Please no more Fandom War! It's a request

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Can we all have a peaceful forum here? Why is that whichever post I enter in past few days is just turning into a War and completely different from what the TM's post is about 😕 Both fandom should stop all this please as this isn't going to beneficial to any of us except spoiling all of our moods.
Will having wars and fights among ourself change the plot track or make the SL & Characters more logical, no right? Then why are we all fighting over a frictional Character especially Swaragini so much and spoling our mood? 😳

It's just a character and one day when show ends even their character will also. Rather than disagreeing with each other's opinion we should instead have a healthy discussion not directly jump to a conclusion

Can we have this forum back to it's old Ranking? 😛 It used to be such a active and lively forum months back hen I joined in with ATs being completed in just a day and many new stories on the couples

By this Post I'm referring to both Fandom to stop this War in everypost & have healthy discussion instead 😊

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Posted: 9 years ago
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you are right actually the forum became the war zone. I just saw one post where some one post about the new promo and that post got 22 page.but that's not for discussion about the post but for bashing to both the heroin. I don't wanted go and jump on the conversation. but I find that really funny that no one is ready to back off and when post marker tries to stop them they said that first stop her friend. I just wondering just because they belongs to same fandom they became friend if really they are friends also she is not the one to stop anyone. she just saying to all she don't mention anyone personally. I am really amused that one particular person remark about one character and all blame whole fan. that fandom has narrow mind, they are sick etc why one person remark became all fandom mind set and even some reply to the post in his/her (I don't know what is the person gender but that is really sick I wish him/her to get well soon.) in that manner. I mean really if one person is said anything stupid and you too stoop low like them I am sorry to say but they also came in same level like them. they also said really worst about other character because they assume that they belongs to other fandom I don't think the person with that kind of mentality is belongs to any fandom.

I know many people don't like the fact ragini being positive as she became over night even I can't digest the fact. but the truth is she became one. I know they should give the her proper track and all raglak fan also want this but they don't give her any and that's the frustration is all about. I just wanted to asked you all swasan fan you like the episode just one without swasan no right you even have problem when ragini seen on background where is swasan just think about raglak fan who are waiting for more then one month to have one proper episode with raglak. they don't feel frustrated. and raglak fan I can understand you felling as I am the one but what's the fault of swara or helly if raglak don't get any ss.


p.s. I am really sorry if any off you get hurt by me. I know I am not the person who advice other what to do or what not too you all are mature people you all know what you are saying. I just wanted to said what I fell.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes, this needs to stop ASAP. I mean, they are just fictional characters or just actors who earn a whole lotta money by playing their roles. What do people get on fighting over them?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post Anjale (hope I've got your name right?) 😊
I completely and heartily agree. These kind of " fan wars " bring down the quality of debate and discussion to abysmal levels. And the whole " you started it, no she started it " kind of slanging matches are so pointless, futile and so very, very unedifying.

What do any of us lose by being civil, participating in a reasoned debate? The persons shouting the loudest and using harsh words are proving precisely nothing. 😕 😕

I've said this before, and I'll say this again. There's a key difference between criticising what a character DOES, and criticising what a character IS. Fans writing critiques would do well to remember this; as should fans jumping in to vituperatively defend characters against any criticism.

I join this sincere, heartfelt request. Can we all please create a cordial atmosphere on the forum, where a reasoned discussion can happen, and we can all enjoy ourselves?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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For this, I think 2 things are necessary:
1. Don't bash real persons i.e actors/actresses for a reel character! You can criticize an actor/actress 's work & acting, that too in a polite manner with respect if you don't like their acting! Bt we don't have the right to criticize their characteristics let alone bashing them!
So just stop bashing, name calling or insulting actors/actresses!
2. Open yourself to listen others! You can obviously disagree with others opinion Bt don't stop or bash others for different opinions! Plz have a healthy discussion, debate with respect!
You don't want to agree, fine! Just don't start wars with others for their thoughts!
I really wish a peaceful atmosphere!
Hope I didn't offend anyone!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you @--FlameOfHope- @CogitoErgoSum @Nupur_5 @Unisha123 for commenting & I agree with all of we should must now all take action and stop these wars going here😊 Hope we can all try to have healthy discussion here from now on and avoid bashing especially of the actors!


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even I have been saying the same that why can't both the Swasan fans n raglak fans be together n enjoy the show rather fighting n abusing each other ...
But few things which disturbs the most is that various no of ragya fans keep on asking or aiming for show to shut down n demean Swasan or respective actors a lot...not saying it as a Swasan fan but forum reader...


..I mean they don't understand that everyone is getting to see there favourits only when the show is going on...but again n again comparing both couple with each other n there SS will only leads to fights nothing else...

Plz my request is to all the fans to enjoy the show together n aim for trp to increase so that we all get to see our lovely couples for longer period of time...rather wasting time n energy on pulling each other down...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello there:). I was so glad to see this and I so hope everyone takes note and truly applies this. This forum used to be my second home, I spent hours here discussing so much. Now I just keep to my Ff threads and those of friends and then some strictly limited sensible posts. It's a crying shame the forum has come to this.
We don't all have to agree- be that about characters, actors, plot lines or the state of the world economy! It is after all a public forum and healthy debate can be so much fun. But if only people would follow some simple rules, and basic courtesy, life would be much more peaceful. Prime amongst this is to be respectful of others' opinions no matter how strongly you disagree. The other is not to use offensive language and literally launch cheap personal attacks on actors or others in the forum. Just because we hide behind a keyboard it doesn't remove accountability to act politely. I hope we would if we were talking face to face so why not here?! And I know it's hard and sometimes impossible but there is always a select few who just want to fight and create mindless controversy. I've said it before, the only way to deal with that is to "freeze" them out. Their posts should not get any attention or as soon as a below the belt comment is made, it should be mass reported by both fandoms. To me it doesn't matter which couple you ship. We are ALL at present suffering from bad storylines and inconsistent characters. If we worked together our energies may be better directed. I really liked what you said about that:).

Sorry for my rambling but life is stressful enough without seeing war in a place meant to foster the opposite. I hope we will see a better and more peaceful atmosphere!

Shruti x
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Moral policing is against forum rules - only DT are allowed to tell members what to do and what not to do.
Topic closed

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