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Posted: 9 years ago
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I was dreading to come to the forum after today's episode,as I knew there will be Sanskaar bashing , but this post really made my day . Hugs for you for this amazingly heart felt post . 🤗 🤗
I totally agree with every word of yours. Sanskaar has been heart broken too many times , although it was not Swara's fault , but it was definitely her naivety . So I cant blame Sanskaar for behaving the way he is . 😔
And those who think , that they are butchering Sanskaar's character , well , if making a character REALISTIC and not MAHAAN is butchering a character , then I wish all the characters were butchered like this . 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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why u think Sanskar is hurt more then Swara? because he help her to expose Ragini? if I am not wrong he is the main reason for Swara's today he drugged her, spoiled her Image break her marriage and when she knew the reason she forgive him like in blink and for doubt she ask him 2 time u want to tell me anything?😕 don't get me wrong love sanskaar that doesn't mean I blem Swara for whole thing he lied and he hurt not because of revenge purpose. she grow up without family so she want perfect family and that's any one in her place want no big deal. If shanky pretending then I feel awesome but if it's not then again she got pain in love second time😔
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Posted: 9 years ago
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totally agree with uuu😊👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dipali13

why u think Sanskar is hurt more then Swara? because he help her to expose Ragini? if I am not wrong he is the main reason for Swara's today he drugged her, spoiled her Image break her marriage and when she knew the reason she forgive him like in blink and for doubt she ask him 2 time u want to tell me anything?😕 don't get me wrong love sanskaar that doesn't mean I blem Swara for whole thing he lied and he hurt not because of revenge purpose. she grow up without family so she want perfect family and that's any one in her place want no big deal. If shanky pretending then I feel awesome but if it's not then again she got pain in love second time😔


Love and pain always go hand in hand.. We relate to both characters and both are right in their characters.. But swara's character had seen too much in an early age that made her a rescuer of crisis situations.. But personally a person should instead look out for a more realistic way to handle problems.. Especially when it comes to love.. Love is not just where you make the other person happy. It's where you make the other person realise their mistakes and help them cope up with it. If Sanskar keeps giving her whatever she asks for it won't justify his love at all. He should actually make her realise what she is doing. Isn't that what a mother does, make you realise your mistakes and help you cope with them even when they give you pain. She knows that it's worth the pain and she lets you go through it even if it's breaking her heart
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post :) I don't blame sanskar for not believing swara as he said she has this need to fix everything for everything to be just so , if sanskar had not given her a jhatka and told her to leave after the kidnapping fiasco she would have happily played we are BFF's let's divorce now Game with him for a lifetime !So its unfortunately going to take more than a simple ILU for him to trust her again .I get swara's POV also her childhood were she was deprived of a father and her idea of a perfect family is the reason the way she is were she will forgive literally anyone for anything case in point her sis if she thinks it will maintain that facade of a perfect family in her head ! Basically both are in a state were they have allowed the insecurities they have in life take a hold of them which is getting in the way of their happiness ! Hopefully both of them will overcome this soon and get together :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi Nalini (right??)

Re divorce papers: Firstly Swara isnt particularly bright. She just appears to be intelligent😆 I watched an old episode yesterday & it is very very easy to fool her. Nothing has changed there😆


Re the confession scene: Yes it was cute! College romance cute. But should she be going for cute at the moment? Sometimes I feel she just hasn't grasped yet exactly how much damage she has done to her relationship with Sanskaar. All her efforts to win him back are so childish that you would think he is just upset because she ate the last piece of his cake. Notes & smileys are cute when it a little MU but here you have broken his trust. Cute isnt going to work. She is still in her naraaz hai, manaa lungi overconfident mode. He is her new mission. A thing on her to do list which she needs to mark off as "done" in 5 days max😲 She needs to realize it ASAP that what if I cannot manao him? She needs to feel that dread & devastation which will come with that idea that there is a very real possibility that she might lose him. Only then will she put serious effort into her relationship.

Trust issues is what broke them. Only complete trust on her part can possibly mend this relation now. Trust him & his love. Trust him when he says he doesn't believe that you love him. Instead of trying to prove him wrong try changing your behaviour till you reach the point where even he accepts that yes she does love me. Dont put him & his acceptance on a schedule. Give him time like he did you. Trust your love to do the talking. You have observed him do all this to you, you just have to imitate him now Swara!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: bennetlizzy

@sonu..5 days or no Sanskar will love her.. And she can get back anytime into his world.. But with patience ..as i have said if she had done that 5days mein husband in shapadh before Sanskar he would have asked her to get out ...like now.. In shouty capitals.. If she really believes that she is in love she should be like Sanskar.. I'll wait...

Yea I understand she is scared and all.. But thats just not going to help.

@foresight ye aabout that precap.. I felt the same.. Sanskar was there to her right on the stairs ..listening to her every word.. And I hope ki she has some normal PYAARI line.. Not like taking up an oath.
And for hormones.. That's just me kidding:)..

@anna yes I can relate to both and it was beautiful.. Yet not upto the notch considering that sanskar's character has much more depth, his confession and his feelings carried too much weight and depth with them


Agreed -Swara should really get her priorities a little better and please give Sanskaar some time. That is what I had written in a earlier post (letter from Swara to Sanskar) in which the letter ended saying - "And I shall continue doing so (loving you) - even if you refuse to hear me, listen to me, acknowledge me or accept me. I have learnt perseverance in love from you - I shall continue to love you and hope for a chance at forgiveness.

Take your time, don't worry. I'll wait forever, if that is what it'll take you to forgive me."

And I would have liked it if Swara had said the above lines - walked to the door, turned around and said -"And just because I said I would wait forever, I hope you do not make me wait forever,"


And please, have her actions suit her confessions, her feelings and her words. Not take vows to change Ragini / resolve MM issues etc., while crying bucket loads 😡

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think it's too early to hate Durga Prasad as I strongly believe that Ragini was the mastermind behind it. She must have blackmailed him for Annapurna's treatment money.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: The.Lannister

Hi Nalini (right??)

Re divorce papers: Firstly Swara isnt particularly bright. She just appears to be intelligent😆 I watched an old episode yesterday & it is very very easy to fool her. Nothing has changed there😆


Re the confession scene: Yes it was cute! College romance cute. But should she be going for cute at the moment? Sometimes I feel she just hasn't grasped yet exactly how much damage she has done to her relationship with Sanskaar. All her efforts to win him back are so childish that you would think he is just upset because she ate the last piece of his cake. Notes & smileys are cute when it a little MU but here you have broken his trust. Cute isnt going to work. She is still in her naraaz hai, manaa lungi overconfident mode. He is her new mission. A thing on her to do list which she needs to mark off as "done" in 5 days max😲 She needs to realize it ASAP that what if I cannot manao him? She needs to feel that dread & devastation which will come with that idea that there is a very real possibility that she might lose him. Only then will she put serious effort into her relationship.

Trust issues is what broke them. Only complete trust on her part can possibly mend this relation now. Trust him & his love. Trust him when he says he doesn't believe that you love him. Instead of trying to prove him wrong try changing your behaviour till you reach the point where even he accepts that yes she does love me. Dont put him & his acceptance on a schedule. Give him time like he did you. Trust your love to do the talking. You have observed him do all this to you, you just have to imitate him now Swara!!




Yep it's nalini.. I'm so glad you remember..
And I hope I'm right when I think that you are shruthi.. Please forgive me if I'm wrong.. I'm still learning to link the names and ids ..


About the divorce papers, it's not actually about her smartness but about the weight she has given to it. Any person who is head over heels in love with a guy who just gave her the ultimatum should have that etched to her head. It makes me think that she actually took him for granted. She didn't actually think that he would cold shoulder her, deny her claims of love. She voiced her fears to shomi but she thought Sanskar can never deny her. That he would do anything for her. She thought if she could just let him know that she is reciprocating he would be on his knees in his shining armour.

Yea devastation and fear can do. But she should also feel too little before his love. She should see the magnitude of it. Not the so called desparation. She should empathise through every one of his feelings may it be his love, devotion, respect, trust. He gave it to her whole heartedly and with out expectation. The thing that hurt him the most is not that she didn't trust him. It's that she didn't trust his love for her. That she thought him capable of hurting her. The love of his life. Looking back didn't he say a million times to her to not insult his feelings. When he said tumhe pareshan mein dekh kar sabse jyada dard mujhe hotha hain.. This is what he meant.. You just don't see how much I love you

He is an actual epitome of love. Seriously after Noah Calhoun I haven't seen a guy this deeply in love.

And finally this show has two sections. One is swaragini.. Nonsensical..
Second is the love story sawsan are going to portray . I haven't seen any RS shows but I can see how much nonsense they carry. One doesn't have to watch these shows to say so... The adv are enough. But this is going to be their best couple ever..and they will/should make sure it rocks the stage ..if not, well I don't have to say. They have two brilliant young actors who put in everything they have, such chemistry. It will be a shame to not handle the future properly. They better realise that before they cross some stupid line.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: TeriGalliyan.

I think it's too early to hate Durga Prasad as I strongly believe that Ragini was the mastermind behind it. She must have blackmailed him for Annapurna's treatment money.


Nope I don't hate him. I just hoped he acted smart. But Annapurna and Durga Prasad had something really big going on in the past..

I don't doubt sanskar's parentage or anything but.. It seriously has something to do with keeping his family together. Annapurna laksh and sanskar they are his weak points..let's wait and watch

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