The Misused And Overrated Concept Of First Love! - Page 3

Originally posted by: dazzpari

Your post is amazing I agree with you word by word. Actually the first love is only when you meet your soul mate.
Here in case of swara sanskar and laksh, laksh is first person in swara's life who introduced her the idea of love but wasn't able to match her antics.
Sanskar is the person who is matching with her antics and even after acknowledging his love towards her never claimed it, slowly he is becoming her soul mate and as you said that if the path is leading her towards sanskar it's worth.

Thank you so much.

I believe Lakshya was just a path that will lead her to her true love, Sanskar. Her breakup with Lakshya was important for her to finally realize that she belongs with someone else.

Originally posted by: Havvii

Fifu 🤗
are you watching this show?
I recently started to watch it and loving swasan.

OMG Soumy 😲

Heyyy!!! 🤗 . How are you??

Yes I am watching this show. Wasn't a regular at first, but then I came across SwaSan's chemistry and now I just can't stop.

Yay you're Team SwaSan too. We almost always fall for the same couple 😳😆

Originally posted by: PRINCESS_ALISHA

Beautiful post and i completely agree witg u.

Thank you 😊

Originally posted by: -Swetha-

^ Beautiful post by u, @TM! 👏

Thank you 😊

Originally posted by: ssroomani

Lovely post! 👏 Swara is definitely falling for Sanskaar but she needs time to be alone and feel which she just does not get now with Ragini's machinations and Lakshya's obsession. She always looks to Sanskaar when she is upset or confused...even today when she came back from RagLak room, she was searching for him. She will realise it soon...

Thanks!!

So true. With Lakshya and Ragini's constant hounding, she can hardly find any time at all to just sit down and think about what she wants for her future. All she needs is some self realization to finally click that it's Sanskar she wants. Hopefully she'll get that chance soon.

Originally posted by: moonstonespirit

This is brilliantly written!! Agree with every word you have written!!

Just because you experience those new feelings with someone first doesnt make that person your true love. If the person is your true love, it would have crossed all the hurdles that came in its way. Its not chronology that matters but what matters is the depth of your feelings for the person you are involved with. Love is a evolving process. It grows with time. But if its base itself is weak, it will crumble within days. But once you find a strong base, it will evolve into something that lasts for ever.

Coming to Swara, Sanskaar and Laksh, how can a person who resorts to emotional blackmail to tie the person he loves to himself love her? If you truly love someone, you would want them to be happy. This is where Saanskar and Laksh differ. Saanskar puts swara's happiness before his, while Laksh tries to force swara into acceptance. Sanskar asks her to make the choice while Laksh makes the choice for her. Sanskar respects her feelings while Laksh puts forth his without any consideration to her feelings. Its not enough to feel the love, you need to have the strength to sustain it too.

Thank you 😊

Loved what you said. Exactly. Love, when it's true, manages to pass even the hardest of tests. If it doesn't, it wasn't meant to be in the first place.

That's because even the person doing the emotional blackmailing realizes how fickle his feelings are. Which is why he is resorting to such cheap tactics.

Sanskar is a brilliant character. He had the courage to own up to his mistakes in front of Swara and when he fell in love, he declared it openly without worrying about anything else, even his mother who is against having a Bengali daughter-in-law. But never did he even once force that love on Swara. Even when she mocked his love.

Thank you for this post! It's wonderfully insightful 😳

Couldnt have agreed more with you.

Originally posted by: Sehru_life

well written post :))))

I agree , i dont know why people keep saying first love is always true love,

i agree on the point first love is when u experince LOVE and that's what swara had with laksh

he is the first guy she experinced feelings for, but sanskaar is her true love, true soulmate

and i'm loving the space of storyline, and its good that cvs r not rushing swara feelings for sanskaar.

waiting to see how story going to unfold😳

Thank you!

True that. It's just an experience of many in the long list that has or will occur in your life. Doesn't mean you're supposed to keep on holding on to it. Not when something better comes by.

Even the CVs recognized the potential of SwaSan. Which is why they hinted at a romantic angle between them during the fake marriage track. I am positive they will go through with this.

I don't want Swara to confess to her love for Sanskar at this point. It would be so random and out of the blue. Yes she's developing feelings for him, but she's still scared to jump in fully. I like how realistically they are taking this romantic angle so far. I want Swara to accept Sanskar because she feels she'd always be happy and safe with him, only then should she give in to her feelings and start truly accepting his love while reciprocating her own.