Pyaar nibhaana maine apne pati se sikha hai

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ok. This is just a general opinion of mine. But, I see a nice resemblance between Sanskaar's love in Swaragini and Vanraj's (portrayed by Ajay Devgan) love in Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam (one of my favourite movies BTW. I became a fan of Ajay Devgan after watching that movie).

Both Sanskaar and Vanraj are really selfless when it comes to love.❤️ Yes they are short-tempered but they know how to love genuinely and unconditionally. In HDDCS, Vanraj (Nandini's husband) lets go of Nandini (Aishwarya Rai) because he thought her happiness was with Sameer. He desperately wanted to have Nandini in his life but his love was so pure that if it meant he needed to sacrifice and set Nandini free for the sake of her happiness, he would gladly do it. He put stones over his feelings and tried his best to give Nandini her happiness. But, at the end, Nandini ends up falling in love with Vanraj and decides to stay with him.😊

There is the epic dialogue at the end of the movie that Nandini says to Sameer: Pyaar karne maine tumse sikha hai...Par pyaar nibhaana maine apne pati se sikha hai.
This dialogue can be applied to SwaSanLak case as well.

Sameer was Nandini's first love but Vanraj was her true love. ❤️ In Swaragini, Laksh was Swara's first love. He made her familiar with the idea of love. But that love was not strong enough. But, Sanskaar is her true love. Sanskaar taught her how to value and respect love and how to behave in love. His love entwined with his respect for Swara has won her heart. She only needs to realize it now.😳

I made this post to point out that-- Swara-Sanskaar's relationship is kind of similar to Vanraj-Nandini's. Both are married couples. Both husbands love their wives like anything. Sanskaar's and Vanraj's love for their respective wives are pure and selfless. Swara's happiness means the world to Sanskaar, 😳much like Vanraj's love for Nandini. Most importantly, both relationship have a common ingredient very crucial for the success of any marriage: RESPECT. Nandini respects Vanraj and the man that he is.

Similarly, Swara respects Sanskaar very much. Let's be honest, she cannot respect Laksh. So, in my opinion, Swara-Laksh is doomed. On the other hand, SwaSan has every important element required to sustain a marriage. Irrespective of the circumstances in which they were married, they have a very healthy relationship. Their mutual trust and understanding, and RESPECT for each other is just fantastic.

In HDDCS, Nandini realizes her love for Vanraj at the end and she knows no matter what, she can't be with Sameer anymore. In Swaragini, Swara has not YET realized her love for Sanskaar. But when she does, she will know for certain that she is meant to be with Sanskaar and that her relationship with Laksh can never be. Also, she herself doesn't want to be in a relationship with Laksh. (BTW, I am not comparing Sameer with Laksh. Sameer was a genuinely good guy. He never forced his love, unlike Laksh. There is no comparison at all. I am just talking about Vanraj's and Sanskaar's love)

So, I wanted to share my view and draw a parallel between Vanraj-Nandini and Swara-Sanskaar. Much as I love Sameer (Salman Khan) in that movie, Vanraj as a man was at a league of his own. His love was plain awesome. Much like Sanskaar's love for Swara. We know how HDDCS ends. Vanraj and Nandini unite and remain married. If my intuition is right and the CVs don't mess up, then SwaSan will have the same fate. Swara and Sanskaar will remain married and be in love forever.

I am a firm believer in: Love grows with time. Swara's love for Sanskaar will grow with time (I mean she is already in love with him. But, with time, that love will multiply). But as Mr.Darcy said, "My good opinion once lost is lost forever. Swara will never respect Laksh as she once (probably) did. Without respect, there is no trust. Without trust, there is no true relationship. So, Swara growing respect for Laksh is out of the question, at the moment.

People scared about the fate of SwaSan like I am, please console yourself SwaSan is destined to be⭐️ and Swara-Laksh is already doomed😡. SwaSan is true love and no matter how many hurdles there are, true love always wins.❤️ SwaSan will win and remain together for life. I needed to think positively about SwaSan. Therefore, made this post.

If you have watched HDDCS, don't you think Vanraj's love and Sanskaar's love is similar?

PS: I am drawing comparison between these couples, not to belittle anyone. I just genuinely love both these love-stories and want to appreciate them.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I very much agree Swara witnessing pyar nibhana kaise kiye jate hai from Sanskar, so selfless he is. So soon she will too fall in love with Sanskar.😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post
Hope that cvs don't mess this up
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: missfilmy

I very much agree Swara witnessing pyar nibhana kaise kiye jate hai from Sanskar, so selfless he is. So soon she will too fall in love with Sanskar.😊


Yes. Sanskaar's love is so beautiful. As for Swara, I think she is already in love with Sanskaar. She just doesn't know it. Ragini knows though and she is going to create problems for them😭. I have faith in SwaSan. They will get through everything and their love will win.
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It's not copy! It's different story. Swaragini is brilliant as its different love story. I don't watch bloody hell Bollywood movies anymore long time.
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Originally posted by: Amrtina

Awesome post

Hope that cvs don't mess this up



Yeah. I pray the CVs don't mess it up.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing post !!!
I totally agree with you 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: samia32

It's not copy! It's different story. Swaragini is brilliant as its different love story. I don't watch bloody hell Bollywood movies anymore long time.



Swaragini is brilliant, which is why I watch it religiously. I am not saying that CVs have copied anything. I am just saying that co-incidentally, Vanraj's approach to love and Sanskaar's approach to love are kind of similar. A fact, I love. I really appreciate the similarity betwen their love because both loves are true. Sanskaar and Vanraj, both know what true love is. Since Vanraj-Nandini's love won, I am sure SwaSan's love will win too. That is my point.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Annei123

Amazing post !!!

I totally agree with you 😛



Thank you. I love SwaSan and I love the movie, HDDCS. Just wanted to draw a parallel between the two beautiful love stories.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beautiful thread... totally agree with you. 😊

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