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what do u feel about Parineeta?

radha 🦚

@wohradhahai

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Posted: 9 years ago

I feel her insecurity can be justified a li'l but her way is wrong. ..
Like anyone will get insecure if she is childless n the other two bahus are constantly asked for a waaris...
N also, Pari has been the part of the family long b4 SwaRagini. ..but yet everyone is partial..

But also, the way n tareeka she is going on is wrong. ..
So what do u feel?

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ck1234

@ck1234

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Posted: 9 years ago

firstly there was no need to be insecure... when ur alone ur mom-dad love u the most but when u have ur siblings , he too gets love.. may be more then u, but it does not mean that they dont love u... i think pari's insecurity is wrong...

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Shikha

@ShikhaAgrawal

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Posted: 9 years ago

hey ck I think she is somewhere rit bt chooses wrong path I mean the way everybody is upto sr makes her golyk this and its logical

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

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Posted: 9 years ago

MM wasis were supportive and understanding towards Pari. Today is the 1St time someone taunted her. Well Suju went over board today there was absolutely no need for Suju to tell that. But till now everyone was supportive even when Suju asked SR for grandchildren she dn't taunt Pari it was her mom who said that. Meri beti Maa nahi ban Sakthi tho tum log jaldise Punnu ko blah blah. And they never mistreated her too. The way Pari was reacting from last week is bit OTT.

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akanksha

@luvakanksha

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Posted: 9 years ago

Pari is absolutely correct according to me but that does not mean swaragini is wrong

Her insecurity stems from a deep past and that's needs to be understood its not as if it happened only because of her mom's visit. That only excelerated the insecurity. She was married in a highly conservative family which was transformed because of swara. Swara bought about a change in Maheshwaris, where they understood that modernization is not a sin, a person can be sanskari yet modern.

Now parineeta is clumsy and immature (though I am not immature but I am very clumsy some people in my life finds that cute some find this habit to be irritating ) now this flaw is though not highlighted by Maheshwaris but still it's reflected in their behavior where she is given small household works instead of big responsibilities. Like today when she offered to make sweet all by herself ap and sujju were highly doubtful. Sujju clearly said it ap didn't. Now if u don't give her big responsibilities how will she improve her clumsiness. And when big responsibilities are given maturity comes along with it.

Now her insecurity about not being able to be a mother. Now my mom is a working woman, she has an identity beyond the household and we are 2 sisters, yet she is asked about why she doesn't have a boy. I mean just imagine she is a class one working government officer but yet she is asked about giving birth to a boy whenever we visit her village or my papa's village. Here parineeta is just a housewife just imagine her situation in the society.

So her trying to be better that swaragini is not surprising, she wants to prove her importance in the house. Many people are enraged because she is being rude to swaragini but I think she still hasn't crossed the line. She has not disrespected them. Today sujju's dialogue was so demeaning, it was just a mistake and anybody could have committed it. I mean even Ragini was not demeaned like that even though she was a terror as a malkin. No one told her she didn't deserve lucky. Here parineeta was told she didn't deserve to be a mother?

It's my point of view. Her insecurity is justified and fortunately swara and ragini understands that insecurity that's why when Adarsh in the precap told pari to learn from swaragini they cringed at that statement. Because it was like rubbing salt into her wounds

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ck1234

@ck1234

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Posted: 9 years ago

There a lot of difference b etween Ragini rulin MM & Parineeta ruling... Ragini never wanted power, she blackmailed DP because she thought she wld get Laksh... here Parineeta wants Power... She wants key... she wanna control others... Anyways some ppl cant see this difference, they just know to bash Ragini...

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ck1234

@ck1234

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: DivineDarkness
MM wasis were supportive and understanding towards Pari. Today is the 1St time someone taunted her. Well Suju went over board today there was absolutely no need for Suju to tell that. But till now everyone was supportive even when Suju asked SR for grandchildren she dn't taunt Pari it was her mom who said that. Meri beti Maa nahi ban Sakthi tho tum log jaldise Punnu ko blah blah. And they never mistreated her too. The way Pari was reacting from last week is bit OTT.

totally agree... word by word & sentence by sentence...😆

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akanksha

@luvakanksha

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ck1234
There a lot of difference b etween Ragini rulin MM & Parineeta ruling... Ragini never wanted power, she blackmailed DP because she thought she wld get Laksh... here Parineeta wants Power... She wants key... she wanna control others... Anyways some ppl cant see this difference, they just know to bash Ragini...

See I am not bashing ragini, it's just comparing

I can compare pari's situation with sanskar too

Sanskar also slapped swara by mistake, but he was not told that he didn't deserve to be a husband. Everyone heard his point of view and understood its was a careless mistake. But here pari's careless mistake was not understood at all.

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DivineDarkness

@DivineDarkness

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: luvakanksha

See I am not bashing ragini, it's just comparing
I can compare pari's situation with sanskar too
Sanskar also slapped swara by mistake, but he was not told that he didn't deserve to be a husband. Everyone heard his point of view and understood its was a careless mistake. But here pari's careless mistake was not understood at all.

Till they lost contact no one said anything well barring Suju but then even for accidental slap she did balme and shouted at Sanskar. Pari was blasted by Adarsh coz even after losing contact & making mistake she was not ready to accept it. Did you notice the way she behaved when Swara and Ragini were trying to handle situation she didn't had ounce of regret that she lost keys and it might cost them dearly all she wanted to show was her power being badi bahu.

Handling household work is not mean job. That also requires skill and one should know how to manage it well which even after being married for so long and being part of joint family Pari didn't learn or that's what they are trying to portray these days. Did anyone of Maheswari's complain about Pari till now? No only after she started behaving like this Suju started giving back which she truly deserved.

But what Suju said today is wrong no matter what the situation was she shouldn't have said those. That was such a sensitive thing and accusing or mocking at her was rude and heartless thing to do.

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Zaalima_5

@Zaalima_5

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Posted: 9 years ago

#10

absolutely Wrong..😊

She is trying to overcome by making swara's char bad in front of all.. if she is insecure then she should try to build up and cross swaragini's goodness..😛

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