mean suicide resembles love, all lovers of cancer patients should kill themselves since they can't see their love in pain by this logic.

This current situation required no such extreme step, it was a cowardly act done by swara n I simply don't believe love is about cowardice.

Edited by luvakanksha - 8 years ago

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

So we are having disagreements and opinions as to who love whom most and who deserves whom?
Ragini and Laksh; Kavita; Sanskaar the most or Swara.
who deserves whom?
who loves more?
do they love at all?

not trying to compare or instigate.. simply stating my views on the characters of this serial.

Ragini:

drugging your sibling, defaming, attempting murder twice, defaming again hitting her character, humiliating and trashing him and his family, and when you thought you got you love instead of being happy gloating over your sibling's agony, and then when you saw error of your ways trying to move on with dignity and yet again going on self mode after getting your love back.. pushing him away and fighting him, selling off his professional secrets and above all feeding him unknown substance which could be poison for all you know to save your own skin.

i call it obsession for your favourite toy. you can mutilate it and treat it the way you want but no one else is allowed to.

Laksh:

Fickle.
his concept of love is too messed up and juvenile for me to write any further.

but together they some how makes sense. of being together.
may be that of love.. i guess they 'love' and 'belong' in some weird inexplicable way.

Kavita:

the girl who gave up on her love, handed home truth about love to the two beautiful souls who love each other and yet were on self sacrificing mode, brought them together, wished then well with genuine heart and walked out with a big smile on her face..
only to curl up on the ground and sob her broken heart out.

THAT was the girl who truly loved.
and then Kavita part 2 happened. That was sick obsession and nothing else.

Swara:

She LOVES her Sanskaar.
with her heart, soul and entire being.

NO two ways about it. no questions.

Sanskaar:

He loves his Swara the way a man could possibly love a woman.. in one life time and millions.
truly, absolutely, totally... with finality.

i can write an entire essay for the love that these to share.. the way these two love..
the way these two are...
but i probably will fall short of words even after writing a whole novel.

but...
and this is strictly my opinion which doesn't constitutes bashing or judging..

Sanskaar begins and ends with Swara.
Swara ends with Sanskaar but doesn't begin with him.

no two people can love alike. that doesn't mean they don't belong.

Swara and Sanskaar BELONG to each other.
THAT.IS.IT.

SwaSan is not merely a word.
It is one heart, one soul, one life and one love.. that happens only once.
with EACHOTHER.
Swara and Sanskaar... SwaSan.

nimmi again a w'ful post👏👏

i agree wid u completely on each ckt not bcoz i m swasan fan. i can like a ckt whom i despise if he/she really do sumthing gud.

and yes swara & sanskar belong 2 each oder.

i know many ppl r criticizing swara 4 doing that gun thing thinking shes doing it 4 ragz.

but no shes doing it 4 sanky

.on one hand we want he r 2 hav self respect while on oder hand we want her 2 think of sanky.

so how can she hav self respect if she thinks abt sanky & his innocence??she went there 2 tell those ppl who matter 2 sanky most i.e his maa & BP & bro.

and they were not listening so she pointed that gun at her 4head .she doesn't mean 2 suicide.

and i m still saying let the epi air.we'd seen ppl bashing sanky on the basis of segment wen kavs came back & hugged him & he also hugged her but in epi it was clear that sanky was not hugging kavs but it was reflex action.

btw i m not saying swara is rite in pointing gun at her 4head. she shud'd gone from there.

but sumtimes we consider few ppl's opinion more like akanksha said.and here 4 swasan their family's trust is more impt so they r trying 2 prove themselves innocent.

but yes i want swasan 2 prove their innocence by collecting proofs & then not 4give that family easily. let them grovel & beg & plead 4 sumtime.and i wish swara does like wat in baghban hema did wid her kids.

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mans1234

@mans1234

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

The fact is swara should not have taken such a drastic step n I m sure many of us are not liking it ..

Now I m surely not questioning her love for sanskaar .. they both love each other unconditionally .. yes swara's way of expressing is different .. swara is confident that sanskaar ll never leave her n she knows that she never will have to explain him anything as he just understands .. that makes swara's love special in her own sweet way ..

But the thing remains y she did that suicide thing .. how to justify that .. come Wat may .. be it for any reason she need not be do frustrated for ragini Atleast .. this behna jaap shd permanently stop now ..

I m so so so frustrated Wid makers of d show for playing Wid swara sanskaar swasan from January .. enough is enough .. end it now ..

But yeah swasan love each other n nothing can change that ..

I still hope makers edit that scene ..

Edited by mans1234 - 8 years ago

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StarySKY

@StarySKY

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

Can I define Love ?!

Nope .. never

Love can never be define by words , words can never give credit to that type emotion ..