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Posted: 9 years ago
What even is going on here. I'm not part of any so called "gangs" here. But this is so disgraceful. I am not a friend of Jwala. But I feel that some individuals (I'm not going to name and bully.. because that's not the way I do things) have been absolutely horrible to her. Please try not to target people directly because of a fictional show and fictional characters.
Saying someone's "not important" and saying their words are "BS" is just not a nice thing to say. And to see people of this forum 'like' such insulting posts is so sad. It's completely fair enough basing fictional characters but not actual people. Because that's not fair. You don't know those people personally and what they are like. You can't just target them online like this just because of something they posted.
I have no issues with a constructive argument... That's what humans do.. They disagree and agree... But targeting individuals and hurting them is not the same. That's bullying and shameful. And to do that on a public platform, shows only the negatives of your personality. And liking of such posts is as cruel as making them.

P.S I'm not a saint. I probably myself have done similarly rude things. But this just stood out to me and so posted.

I hope admins close this post.
Edited by Vt-Cl - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Vt-Cl

What even is going on here. I'm not part of any so called "gangs" here. But this is so disgraceful. I am not a friend of Jwala. But I feel that some individuals (I'm not going to name and bully.. because that's not the way I do things) have been absolutely horrible to her. Please try not to target people directly because of a fictional show and fictional characters.

Saying someone's "not important" and saying their words are "BS" is just not a nice thing to say. And to see people of this forum 'like' such insulting posts is so sad. It's completely fair enough basing fictional characters but not actual people. Because that's not fair. You don't know those people personally and what they are like. You can't just target them online like this just because of something they posted.
I have no issues with a constructive argument... That's what humans do.. They disagree and agree... But targeting individuals and hurting them is not the same. That's bullying and shameful. And to do that on a public platform, shows only the negatives of your personality. And liking of such posts is as cruel as making them.

P.S I'm not a saint. I probably myself have done similarly rude things. But this just stood out to me and so posted.

I hope admins close this post.


Btw, just to clarify that was not meant for Jwala. It was meant for people who think we have time to get involved in 'name calling' them when we dont know them personally. So yes, they are not 'important' in my life personally and thats not bullying - that's a honest opinion Just like I know I am not important in most of your lives and really that does not make me upset and neither am I hurt. 😆

And Nitzy mentioned 'BS' for the conflict of Swara v/s Sanskaar and not the person - I guess she has complete right to call what she thinks is BS right? To each their own right?

And you were very subtle about not naming people. Thank you 😆


Edited by --Anna-- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
I have a request guys, I think we should bash cvs unitedly and Stop fighting with each other , CVS are just playing with our emotions isn't it so ?😆
Even when I posted here first time I said that I am not liking the way cvs showing the track... people who like it please don't mind , I just said I am not liking the current track...
so If we bash cvs for ruining our dreams and expectations brutally by MU track, then new maalkin track , then atariya aunty track and now Sautan track so yes they deserve bashing and if we bash them it does make some sense..there's no point in fighting with each other I thing when we need to fight with the stress cvs giving us in form of their mind blowing negative ideas...
I think we are just misunderstanding each other and in that way unknowingly hurting each other , that is not a right thing to do na?
So please , bash the people who are responsible for this difficult situation, our one and only enemy , the cvs..
Well I don't know whether I will get reported or not for openly requesting all for bashing cvs but it's okay as we are all friends here and it really hurts to see that we are getting hurt by each other for something which is cvs fault actually ...
so please bash cvs for this situation, they are torturing us and they are the only reason for what we are now fighting against each other even when we know that we all are swasanians...
So My point is why not bash the real culprit ? and Stop fighting ? We were united against all odds and we should remain united against our latest enemy:
SWARAGINI CVS 😆
Edited by Vaibhi. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anna--


Btw, just to clarify that was not meant for Jwala. It was meant for people who think we have time to get involved in 'name calling' them when we dont know them personally. So yes, they are not 'important' in my life personally and thats not bullying - that's a honest opinion Just like I know I am not important in most of your lives and really that does not make me upset and neither am I hurt. 😆

And Nitzy mentioned 'BS' for the conflict of Swara v/s Sanskaar and not the person - I guess she has complete right to call what she thinks is BS right? To each their own right?

And you were very subtle about not naming people. Thank you 😆



I'm sincerely sorry if I misinterpreted your post.
You have every right to do whatever you like my dear. I was just stating that I don't think is very nice. But it's completely up to you if you want to be nice or not. I'm not going to force niceness up anyone's throat. 😆 I even felt after posting my first post that it was a bit of a preach and sounded like a mum.
I know that whatever I say is not going to be taken positively and constructively, so why waste my own time.

P.s You are important, may be not in anyone's life in particular, but in general. Everyone is.

Adios Amigos
Edited by Vt-Cl - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Vt-Cl

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">What even is going on here. I'm not part of any so called "gangs" here. But this is so disgraceful. I am not a friend of Jwala. But I feel that some individuals (I'm not going to name and bully.. because that's not the way I do things) have been absolutely horrible to her. Please try not to target people directly because of a fictional show and fictional characters.</font>

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Saying someone's "not important" and saying their words are "BS" is just not a nice thing to say. And to see people of this forum 'like' such insulting posts is so sad. It's completely fair enough basing fictional characters but not actual people. Because that's not fair. You don't know those people personally and what they are like. You can't just target them online like this just because of something they posted.</font>
<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">I have no issues with a constructive argument... That's what humans do.. They disagree and agree... But targeting individuals and hurting them is not the same. That's bullying and shameful. And to do that on a public platform, shows only the negatives of your personality. And liking of such posts is as cruel as making them.</font>

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">P.S I'm not a saint. I probably myself have done similarly rude things. But this just stood out to me and so posted.</font>

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">I hope admins close this post.</font>

Alright so I was having a nice evening and My friend messaged me that some one have problem with my terminology. You found that wrong fine... See what I feel is BS.. I will call it that.. And this whole Swara vs. Sanskaar fight is that.. If you have read further than my first line in my reply u would have understood that.. I have no personal problem with Jwala or anyone else.. If I would have I will talk to them personally... So please stop trying to twist my words. I am very laid back person.. I dont like fights and that is why U will see only 4 post of mine here on this thread.. out of which only 3rd one is a full blown essay .. those were my views .. I said that.. and I was ok with that..and well this is 4th and the last. I hope I made myself clear what I meant by that word.. Thank You..ciao
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Posted: 9 years ago
GUYS PLEASE I HAVE A REQUEST (POSTING IT AGAIN AS I REALLY THINK SOMEONE NEEDS TO DO SOMETHING TO STOP THE MINI MAHABHARAT HAPPENING HERE)
I have a request guys, I think we should bash cvs unitedly and Stop fighting with each other , CVS are just playing with our emotions isn't it so ?😆
Even when I posted here first time I said that I am not liking the way cvs showing the track... people who like it please don't mind , I just said I am not liking the current track...
so If we bash cvs for ruining our dreams and expectations brutally by MU track, then new maalkin track , then atariya aunty track and now Sautan track so yes they deserve bashing and if we bash them it does make some sense..there's no point in fighting with each other I thing when we need to fight with the stress cvs giving us in form of their mind blowing negative ideas...
I think we are just misunderstanding each other and in that way unknowingly hurting each other , that is not a right thing to do na?
So please , bash the people who are responsible for this difficult situation, our one and only enemy , the cvs..
Well I don't know whether I will get reported or not for openly requesting all for bashing cvs but it's okay as we are all friends here and it really hurts to see that we are getting hurt by each other for something which is cvs fault actually ...
so please bash cvs for this situation, they are torturing us and they are the only reason for what we are now fighting against each other even when we know that we all are swasanians...
So My point is why not bash the real culprit ? and Stop fighting ? We were united against all odds and we should remain united against our latest enemy:
SWARAGINI CVS 😆
Edited by Vaibhi. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Lavender_Love

Alright so I was having a nice evening and My friend messaged me that some one have problem with my terminology. You found that wrong fine... See what I feel is BS.. I will call it that.. And this whole Swara vs. Sanskaar fight is that.. If you have read further than my first line in my reply u would have understood that.. I have no personal problem with Jwala or anyone else.. If I would have I will talk to them personally... So please stop trying to twist my words. I am very laid back person.. I dont like fights and that is why U will see only 4 post of mine here on this thread.. out of which only 3rd one is a full blown essay .. those were my views .. I said that.. and I was ok with that..and well this is 4th and the last. I hope I made myself clear what I meant by that word.. Thank You..ciao


I genuinely don't know who you are hunny. I've never talked about you. 😆

This is the post I was talking about. And I've finished off the conversation with that individual already.

Originally posted by: --Anna--


I dont have problem with you Vaibhi - I am not a part of your gang and you are not part of mine -but it is very clear to everybody with your response to Jwala what you intend to say. I did not quote you till now because I did not mind your words, but your reply to Jwala is clearly for someone who has hurt her. I dont care if you read my posts or not - because that does not matter to me. And yes, I did feel you indirectly referred to my posts because I am the only one here who has stood up to Jwala's BS. If you did not, then I am sorry. No one else has been straight on her face though so its but obvious. Just like you dont think I have right to tell who PMs who, Clearly she has no right to tell me whether to stay on a thread or not. Support your 'hurt' friend for all I care but if you do make snide remarks on 'horrible ways' and stuff, even if not for me, but my other friends - I will support them too. Consider us doing this for our respective bunch of friends. Peace 😆

And let me tell you darling, I have not been rude with you at all. 😆 Very rude ki toh baat hi nahin aati. Except telling you about the PM thing - I only mentioned about Jwala's attitude in dealing with HER post which is NOT right in my opnion. Why are you taking it so personally?



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Posted: 9 years ago
I was just trying to peace keep. I hereby accept my defeat. I'm not suited for this job. 😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Vt-Cl

What even is going on here. I'm not part of any so called "gangs" here. But this is so disgraceful. I am not a friend of Jwala. But I feel that some individuals (I'm not going to name and bully.. because that's not the way I do things) have been absolutely horrible to her. Please try not to target people directly because of a fictional show and fictional characters.

Saying someone's "not important" and saying their words are "BS" is just not a nice thing to say. And to see people of this forum 'like' such insulting posts is so sad. It's completely fair enough basing fictional characters but not actual people. Because that's not fair. You don't know those people personally and what they are like. You can't just target them online like this just because of something they posted.
I have no issues with a constructive argument... That's what humans do.. They disagree and agree... But targeting individuals and hurting them is not the same. That's bullying and shameful. And to do that on a public platform, shows only the negatives of your personality. And liking of such posts is as cruel as making them.

P.S I'm not a saint. I probably myself have done similarly rude things. But this just stood out to me and so posted.

I hope admins close this post.


I hope you dont mind me butting in. :D
The answer lies in your post itself, it is a public platform and we were all trying to put forth our views. And Those words that you have mentioned above are not for the TM. That was the members letting out their frustration and it's perfectly okay. We're not gods here and there is a limit to everything. We have been quite all these days and that does not mean that we are OK with what is happening here. But that's a different story now and I don't want to get into that.
And nobody has been trying to bully anyone here. What are we in 3rd grade? It was just people putting their points accross that went horribly awry because everybody started jumping to conclusions. But it's okay, that is perfectly normal. It was building up inside us and it is finally off everyone's chest today and I dont think this will happen again.
And we are all swasan here and we know each other. We love the couple and are here for them. Hopefully the worst was over today. 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
Yes it is all the CV's doing. So everyone (myself included) should just have patience and keep faith in the couple that we claim to be fans of and watch the show. It cant be all lovey-dovey moments. There will be lows with highs. We should take them both with grace.
Peace Everyone. :)

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