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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: sarra0


I agree he has his own feelings, and that he is frustrated that his feelings r not seemigl getting same importance as other things, if he was to question his importance in her life, where he comes in her priorities i understand because i question it due to how her character and tracks have been written... and while i expected things like swara not telling him things like uttara booyfriend to cause issues, because as u say he is human, he does get hurt, angry, disappointed and when it will b swara the one he loves that will b felt more...but i didnt expect the kangan to cause issues between swasan, because i expected swara to tell him wat happened in order it happened and for anskaar to b relieved she was ok...


In regards to slap there shudnt b a MU between swasan...MU that mm have r going to b constant, they r built that way, iv been expecting them to start and then snowball due to pari and mayb adarsh and so it commences...mm r hopeless when it comes to swasan...


Sarra, if only Kangan was the issue believe me I would not understand it. But I have been telling this to anyone who would hear me - Sanskaar is frustrated as it has been so obvious. There is a reason why we are being shown the hit and miss kisses and all that and the kangan just adds to it. Kangan is the pseudo reason for Sanskaar to react. Physical toh kuch ho nahin raha - emotional mein bhi problem. 🤢 He specifically asked her to not remove those Kangans and she did even if it was much needed there. She may have had good intentions to not tell Sanskaar the truth and I understand that - but secrets kill a relationship and that is a fact. Its a combination of a whole lot than just Kangan. Its all about how you understand the character. That being said, that is one reason I dont like delayed consummation scenes - it just creates a lot of complications. 🥱 And you have to accept, Swara is never the one to initiate any intimacy on their part - it is always Sanskaar. When Sanskaar does it then Swara gives him a peck on the cheek. It is not normal in a husband wife relationship and one would know if they are married. Conjugal rights are a basis of divorce and Sanskaar is a man who desperately wants to romance his wife. 😳 Sorry I cant be more explicit than this. 😆 😆 It is the small things that lead to big issues and these small scenes of Sanskaar trying to be intimate was only to show his frustration and not to satisfy the fandoms need for romance. 😆 Sanskaar has been feeling left out by Swara and with the loss of Kangan - it adds to his frustration - simple. Ofcourse, it takes a lot of Sanskaar obsession to understand dissect all SwaSan scenes 😆

Oh well I did hope that I was wrong about the MU. 🥱 And I will keep my fingers crossed that Swara will set everything straight in front of the family. I am sure MU wont happen because of the slap. Swara loves Sanskaar enough to know that he wont hurt her. Of course I wont get to her priorities. 😆 But yes, given so many secrets are being kept, I do expect the CV's might want to prolong the MU. 🥱 I do hope they end this and move to SwaSan leaving MM with RamTa though. I dont want to see SwaSan separate. I have nightmares when they are separated. 😆😆

Anyways nice discussing with you Sarra. 😳 Been so long that I have had such an interesting discussion. Some time again maybe. 😊

Love
Anna
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: flora212

Lol what is there to fight for! Slap or no slap, sanky is right or wrong, swara is right or wrong I don't care, I am all in for intense Swasan scene. Besides the slap was accidental...Sankey will never think even in his nightmare to slap swara.


Thank God, someone is like me!! I'm so chilled out since I saw the OLV!
We're gonna get some intensity and thats all that I crave for! Hi5 Nafisa😃
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: MusicAddict


Thank God, someone is like me!! I'm so chilled out since I saw the OLV!
We're gonna get some intensity and thats all that I crave for! Hi5 Nafisa😃

add me too in😃
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: MusicAddict


Thank God, someone is like me!! I'm so chilled out since I saw the OLV!
We're gonna get some intensity and thats all that I crave for! Hi5 Nafisa😃

Same here sakshi 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: DivineDarkness


Nupur SwaSan fans do understand Sanskar. That slap was accident he won't even in his nightmare think of hurting Swara so blaming or bashing him for slap is unacceptable. What lead to this situation needs to be seen. Last time too during divorce fiasco even after watching OLV & segments we did give Sanskar benefit of doubt only when episode aired and it was clear it was not his plan we bashed or criticized him well barring SOLO fans.

So this time too most of us will wait to see what led him to react the way he did and then will say if he is right or not. Unlike people who bash Swara no matter what the situation is.

No Leki, I'm not saying about ALL SwaSan fan as I'm a SwaSan fan as well. Yes I'm also a Sanskaar fan & I will accept I relate with Sanskaar more than I relate with Swara! Bt I'm a Swara fan too!
And about SwaSan fan bashing Sanskaar, I said clearly SOME SwaSan fan not all as I'm a SwaSan fan as well.
And it's true some actually bashing Sanskaar already on other sites as well as IF though yeah on IF its very few!
And I'm really sorry that I talked about other sites but I got so pissed off And I'm sorry if I hurt anyone!
And as you are saying about Solo Sanskaar fans, I don't want to say about others! Everyone has their own opinions!
I prefer SwaSan first! And yeah I'm Sanskaar fan more Bt I'm a Swara fan too! But top of all I'm a SwaSan shipper & without any of them there is no SwaSan possible!
I have no problem either that Swara given those bangles given the situation & I have no problem Sanskaar snapping!
Its just a MU & I will repeat myself, I feel more there! I think there is more!
So just wait till epi air!
And I hope I clear the fact that I wasn't talking about all SwaSan fans AND I'm also a SwaSan fan 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anna--


Sarra, if only Kangan was the issue believe me I would not understand it. But I have been telling this to anyone who would hear me - Sanskaar is frustrated as it has been so obvious. There is a reason why we are being shown the hit and miss kisses and all that and the kangan just adds to it. Kangan is the pseudo reason for Sanskaar to react. Physical toh kuch ho nahin raha - emotional mein bhi problem. 🤢 He specifically asked her to not remove those Kangans and she did even if it was much needed there. She may have had good intentions to not tell Sanskaar the truth and I understand that - but secrets kill a relationship and that is a fact. Its a combination of a whole lot than just Kangan. Its all about how you understand the character. That being said, that is one reason I dont like delayed consummation scenes - it just creates a lot of complications. 🥱 And you have to accept, Swara is never the one to initiate any intimacy on their part - it is always Sanskaar. When Sanskaar does it then Swara gives him a peck on the cheek. It is not normal in a husband wife relationship and one would know if they are married. Conjugal rights are a basis of divorce and Sanskaar is a man who desperately wants to romance his wife. 😳 Sorry I cant be more explicit than this. 😆 😆 It is the small things that lead to big issues and these small scenes of Sanskaar trying to be intimate was only to show his frustration and not to satisfy the fandoms need for romance. 😆 Sanskaar has been feeling left out by Swara and with the loss of Kangan - it adds to his frustration - simple. Ofcourse, it takes a lot of Sanskaar obsession to understand dissect all SwaSan scenes 😆

Oh well I did hope that I was wrong about the MU. 🥱 And I will keep my fingers crossed that Swara will set everything straight in front of the family. I am sure MU wont happen because of the slap. Swara loves Sanskaar enough to know that he wont hurt her. Of course I wont get to her priorities. 😆 But yes, given so many secrets are being kept, I do expect the CV's might want to prolong the MU. 🥱 I do hope they end this and move to SwaSan leaving MM with RamTa though. I dont want to see SwaSan separate. I have nightmares when they are separated. 😆😆

Anyways nice discussing with you Sarra. 😳 Been so long that I have had such an interesting discussion. Some time again maybe. 😊

Love
Anna

anna i agree wid on many points epsly that sanky really want 2 take their relationship 2 further level but thats not happening bcoz of one or oder reason.
and yes like u i also don't want delayed CM. its frustrating 2 see this.

but i don't agree that swara din't tell him abt bangles or sanky is less priority 4 her just bcoz she s not initiating any intimacy.
in 2days SBB segment its clear in VaHe IV that sanky din't hear swara & he thot she lost them bcoz of he r carelessness.
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Posted: 9 years ago
@Anna,
Until I read your comment I confess I did not think of this in that way. During the kangan discussion I couldn't understand what was there to bother like this.
But in the light of little indications I admit even something as little as the lost gift would be enough to set sparks on dry grass.
Thanks for making me see this.
Love,
Sakura
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anna--


Sarra, if only Kangan was the issue believe me I would not understand it. But I have been telling this to anyone who would hear me - Sanskaar is frustrated as it has been so obvious. There is a reason why we are being shown the hit and miss kisses and all that and the kangan just adds to it. Kangan is the pseudo reason for Sanskaar to react. Physical toh kuch ho nahin raha - emotional mein bhi problem. 🤢 He specifically asked her to not remove those Kangans and she did even if it was much needed there. She may have had good intentions to not tell Sanskaar the truth and I understand that - but secrets kill a relationship and that is a fact. Its a combination of a whole lot than just Kangan. Its all about how you understand the character. That being said, that is one reason I dont like delayed consummation scenes - it just creates a lot of complications. 🥱 And you have to accept, Swara is never the one to initiate any intimacy on their part - it is always Sanskaar. When Sanskaar does it then Swara gives him a peck on the cheek. It is not normal in a husband wife relationship and one would know if they are married. Conjugal rights are a basis of divorce and Sanskaar is a man who desperately wants to romance his wife. 😳 Sorry I cant be more explicit than this. 😆 😆 It is the small things that lead to big issues and these small scenes of Sanskaar trying to be intimate was only to show his frustration and not to satisfy the fandoms need for romance. 😆

Oh well I did hope that I was wrong about the MU. 🥱 And I will keep my fingers crossed that Swara will set everything straight in front of the family. I am sure MU wont happen because of the slap. Swara loves Sanskaar enough to know that he wont hurt her. Of course I wont get to her priorities. 😆 But yes, given so many secrets are being kept, I do expect the CV's might want to prolong the MU. 🥱 I do hope they end this and move to SwaSan leaving MM with RamTa though. I dont want to see SwaSan separate. I have nightmares when they are separated. 😆😆

Anyways nice discussing with you Sarra. 😳 Been so long that I have had such an interesting discussion. Some time again maybe. 😊

Love
Anna


Her debating not telling him because he wud worry about her, or the next time she goes out b over protective i wud understand, may not agree with her decision but debating i can understand..but when its connecting to the kangan she shudnt hide it...but a quick comment seems like sanskaar didnt hear her out...need to go read about segments to c...yes secrets do kill, swasan strong point was communication they cud talk, i hope they dont ruin it to much...
Unfortunately many shows after marriage or consumation dont know wat to show, and the way they had done swasan marriage i wanted some moments of theres without consumation being shown becuse pist it i didnt want them not to show anything...

There have been times when she has kissed him, which i dont think he has really done.. u mean intimacy with intent of leading to connsumation, yes she hasnt..

MU because of slap i dont expect esp between swasan, that will b a non issue between them..but kangan dialogue hinted at swasan seperation...i dont want swaragini vs mm...i want swasan out of mm together...but with word like batwara being thrown out and promise of DP to give swara wat she wants when she does im hoping swasan leave united...

im glad it was a sunday so i cud discuss, during the week i wud have missed out...
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: tiny15

@nupur tho i agree wid u on most of points abt sanky but i don't think any swasan fan has said or blamed sanky 4 hitting swara.bcoz all know that snaky will never ever hit her intentionally or purposely .

all r saying that MMwasis r stupid 2 think that sanky will ever hit her. atleast i m not at all angry on sanky 4 getting angry on swara 4 those bangles if he thinks she lost them in he r carelessness. i think swara din't tell him abt goons thinking he"ll get panicky or she was abt 2 tell him but sanky got angry thinking she'd lost them as she doesn't care abt him.

btw i think plz theres no need 2 say that who r swasan fan s& claims 2 luv sanky doesn't understand him.

wen swara gave away those bangles then its said that she cares less 4 sanky's feelings just bcoz she thot abt sum1else's family's well being. i don't think if u cares abt sum1's well being as a human being makes u care less abt ur luv or husband.

I will say same what I said Leki above!
I wasn't talking about ALL SwaSan fans and how can I when I'm also a diehard SwaSan shipper and without any of them SwaSan is NOT possible!
Yes I agree I'm more Sanskaar fan as he is the most rational and human character among all but I'm a Swara fan too!
Bt few (as I told on my comment) SwaSan fan was bashing Sanskaar already! I will also bash him if he is at fault like I did during devorce track!
And I have no problem at Swara giving bangles to goons given the circumstances! At the same time I have no problem at Sanskaar snapping!
I'm just waiting for epi to air!
And I think I made clear that I'm also a SwaSan shipper first 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: tiny15

anna i agree wid on many points epsly that sanky really want 2 take their relationship 2 further level but thats not happening bcoz of one or oder reason.

and yes like u i also don't want delayed CM. its frustrating 2 see this.

but i don't agree that swara din't tell him abt bangles or sanky is less priority 4 her just bcoz she s not initiating any intimacy.
in 2days SBB segment its clear in VaHe IV that sanky din't hear swara & he thot she lost them bcoz of he r carelessness.


@Dolly, Lets agree to disagree here. 😊 My personal belief is that Sanskaar is not her priority as everyone else is or has been. But thats my opinion - I am not forcing it on you. I respect your opinion. 😊

As for Swara telling about the bangles, I am sure she will. She may even lie in her good intentions but does not have to be that Sanskaar should listen to her does he? Being married, I know how physical intimacy is important in any relationship and I am sure you too notice the desperation that Sanskaar has - right? My only reason for believing that Sanskaar did not listen to Swara is because he is already not happy about their intimacy (almost leading him to ask her if she loved him or not) and then the bangles go missing. I am sure if he listens to Swara he will understand because if he did not - that wont be Sanskaar. But if in the spur of the moment - he notices the bangles are not there - he will have a strong reason to be angry. They have been setting the basis of an MU and Sanskaar's sexual frustration (there I said it) in every SwaSan scene - this is just the outburst of that and that is all I am saying. 😳


And of course we can agree to disagree about it maturely. I accept your POV - I just dont agree with it. I dont need to bash anyone to make a point. 😊


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