Talking about manners - Mod Note pg 9

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: MusicAddict
Hey Aditi!!
It's Sakshi here. Well, I do understand your point. And it ain't fake on my part I assure you. I understand how it might have pained you to hear these comments on RagLak. And of course everybody is different and henceforth likes are bound to differ. But the point is that those people made that ppst because they didn't want a foursome. (You can check I wasn't there.) Well, like many of you LOATHE Swara( I know you people do) many of us loathe RagLak so theybdidn't want a foursome. But of course, that is different from hearing a convo by chance right?
I hope you agree that this forum needs peace

i agree wid u completely.i m a swasan fan as both individual & couple.i used 2 like ragz more than swara wen she was docile but never liked her 2 much docile nature.the 1st instance i started disliking her wen she pushed swara & bad mouthed abt her mother after dadi instigation & even disconnected 2 her & loathed her & also laksh.i only cudn't loathe her much bcoz of my liking 4 teju.

i just can't connect 2 raglak so i don't want 4sum also.a bit of interaction i won't mind but its not possible as both swara & ragz r sis & SILs also & DILs of the same house. but thing is laksh was judged harshly bcoz he was shown barging widout knocking many times in past & present even if unintentionally .even ragz did it many time tho much lesser than him.i know swara also once did that .once in a while its ok esply if situtn demands it.

and ppl r irritated also bcoz CVs r forcefully trying 2 show swaragini & sanlak bond w/o raglak apologising & doing sumthing 2 swasan.the day CVs will show this i won't hav any prob on this.CVs not just rushed raglak track but rushed it illogically.

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StarshineHues

@StarshineHues

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: MusicAddict
Hey Aditi!!
It's Sakshi here. Well, I do understand your point. And it ain't fake on my part I assure you. I understand how it might have pained you to hear these comments on RagLak. And of course everybody is different and henceforth likes are bound to differ. But the point is that those people made that ppst because they didn't want a foursome. (You can check I wasn't there.) Well, like many of you LOATHE Swara( I know you people do) many of us loathe RagLak so theybdidn't want a foursome. But of course, that is different from hearing a convo by chance right?
I hope you agree that this forum needs peace

Hi Sakshi !! Yeah I know you're being completely genuine - I've seen you and Shonali around and I respect the both of you. I know you weren't there in that post, and a lot of ppl don't like to see the foursome together, but honestly, if you go back and look at that thread, there were comments like "Manners toh hai hi nahi, bas ghuse chale aa rahe hai kamre main dhada dhad", "and accept the truth laksh has always done this.he has no manners.earlier so many times he entered swasan room widout knocking or just like that", and shit like "once in a while its okay but he does this every time". In fact - you'll find these comments in this thread as well.

And its exactly this kind of lack of objectivity that really gets to me - if the action of "barging in" that day, so to speak, was wrong, then so was the act of listening in yesterday. If the intentions have to be discounted - then they should be discounted in both cases.

And yeah, I def agree that this forum needs peace. Its becoming really really nerve-wracking coming here, but that's not going to happen till at least the derogatory expressions and language being used here so openly and commonly (in fact as accepted slang) here are curtailed. I agree that the problem is there on both sides, and both sides have wonderful ppl too, but that's not going to matter if there is a constant barrage of insults and mocking from the remaining 80% of the fandom. Things like overnight couple, HAQ couple, mannerless couple, physical couple, kamini...are going to pinch at some point.

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Mallika-E-Zain

@Mallika-E-Zain

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#63

@Aditi
Of course I do get it and honestly for me that post was not required hence never commented. But my point is like you say it hurts when RagLak are called those names, even people from your fandom do that right? Of course they come in the 80% as you said and sincere apologies on my part if I'm sounding rude as that is clearly not what I intend to do.
If you say that post was unnecessary, isn't this one also then? That one was harsh isn't this one also then? If you people are angry with us or bash us for that aren't you doing the same thing to answer us back? What difference remains? You are blaming us for what you did isn't it??
Name-calling is bad!! All points agreed. And your take on the peace of the forum is just the same as mine. All I wanted to convey was that why to make such a post which creates havoc in the forum just for revenge and then blame others when you yourself did the same thing now..
Thats it!! I guess I wrote quiet long...phew😆
Sorry for the long boring saga!! But thats what I feel and I guess I do have the right to put forth my views na?

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

#64

ppl who r calling oders posts & views as shit saying that they want peace & r innocent.😲😲this shows the level of thinking of ppl & how much they respect oders POV wen they call posts stating facts shown in the serial as shit.🤢🤢

and wats wrong in saying accept the truth that laksh is manner less & once in a while its ok but he does that always.

really this makes posts shit??.wats wrong in these comments??

is it not truth shown in the serial by CVs themselves??

is it bashing laksh or telling wat type of his ckt is. din't he so openly disrespected his elders & even slapped his elder & humiliated a woman??r these manners??😲😲

wow just bcoz ur fab ckts has flaws that 2 serious one ppl shudn't state the facts & those posts r shit.

i wonder why mods hadn't taken notice of such posts?

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Moderator

@Moderator

Global Moderator

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Posted: 9 years ago

#65

Having reviewed this thread, it is clear that members have completely diverted the discussion away from the main topic of discussion which was based around swara listening into adarsh and parineeta's conversation.

Time and time again we have warned members against bringing in fights/discussions that have occurred in previous threads into current/new threads as this creates unnecessary fights between members.

Majority of this thread consists of discussing another thread's discussion and involves attacking fandoms, which is against forum rules. Members are adviced to discuss in a civilised manner without targeting each other and categorising each other into any sort of rivaly/fanwar as this is creating an unnecessary negative atmosphere in the forum.

Lastly, this thread shall remain closed but we do advice members to learn to respect each other's opinions regardless of whether or not you agree with them.

For further concerns, please feel free to approach any member of the Development Team of this forum!

Regards,
I-F Development Team

Edited by Yuvika_15 - 9 years ago