Lakshya's mistrust,a bigger crime than Sanskar's drugging?-DTNote pg27 - Page 4

After Sanskar apologised:
1)Helped Swara in every way Possible
2)Kept her happiness his First Priority throughout
3)Believed her over his Brother
4)Stood against his Family nd left the House even though he had Just reunited with them
5)Accepted all his crimes infront of his Family and tried to clear Swara's image as much as he could...e.t.c

When Laskh apologised:
1)Kept pestering Swara to come back to him even though she Said NO.
2)Didn't give 2 hoots to her Wishes & Happiness
3)Didn't even think about her reputation and Entered her room in the middle of the night
4)Joined his Wife in the world of Delusions
5)Manhandled/Blackmailed Swara
6)Following his Wife's orders but mind you,he doesnt believe her at all...e.t.c

He has to earn her forgiveness... Not beg and Threaten for it.
Plus ,forgiving him and Getting back together with him are two different things...We don't want Swara to get back to him bcuz Sanskar is the best.Period.

I tell you what.. Getting drugged by someone who is completely unknown to you is way better than getting mistrusted by someone who means d world to you.. Nothing breaks you more thn that.. (In context with the storyline)

N also,Apologising for your mistakes is something every other person does but Feeling d same is diff and going to every longer length to seek it is completely diff.!

I wish how Lakshya had atleast once realised what had he got to himself and swara but no.. He jus knows one thing.. I love swara and I will get her back!

Legally and Practically, Drugging is a heinous crime over mistrusting anyone.

Originally posted by: guest28

At least he is doing it to his lover 😆
Not his brothers love 😃
Cheap I say 😊

he z nt doing to his lover bt to his Bhabhi
hw cheap nah? 😊

& manhandling ur lover z right in ur eyes? 👏

Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Krystal...Hi. while I am a massive SwaSan fan, I do agree with you on one thing: Sanskaar's actions in the past were misplaced and vindictive. I dont dispute that.

My point is very simple: as human beings, our expectations of loyalty, trust, affection and constancy are MORE from the people who have an important place in our lives. ...not from those who have only a tangential role.

For example, I have higher expectations from my husband, my parents than I have from my husband's cousins. Or from my assorted uncles or aunts.

Ergo, it also follows, that if someone very close to me violates that bond of trust, I would feel more hurt, more betrayed than if this was done by someone not so close to me.

I'm just saying, that at the time Sanskaar did all this horrible stuff, he was not anyone really important to Swara. He repented sincerely, and has been a complete bedrock of support to her since then.

Lakshya was her fiance. He didn't trust her, maligned her in front of his whole family, and kept trying to degrade her after she entered the home as his sister in law.

Mind you, I am not saying this is unforgivable. He was impulsive, impetuous, and frankly speaking, juvenile. But his behavior, till then, was inexcusable without being unforgivable.

But my simple question to you is this: and please, please, reply as a woman, as a human being. Not as a Lakshya fan. Has he just repented for that and sought forgiveness? Or is he also seeking to browbeat swara into coming back to his life?

She has already forgiven him right? And has told him clearly, that she has done so? She has also told him clearly, about 2 dozen times, that she does not want to resume their relationship and will not come back to his life.

My feeling that Lakshya is doing something very wrong now, is based purely on his coercion, harassment and stalking of Swara. You may want to accept it or not, but after Sanskaar's realization of his love, he never once tried to force Swara. He didn't try to emotionally blackmail her, nor did he ever even once withdraw his friendship.

I am open for a genuine, cordial discussion Krystal. But before casting stones on SwaSan fans, I think you ought also to recognise that there are SwaLak fans who make inflammatory posts simply to provoke. Which was done yesterday by someone else, I am not blaming you personally.

This is all I have to say, and I hope that you will be able to stick to the same cordiality with which I have replied. If not, then well, this is the last you will hear from me on this matter.

Thanks for your time

Cheers

Originally posted by: Rishabala693

And calling bhabhi characterless who would get into bed with a stanger to fulfill her mission without even trying to find out the whole truth

I don't think lakshya has ever apologised for calling her characterless

nah nah acc to them their lakshya z always right 😆

wasted precious 3 minutes of my life swasan fans do not waste ur time

inke fav character ki tarah in logon ka bhi upar wali khali hain

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

So pushing Swara against the cupboard was love? 😕 You didn't answer that? How come you SwaSan fans drool over that manhandling scene and call it "love"? Double standards?

Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Krystal...Hi. while I am a massive SwaSan fan, I do agree with you on one thing: Sanskaar's actions in the past were misplaced and vindictive. I dont dispute that.

My point is very simple: as human beings, our expectations of loyalty, trust, affection and constancy are MORE from the people who have an important place in our lives. ...not from those who have only a tangential role.

For example, I have higher expectations from my husband, my parents than I have from my husband's cousins. Or from my assorted uncles or aunts.

Ergo, it also follows, that if someone very close to me violates that bond of trust, I would feel more hurt, more betrayed than if this was done by someone not so close to me.

I'm just saying, that at the time Sanskaar did all this horrible stuff, he was not anyone really important to Swara. He repented sincerely, and has been a complete bedrock of support to her since then.

Lakshya was her fiance. He didn't trust her, maligned her in front of his whole family, and kept trying to degrade her after she entered the home as his sister in law.

Mind you, I am not saying this is unforgivable. He was impulsive, impetuous, and frankly speaking, juvenile. But his behavior, till then, was inexcusable without being unforgivable.

But my simple question to you is this: and please, please, reply as a woman, as a human being. Not as a Lakshya fan. Has he just repented for that and sought forgiveness? Or is he also seeking to browbeat swara into coming back to his life?

She has already forgiven him right? And has told him clearly, that she has done so? She has also told him clearly, about 2 dozen times, that she does not want to resume their relationship and will not come back to his life.

My feeling that Lakshya is doing something very wrong now, is based purely on his coercion, harassment and stalking of Swara. You may want to accept it or not, but after Sanskaar's realization of his love, he never once tried to force Swara. He didn't try to emotionally blackmail her, nor did he ever even once withdraw his friendship.

I am open for a genuine, cordial discussion Krystal. But before casting stones on SwaSan fans, I think you ought also to recognise that there are SwaLak fans who make inflammatory posts simply to provoke. Which was done yesterday by someone else, I am not blaming you personally.

This is all I have to say, and I hope that you will be able to stick to the same cordiality with which I have replied. If not, then well, this is the last you will hear from me on this matter.

Thanks for your time

Cheers

Viji dearest !
I was about to reply this post when saw ur comment...totally mirror my thoughts...Couldnt have put it much better

Originally posted by: Pihu.k11

I tell you what.. Getting drugged by someone who is completely unknown to you is way better than getting mistrusted by someone who means d world to you.. Nothing breaks you more thn that.. (In context with the storyline)

N also,Apologising for your mistakes is something every other person does but Feeling d same is diff and going to every longer length to seek it is completely diff.!

I wish how Lakshya had atleast once realised what had he got to himself and swara but no.. He jus knows one thing.. I love swara and I will get her back!