Originally posted by: tootiefrootie11
Vaibhi
Yesterday I too got very unusually irritated and went hell for leather in responses. Today I have decided that speech is silver, silence is golden. Swathy is right. If a post doesn't get much attention it dies off. I actually really enjoy constructive debates but when the person posting is predetermined and biased enough to only want to provoke a reaction and then simply twist all the counter arguments made, it makes the whole thing pointless. I keep remembering your post yesterday- kya farak padta hai one?
My point with the whole Sanskaar more bad or Lakshya debate is - the basic question(s) is flawed. The issue is one of context and fact and degree. The fact and degree are always dictated by context. So Sanskaar being wrong in the past is not in argument. He gentuinely accepted accepted each mistake and went above and beyond to correct this. Swara forgave him, but she has also forgiven Laksha. The fact that she doesn't want to immediately get back together with him, is a separate issue. When she forgave Sanskaar she didn't jump into a relationship with him, and he never expected that- he still doesn't. So if Laksh genuinely repents and redeems himself we shall forgive him too. But that is against separate from wanting him reunited with Swara. See- two total different threads being twisted to deliberately provoke arguments.
Let's be happy and make our posts as we see fit without the intention to hurt or upset or anger.
Love xoxo