my view on the epi..update about 22nd dec

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have just watched the epi..
And I'm furious.. Like "I wanna gundown the you know who's behind the episode" serious

Point number one ... And they goddamn are never gonna explain it for sure.. How in the name of hell did bade papa get those divorce papers?
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Why in the name of hell did he have them get signed? For money? Wasn't sanskar all in for it.. I'm furious I'm sorry..and cant understand brilliant so called James bond lady didn't think for once why there is the white paper in between that lot of green? And why doesn't she remember that piece of paper looking at which she should have cried the Ganges..his sign for heaven's sake.. If I were her that piece would be in my wildest nightmares..and will be hauting me to death... But the lady in love here doesn't even consider it.. Like a white in btw green short and with his sign.. I'm sorry I'm so furious at her so called brainyness.

And the confession scene ...it was cute the way she put those messages up.. But seriously swara he said the apt things about you. He knows you better than you do..he was goddamn right.. She wants perfection satisfaction family.. You are missing him and you are just starting to love him lady ..I say so because if he accepts your love ill bet anything that the next min you will ask him to cooperate with you in winning mm back.. Its not about putting him on number one priority dear its about holding on to it.. To live it at least for a min.. Its his heart.. Not some toy.. True..I really think that she should think deeper about how much he loves her. Not just about how much she misses him..its about how much he had gone through..about why he is moving away.. She should see that he loves her and is pretty scared about it.. She should understand the power she had on him and that she still has.. Right now you are like I love you and you are angry because I didn't trust you..and you think its his zid.. God you need some serious brainwashing from your mom...he is not pushing you away because you have hurt him once.. He is doing it because you have hurt him over nd over again , unintentionally may be but you did.. And you need to live every single moment to understand the depth of his feelings...

When I see sanskar he shows how much she means to her for the whole episode. And she has to show that for two min.. Cry and say again.. Mein jeethunga thuje..whats that.. Ehsaas dilaunga is fine.. But you are supposed to give him time.. As much as you push him he will think that you are the one ziddi to win your missions and made him a mission too..


Sorry if I'm hurting anyone's feelings guys.. Though the confession was heartbreaking for swasan it was much of a heart break for sanskar.. In this state he wont be anyway ready to have hope.. And that completely justifies his character..

The later episodes should have swara realising the actual essense of love.. Not just binding friendship family and perfection guilt and missing a person..those don't define love (for me..atleast)


Update on 22nd Dec episode

Guys have you all heard this.. He said I have just one thing to say to you now.. Tumhe ek bar bharosa thoda.. Algli baar yeh galthi math karo.. He was conveying that he is trusting her that she didn't sign..
And he was so mask faced before everyone..

I crossed my 20 posts so updating here..
Edited by bennetlizzy - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agreed with each n evry point as sanskar's pov.
I m 100% agree with wht sanskar said 2day.life z nt perfect,u cnt mk it always ri8.u hv 2 adjust it with time.luk aftr cnfrntatn also she z behind tht photo.i knw she wnt 2 help thm bt still.
Sanskar love her so much.he z protecting himslf 4m anothr heartbreak.he needs time 2 accept swara's lv nw.infact sanskar always shw his love by silently suporting her.bt swara cudnt,nt even thr frndshp & trust.swara shud do smthng & win him bk.&as 4 prcp i thnk he wntd swara away 4m mm thts why he willnt say anythng.&may b sanskar blv swara sign in divorce papr as her lst cmnt on thr cnfrntatn 2day.bt tht allumini-i dnt thnk sanskar will fall in ragini's trap.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I Agree with you. Swara needs to show him that she is really in love with him. Its not guilt or any other necessity that he says it is. He has the right to be scared, she has broke his heart a lot of times. I would however like her to put him first which she is yet to do. That he is all she cares for. And this is just day 1 of the 5 day challenge let s see what she does in the next 4 days.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Definitely agree with everything.
Though, I think both Swara and Sanskaar are in immense pain, I understand Sanskaar's more because he has been hurt more. One day confession of love cannot solve anything.

Also, Sanskaar is the most human character in the show and I am glad they have kept him that way. 😊 His need to protect himself, I understand that totally. Just like I always understood Swara's need to protect herself. They are both SO beautifully shown - its not difficult to relate to either of them.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@sree,bt before 4 days cmplete,swara will b kicked out na.thn hw will she manao him 4m outside of MM??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I completely agree with you. As sad as it might seem, the moment he accepts her love, she will tick it off her "to-do" list and move to her next mission. He will back to becoming her second and third or last priority after everyone in the family. She will immediately go after the ghunghatwali, ragini, dadi, property loop hole, mistreatment etc etc etc. Sanskar will again have to wait for his number to come. I wanted to bang my hand against my head today when he said "you want things to be perfect; made right" and then right after that the showed up the coming up part with her leaving for badi but before going saying "i will come back; i will make everything right here!" I was like, oh god! not again! please please for once focus on sanskar if you want him to believe that you really love him; and at least stick to that for a few days. how does it help him believe anything if the next morning you prove that his concerns were true!! 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have been watching previous episodes where swa - lak confession took place.. All I felt was that for swara love is something where in a husband stands with you to support you for life time.. She lost a father for most of her life and she would obviously draw out such an image for a husband.. Her priorities were friendship, understanding and the guy stating that he won't let anything happen to her.. Didn't she say laksh ke desperation dekh kar mujhe laga ki vo mujhse Bahuth pyar kartha hain.. There in no reciprocation that she thinks the girl should be showing too.. Like she should care for the guys feelings.. Should adjust as much the guy is adjusting..That marriage is a mutual affair.. Not that you marry someone and expect him to walk through hell with you even if you don't reciprocate with them and forgive you when you beg them to..so that you can keep doing the same.. Jab dekho ma baba ragini MM wasis...love is not about friendship and missing ...arey yar iska hormones hai ya Nahin?
Lagtha hain swara has too many principles and too less hormones...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Swara is yet to truly understand love, but as you have said, it is not her fault. her definition of love is derived from her maa baba and padosi!! think about what shomi told her about love before she realised it "sacha dost might be her jeevan sathi!!"
love is more than just friendship, missing and even hormones. it is truely feeling the pain when the other person is going through tough times, it is standing by them, it is willing to do things for them that you wouldnt for anyone else, it is about them being on your mind more than anyone else is. while she is showing some of these things, she is basically not at the critical stage where his pain hurts her more than it hurts him - the way sanskar feels when swara is in trouble. she will experience that depth only with time and when she realised truly what she is losing out.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@sonu..5 days or no Sanskar will love her.. And she can get back anytime into his world.. But with patience ..as i have said if she had done that 5days mein husband in shapadh before Sanskar he would have asked her to get out ...like now.. In shouty capitals.. If she really believes that she is in love she should be like Sanskar.. I'll wait...
Yea I understand she is scared and all.. But thats just not going to help.

@foresight ye aabout that precap.. I felt the same.. Sanskar was there to her right on the stairs ..listening to her every word.. And I hope ki she has some normal PYAARI line.. Not like taking up an oath.
And for hormones.. That's just me kidding:)..

@anna yes I can relate to both and it was beautiful.. Yet not upto the notch considering that sanskar's character has much more depth, his confession and his feelings carried too much weight and depth with them
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amrtina

😭 So sad episode


That's okay sh.. Pyar hai hi aisa cheez...the distance will only make her realise more of him..it should..and he is right to move away because it's better to stay away now and accept her when she completely understands herself than .. Accept her now and feel bad later...if it's the second option he would be dead inside.. His heart had already gone through a lot...I would rather see an angry broken Sanskar this way than see a dark lifeless Sanskar
Edited by bennetlizzy - 9 years ago

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